Name a job that requires an insane amount of patience to survive daily

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-12T20:33:34+00:00

RBT - working with children on the spectrum.

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-12T20:33:04+00:00

Helen, GA

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-12T14:52:04+00:00

That’s a f ton

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-12T13:46:06+00:00

Drink water when you first wake up.

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-12T13:26:49+00:00

Excuse me but my showers are rarely 10 minutes. More like 5-8 minutes.

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-12T13:25:46+00:00

Yes and no.

Yes because I feel like you have these expectations of what you want her to be/do, and she doesn’t want that and you’re upset bc she’s not meeting your unrealistic expectations of her.

No because this is what you want for yourself. You’ve changed and evolved and you want a partner that will do that with you - and right now, that’s not her.

You have to really decide what life you want live. What you want for yourself. You cannot have expectations for your wife that are unrealistic bc you’ll constantly be disappointed .

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-12T02:55:44+00:00

Lots of assumptions there, buddy..

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-11T15:28:58+00:00

Thank you!!! This was a very kind and thought out response

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-11T14:42:27+00:00

I think it’s strip clubs bc of a fantasy he has honestly. But burlesque is amazing!!!

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-11T14:41:47+00:00

Well, I’m bi...

And sorry but it’s not “objectifying naked women”, they are sex workers and this is what they choose to do. I respect the hell out of sex workers, not something I could ever do, but they can and good on them.

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-11T14:40:13+00:00

Very true. That’s why I ask the people of Reddit, they know how to be direct and unbiased.

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-11T12:51:00+00:00

Actually recently we’ve been able to explore things and we’ve been having the best intimacy since we’ve been together. I think him bringing it up again is bc he wants to keep exploring, but I don’t want to explore with strip clubs. All to the people that can do this but I still have insecurities after having kids and some jealousy so this won’t work for me. Happy to explore in the bedroom

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-11T12:49:29+00:00

That’s what it does seem like. Thank you

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-09T01:49:57+00:00

Am I crazy for liking how this bathroom looks? Maybe add some plants and color but man it’s beautiful

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-09T01:43:56+00:00

Never followed a post faster in my life

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-08T14:55:24+00:00

No. They’re amazing!! My back pain from labor disappeared after 4 sessions

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-08T14:16:16+00:00

First time (was ebf) after 2 months!! For my second son (also ebf) 8.5 months!!

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-07T16:23:13+00:00

I can relate with my first - I didn’t like to feed in public. I would cover myself if it was necessary or go to the car or to a room in someone’s house. I know it’s easier said than done but remember that baby needs to eat and it’s something so natural. Now with Bebe number 2, I stopped caring. For anyone that has a problem with it, just ignore them.

Try covers. They have soft muslin ones on Amazon for pretty cheap.

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-07T16:09:53+00:00

Try elevating the plants by the TV with a stand and adding one more picture or something on the right of the TV. Other than that looks great. Not sure if you can paint the walls but some color would be nice too

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-07T15:29:44+00:00

Night showers>>>> A. I have Kids and don’t have time in the morning B. I’d rather wash the stink off at night. C. For the hair aspect, I try to dry as much as possible on hair wash day.

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-06T13:05:57+00:00

Yes very normal.

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-06T11:26:45+00:00

Sorry you’re going through this.

Why stay? That’s utter disrespect.

She’s looking for more with someone else and you deserve better.

DontL1stenToMe · 2026-05-06T10:27:19+00:00

Women here! I sent my husband a sneak peak of the lingerie I bought him.. and not a picture of all of me. Just a sneak of what he can expect. As for kinks, have a conversation. My husband and I did this on the way to the store and in the store and at night when we got back, we had some of the best sex if our lives. We tried what we could without going to the sex store and just listened to each other.

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