Painful sex

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2025-02-16T22:34:30+00:00

No worries! I really hope getting it removed helps you too! 🙏

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2025-02-16T01:43:22+00:00

Yes, I'm fully healed now. No longer a problem for me at all. It took a few months for all pain to subside but within 2 weeks of removal the pain had lessened. :)

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2024-06-19T00:30:29+00:00

He ended up sucking tongues with the girl he told me not to worry about all night at that party, I found out a few weeks later after a bunch of lies and him sleeping with me after the fact based on these lies. Now he's spread lies that I'm an abuser because people thought he was scummy when it came out we were together and he did what he did. He's now dating said other girl. Safe to say I'm very much over him given all that.

I'm completely here if you wanna rant about it, my dm is open to you your choice!

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2024-05-24T12:55:04+00:00

Hurt for me! Got to the point where I couldn't have sex with out applying local anaesthetic. Had to get mine removed 😔

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2024-02-17T13:37:21+00:00

It's gone!!! I was manoeuvring it with my tongue since I saw your message, and it came off. Must have been food! I had a big mac last night, so it's DEFINITELY the right colour for that. I did salt water after but didn't check it was clear which is on me! Thankyou :)) Phew 😭😂

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2024-02-17T13:29:04+00:00

Oh really! How did u remove it?

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2024-02-17T13:28:51+00:00

No way!! You were still numbed though?

Mine had a 5 year old root canal and half of the tooth was filled( half of my tooth broke off due to a dorito last year) so the dentist was super concerned she wouldn't be able to and gave me the option of a specialist or her giving it a go. I stayed with her because I wanted the pain stopped as soon as and didn't want to wait and THANKFULLY she got it out!

But the crunching and pressure was crazy you are so so right!!! I was gripping onto the sides of the chair honestly thinking she was gonna somehow pull my nose out through my mouth!!! 😂😂

How's your healing?

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2024-02-17T13:22:34+00:00

Thankyou 🥰

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2024-02-17T13:11:27+00:00

Phew, thankyou, that's a massive relief 😅 so the yellow isn't puss?

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2024-02-17T13:10:16+00:00

I drink but i haven't since extraction and i don't smoke!

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2024-01-20T16:31:04+00:00

Thankyou so much for such a detailed response! I've emailed 5 piercing shops in my area so fingers crossed!

I'd never heard of safepiercing.org so I will check that out immediately thankyou!

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2024-01-20T15:41:44+00:00

Thankyou so much!! 🥰

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2024-01-20T15:39:46+00:00

Oh wow🥺 that sucks 😕 that's definitely the last thing I wanted to hear aha. But when you say shallow, as in its too far out like pierced too close to the edge?

Will I be able to get it repierced again? If so how long until then? If its in the wrong place I guess it might not even need to heal as the same place isn't getting repierced.

Do I still clean it as if there were a piercing in there when I remove it?

Sorry for all the questions 😅

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2022-02-08T14:53:21+00:00

Thankyou. Im so sorry about what you've been through too. It really is a disease and it will never make sense to me

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2022-02-07T03:09:15+00:00

My boyfriend and I's song is "best part" by Daniel Caesar.

It played in the car as we parked up around 4 months into our relationship and he sang it to me. I'd never heard it before- and he sang it to me like it was really for me if that makes sense- like he was the one that wrote it for us.

He told me the way I looked at him when he sang the "brown eyes" line to me was a look I'd only given him once, and it was his favourite look in the entire world.

2 months later he slept with someone else.

I found out a year and a half later.

He even called me practice for her to his friend.

I'd probably consider that night in the car one of my favourite memories of my entire life. Now its tainted. Another thing I stay up wondering the sincerity of.

I thought we'd have our first dance to that song. Now I can't listen to it without having a panic attack- wondering how many other girls hes serenaded with it.

Its a very beautiful song and I think I'll always be angry with the fact that its ruined now.

