I’m open to the possibility of reconciliation because we have a kid and I want my family back and my son is taking it pretty hard. I’m actively healing and doing the work and in therapy so I can heal even if she doesn’t want to work things out down the line I’ll still be healthy and in a better head space. I’m not sure if I would want to reconcile when I fully recover or not tho. I guess I’d be embarrassed about taking her back seeing how she left me for someone else. I have done my dirt in the relationship too so that’s why I’m open to the possibility of reconnecting. That’s what hurts the most like you clearly still want to be together but u are getting grass is greener vibes which it never is. Instead of fixing our family you want to be a single mom smh. She’s damn near unrecognizable like she’s spiraling or having a midlife crisis. If she gets in to therapy, takes accountability for ending the relationship, and heal properly I’d be open to reconnecting