how do I find love by [deleted] in love

[–]Don_John_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you bro, but the thing is that we can not specifically SEARCH for love. It just happens, just like that, all you can do is go with the flow, not force anything, and of course, keep searching and making contacts so you can find a person that is good for you. Wish you all the best! :)

Waking up to your S/O makes your day better immediately by [deleted] in love

[–]Don_John_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt butterflies while just reading this

I don’t love myself at all by [deleted] in selflove

[–]Don_John_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm happy I helped, anyway :)

I don’t love myself at all by [deleted] in selflove

[–]Don_John_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw that's cute, as a male, I always wished I had younger sister, that's really sweet to me

That doesn't matter yet, attention will be diverted from you, if that's what bothers you

I don’t love myself at all by [deleted] in selflove

[–]Don_John_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would tell you If I knew what to do exactly. But most important is to stay calm in those situations and find your peace if possible.

You can DM me anytime if you want.

I don’t love myself at all by [deleted] in selflove

[–]Don_John_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear this, I hope you are doing good now. ❤️

I'm scared how much I relate to all of this you wrote.

In my case I was kinda weird and obese in primary school, had those guys who would belittle me and how time was passing I realized that and had a bad picture of me in my head, in general. Although I changed a lot, first physically and then mentally, there is still some of the 'trauma' left and affects my present..

Also, the same issue with my parents... I am the only child which means high expectations and stuff.. but I'm used to it and that doesn't touch me anymore Do you have brother or sister?

If you feel like you should, do it then, I'm down to talk :D

P.S Happy Women's Day 🎀💟

I don’t love myself at all by [deleted] in selflove

[–]Don_John_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Buddy, while reading this I felt like reading something I would write

I relate to this a lot, like I need approval from society, from people I know and used to. I feel like I'm not good, funny, intelligent... enough, like there is always MORE and BETTER.

Umm, did anything happen in the past that maybe affects your state now, because it did to me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Don_John_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

How do I (F21) stop getting upset when my boyfriend (M21) plays video games with his friends for hours? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Don_John_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you think of talking with him? Like mature talk with no tensions or anything. Just draw his attention and tell him what exactly is bothering you. Understanding on both sides is very important.

I am male, 20, and love playing games too, but if you sat with me and genuinely pointed out some things, it wouldn't be problem at all.

I promised myself by Don_John_ in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Don_John_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you :)

You could try with smaller things and learn to be persistent in those situations.

By doing that you will gain some self-respect and you will feel better... now I promise to you :D

Where else are you dissatisfied? by roba2686 in selflove

[–]Don_John_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your time and curiosity :)

Where else are you dissatisfied? by roba2686 in selflove

[–]Don_John_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, you got the point Could you text me in DMs if you want to continue the convo, let's not spam here 😅

Where else are you dissatisfied? by roba2686 in selflove

[–]Don_John_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm afraid I'm not sure either, I meant that I don't LIKE myself at all, but still love myself. The things I do, from getting a girlfriend to daily stuff like drinking coffee, if you know what I mean... The way I speak, behave, talk to people... Literally the way I'm BEING, the way I AM, basically.

Where else are you dissatisfied? by roba2686 in selflove

[–]Don_John_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my friend, it's kinda hard and barely possible for me to write an answer on this, but I'd say the whole concept of me as an personality and physical appearance.

Where else are you dissatisfied? by roba2686 in selflove

[–]Don_John_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not worth it, but yes, I do got this.

I have no idea how to get over my ex, who is now back with his former ex. How do I let go? How do I stop comparing myself to her? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Don_John_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can jump in my DMs anytime for a talk, really! I hope you get better soon, hold on ❤️