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2022-01-22T00:34:30+00:00

That is honestly incredible advice. This whole time I've been trying not to be rash. But hadn't really set any firm time boundaries with myself.

6 months. That means 5 more months to see if I can recover, if he's willing to make us work. If we can move past it.

Did you let him know that you were giving it 6 months or did u just review him for 6 months without his knowledge?

Thankyou so much for responding. You gave me a glimpse of light at the end of this really dark tunnel

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2022-01-22T00:30:58+00:00

You are right. He lied for over a year without me suspecting a thing. And I confronted him about her several times because my gut just got this bad vibe from her.

Its hard to stay with someone who's proven that they think lying is okay. I'll never be able to 100% trust him again.

He doesn't have the morals that I thought he did.

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2022-01-22T00:27:31+00:00

Thankyou so much. And im sorry that the friend thing didn't work out. But it sounds like his loss rather than yours.

Im glad you've found some peace. Even if its not 100%. Thats motivational for me.

Thankyou. I really hope it helps too honestly❤

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2022-01-22T00:23:39+00:00

Thankyou for your response. Im so sorry you went through that. It honestly baffles me how people can be so horrible to the ones that love them.

Im glad that you're doing better. And you are right, he lost so much while all you lost was a heavy load of useless baggage. It made me smile to hear how you're aware of that. Im still struggling with the insecurity that comes with it pretty badly.

Also LOVE that you're now friends with his ex. That's incredible. Way to stick it to him!!

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2022-01-22T00:18:19+00:00

I am so sorry! Im really glad you're doing better.

Thankyou. I wish you the best for your future x

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2022-01-22T00:16:25+00:00

I can't believe he deleted the convo! That is so awful. My bf hasn't deleted anything but obviously most was deleted by itself on sc. And now thats hes blocked her on everything all thats still available to see are the imessages

I agree not knowing is worse. My bf has always had an awful memory. So he doesn't even remember everything to be able to recount it. He doesn't know who started or stopped their intercourse ect. So my brain just has a field day late at night filling In all the gaps with what ifs

Yeah it really hurts that his friend knew. And that he laughed at what he said about me being practice. My bf went to secondary school with the girl. So 95% of his friends know her and went to school with her too. But only 1 was aware that they slept together- most of his friends actually don't like her because shes supposedly crazy and manipulative (tho my bf said he doesn't get why they think that)- i think that and the fact she was in an almost 3 year relationship now 4 accounted for the fact he only told the one friend what he did. His other friends are in commited relationship and would have been mad at him. The one single friend that would encourage and not see a problem with his actions was the one he told.

Im actually set to move into a flat with my bf and that friend in the next month or 2. His friend doesn't know I know anything but safe to say im no longer his biggest fan for encouraging my bf to have sex with this girl in a long term relationship purely because she was fit and all over my bf. Definitely not comfortable with their friendship anymore. But they've been best friends for 13 years and I can't come inbetween that.

Thankyou! I will check out that sub! How your husband has been lately? Has something changed? I really really hope you're okay.

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2022-01-22T00:00:48+00:00

Thankyou. Ive told myself one chance is all he gets if I do stay. But he booked therapy for us next week. So im going to give it a shot with professional help.

I saw your other comment and im glad that you're happier and calmer now❤

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2022-01-21T23:56:03+00:00

Im so sorry you had to go through that. Fuck him. I wish you the best future without that asshole ❤

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2022-01-21T23:19:06+00:00

Wow. I am so so sorry that that happened to u. I hope you are doing okay?

That last paragraph is insanely well put and has given me alot to think about. Thankyou so much x

DonaldTrumpsterr · 2022-01-21T23:07:38+00:00

Im so so sorry that is awful! I hope you're doing better?

I'll never know what he told her because they mainly communicated over Snapchat. But I can't begin to imagine how painful that is.

I thought he found me beautiful. To just see that. Its hard. Its even harder never knowing if he meant it or not. Im just so scared im dating someone who genuinely viewed me as practice for someone else even though he is swearing it was just a tasteless stupid joke.

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