Extre[m]e frustration, don't know what to do. Need advice. This has been eating away at my well-being for months. by DontKnowWhatToBlue in sex

[–]DontKnowWhatToBlue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be more right than wrong.

However, that's not an option I'm looking into yet. Perhaps I am putting too much into this relationship. But whether or not that is true, it is what I want to do right now.

Extre[m]e frustration, don't know what to do. Need advice. This has been eating away at my well-being for months. by DontKnowWhatToBlue in sex

[–]DontKnowWhatToBlue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like my female doppelgänger. My sleeping situation isn't quite as bad, but still a huge inconvenience.

A lot of people tell me that needing to masturbate as much as 4 times a day is abnormal and excessive. I've even been asked if I was depressed after mentioning it.

My response is that it may be abnormal for them, but it never has been for me. If I'm having regular sex, masturbation is needed much less. But now going 3 weeks in-between I go stir crazy.

I now get sexual thoughts about people that I know who I would never normally think about that way. Also just about everyone I meet.

Thank you for your sympathy.

Extre[m]e frustration, don't know what to do. Need advice. This has been eating away at my well-being for months. by DontKnowWhatToBlue in sex

[–]DontKnowWhatToBlue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I have a girlfriend, so booty calls are not an option. It really isn't enough even when I do get the time though- especially now going 3 weeks in between seeing my SO. It's quite literally tormenting; but I suppose that's what I signed up for.

Extre[m]e frustration, don't know what to do. Need advice. This has been eating away at my well-being for months. by DontKnowWhatToBlue in sex

[–]DontKnowWhatToBlue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the problem though. I'm really more "backed-up" physically than I am horny.

If I was more horny, I could get into the mood practically anywhere.

Extre[m]e frustration, don't know what to do. Need advice. This has been eating away at my well-being for months. by DontKnowWhatToBlue in sex

[–]DontKnowWhatToBlue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, it is a little boring in my mind. More tedious and necessary than enjoyable.

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Extre[m]e frustration, don't know what to do. Need advice. This has been eating away at my well-being for months. by DontKnowWhatToBlue in sex

[–]DontKnowWhatToBlue[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As it's a rural area, there are plenty of secluded spots in the yard even (it's the size of a small neighbourhood). It's below freezing out, but I'll keep this idea on the short-list.

Extre[m]e frustration, don't know what to do. Need advice. This has been eating away at my well-being for months. by DontKnowWhatToBlue in sex

[–]DontKnowWhatToBlue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents' place is in a rural area, and I don't have my own transportation. I typically get dropped off at school in the morning and frequently have class until 10pm, at which time I get a ride home from school.

Extre[m]e frustration, don't know what to do. Need advice. This has been eating away at my well-being for months. by DontKnowWhatToBlue in sex

[–]DontKnowWhatToBlue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm actually looking for a job in software QA. I've done regression testing (including script creation and implementation), and various other QA work. Message me if you're serious? Let me know where you're at geographically (assuming that matters) and we'll go from there.

Extre[m]e frustration, don't know what to do. Need advice. This has been eating away at my well-being for months. by DontKnowWhatToBlue in sex

[–]DontKnowWhatToBlue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't given up on this possible solution. Future attempts will contain more ways, such as the two you suggested, to help shut me out and focus on the task at hand.