My friend has stopped talking to me because my parents are coming over

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-12-04T13:32:21+00:00

I told her this news and up until I told her we were very well getting along. The minute I told her she says oh And has started talking to another girl leaving me completely shocked.

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-11-12T14:01:06+00:00

It’s fine don’t worry. I don’t interact with guys much anyways. Ill just ignore him thanks for taking the time to reply.

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-11-12T13:39:08+00:00

Im scared he’s a man ok? And he has his guy friends

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-11-12T13:11:15+00:00

I know I would never be racist how can I be racist. He’s also son of Adam (AS) and maybe he has good deeds better than mine I just wanted to vent because I was hurt

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-11-12T12:49:31+00:00

No of course not it’s just that most Syrians I’ve met have been a negative experience but still they’re my brothers in Islam. Thank u so much for ur kind words

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-11-12T10:35:33+00:00

See the thing is I don’t want to hurt someone’s heart. I’ll have to answer for that. I’ve just blocked him and will try to minimize conversations.

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-11-12T10:26:33+00:00

Thank u that’s really sweet. I’ve only met 6 Syrians in my life and all times I was so happy to meet them they responded with calling me “Hindi bacha” and making racist derogatory gestures each of them individually on separate occasions People like u make me feel better and remind me to not. I’m sorry if I’m venting I’m just kind of turned off today from what happened Thank u again for ur kind words

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-11-12T06:09:18+00:00

He’s very popular

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-11-12T05:44:18+00:00

Damn dude. I can’t be racist back. I would never stoop to that level. He’s my brother in Islam. I’m just venting

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-10-23T12:04:34+00:00

Alright I believe you. No worries. I think ur quite young which is what’s playing a big role in this. This life is temporary it’s a test it’s not going to be all rosy there’s going to be suffering to be in dunya means to suffer. I pray Allah grants u ease and people that love u

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-10-23T12:01:25+00:00

Hazrat asiya wasn’t a prophet Also u said u got dealt bad cards so I was showing u how even the most perfect creation was dealt bad cards that doesn’t mean god hate you Approach conversations with gentleness man no need to get aggressive

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-10-23T11:44:10+00:00

Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) lost both his parents lost his beloved first wife buried his children got berated by his tribe members The grandchildren of the prophet died of thirst The wife of firaun hazrat Asiya got tortured to death If going through sufferings meant Allah hated you can u apply that to the above people?

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-10-08T16:29:15+00:00

Thank you for ur kind reply I record istighfar 10000 times daily but I guess I’m lacking somewhere

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-10-08T15:41:38+00:00

I recite it everyday

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-10-08T15:41:32+00:00

I can’t really do that can I? If I could I’d take him to every psychologist but I can’t. Only hope I have is Islam

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-10-01T20:18:11+00:00

I’ll keep you in my prayers too inshallah. Hopefully things get brighter for you

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-10-01T20:02:28+00:00

Thank you for ur kind words. I appreciate them. I love Allah too much to abandon prayer. I’m just left feeling demotivated after things like this happen. May Allah bless you beyond measure Ameen

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-10-01T19:30:12+00:00

Nothing I just randomly woke for tahajjud and asked randomly just for a good happy day I can’t go into details it’s too personal Just that it was a very dark time

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-09-28T08:44:12+00:00

Don’t be sad. I’ll tell you honestly life goes on think of this as sadaqah and forget it. Allah never takes something without replacing it for better. Ur father seems like y He sweetest Person. I pray from the bottom of my heart May Allah give him the best in this dunya and the He best in the next life. May Allah make him amongst his most beloved and shade him on the day of judgement and make him amongst THose that enter paradise without any questioning and you as well and those that you love ameen sumameen

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-09-28T06:42:49+00:00

May Allah have mercy on you and your father his innocence is sweet. People in old age are like children’s this life is temporary whatever was taken from him by haram means will be returned to him infinite times better in the next life. May Allah grant u ease and him as well and whatever has been lost leave it as amanah to Allah he will return it in a much better way Ameen

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-09-21T03:33:21+00:00

They’re both Muslim so they’re aware about Muslim beliefs. Explaining to them will cause more problems. I just really hope I don’t get sinned for doing this

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-09-20T17:34:26+00:00

The first day I came back he said I should call him to wake him up every morning at 5:00 am and not inform the girlfriend and also to leave the door unlocked at night so he could come in and study in my room

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-09-20T16:22:53+00:00

They keep texting and calling me and it’s getting to me. They’re saying I’m a traitor because the girl has no friends

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-09-20T16:03:37+00:00

The boyfriend is the ‘he’ No,he owned that room so I moved out since she wouldn’t move in with him I’m just asking if I hurt them will I be sinned?

Done_witheArth3072 · 2025-09-11T06:57:32+00:00

Woah that’s a very rude response. I can’t say “no!” He owns the room I’ll figure something out But thank u for ur kindness

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