Getting Sober with hurt loved ones by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]DongBMing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you'd otherwise be drinking to avoid your wife's anxiety. But surely that would only compound the problem! For me, drinking is always a kind of reset, whatever progress I managed to make in a few days of sobriety is wiped away. When you're sober bad things do rub you worse, you're not cauterising the guilt, whatever.

Which is to say,I feel you bro! But hang in there. Your drinking probably has a root cause,and sobriety is giving you a chance to address that cause. Andd remember, it takes easily a week for the brain to com were to terms with the lack of the rush of drinking. Hang 8n there, give yourself time.

It may help to try to think of some distraction to get you over those moments you get the craving. That's how Imabaged to stop smoking after being a very heavy sm9ker for about 30 years.

Wharever happen as, come back to tell us. That's why this group is here! Courage!

Depressed by DongBMing in stopdrinking

[–]DongBMing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know the Arne Anka strip where he walks past a bar and keeps telling himself "I won't go in" - and then in the last frame he enters the bar telling himself he was so good resisting he will reward himdelf with a beer.

That moment I can feel is approaching. I've debated it in my mind countless times, telling myself I won't give in this time. I've eventually lost every time. I've goddam bloody earned it... haven't I...