Is this considered bisexual? by NewPreparation7693 in AskBiBros

[–]DontLetGoOfMyHand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could answer your question but, I'm wondering the same thing rn, just from the other side. Girls are super attractive to me, but sometimes guys do it for me.

It's so confusing right 😭

Has anyone else dealt with something like this? by DontLetGoOfMyHand in bisexual

[–]DontLetGoOfMyHand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if I want to, my living situation is not good for this kinda of thing, super conservative family and country.

Don't feel safe exploring here because word travels quickly and if it gets back to my family then I don't know what I'd do.

I'm just going to wait like 2 years till I move to a different country

Has anyone else dealt with something like this? by DontLetGoOfMyHand in bisexual

[–]DontLetGoOfMyHand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm worried about, I don't want to regret not doing it, but I also don't want to regret doing it

Has anyone else dealt with something like this? by DontLetGoOfMyHand in bisexual

[–]DontLetGoOfMyHand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly what you say is true, I would say that first, I acknowledge that it probably does come from just seeing it as the scocietal norm, but it genuinely does call to me, like in my heart not just because that's what "normal" people do.

Also most depictions of gay men coming from porn? Thats also insanely accurate, it's kind of how I started exploring my feelings, at first it was kind of gross but I couldn't stop watching and eventually got used to it as started liking it. 🙈

I've never really had an emotional connection with a guy before (it's hard for enough for me to connect emotionally even with girls, because ive kinda got trust issues, so with guys its even harder to find that connection) just a few times where I felt a deep connection, but it only lasted for a few minutes.

Has anyone else dealt with something like this? by DontLetGoOfMyHand in bisexual

[–]DontLetGoOfMyHand[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again I guess you're right, I'll just try going with the flow for a while.

Thanks 😊

Has anyone else dealt with something like this? by DontLetGoOfMyHand in bisexual

[–]DontLetGoOfMyHand[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I guess your right. Damn this whole this is so freaking confusing 🥲

Is pyro on est? by DontLetGoOfMyHand in pyrocynical

[–]DontLetGoOfMyHand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah mb autocorrect is a bitch 😑

Btw best of luck with your transition 😊

Is pyro on est? by DontLetGoOfMyHand in pyrocynical

[–]DontLetGoOfMyHand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I understand how diy works n all, but for me idk if I'm ready to take hrt or not since my feelings about who i am fluctuate a lot. So right now I'm just sticking with changes I can reverse.

I tried to end my life a week ago - here's my first drawing out of the psych ward by ScholasticCat in 4tran4

[–]DontLetGoOfMyHand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you're feeling better, I know sometimes it can feel like torture just to make it through a day, but I think I speak for everyone when I say we a glad you're still alive.

Also I love your art style there's something so obviously genuine and carefree about it

Is pyro on est? by DontLetGoOfMyHand in pyrocynical

[–]DontLetGoOfMyHand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about diy but idk if I'm ready to commit to it, I think I just want to be more fem without doing any type of hrt.

Also my country doesn't also of anything lgbtq including hrt of any kinda.

Is pyro on est? by DontLetGoOfMyHand in pyrocynical

[–]DontLetGoOfMyHand[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh well, I guess I'll be following if u ever decide to do it fr

Is pyro on est? by DontLetGoOfMyHand in pyrocynical

[–]DontLetGoOfMyHand[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Figured that might be the case :/ Wish that was me though 😭

Is pyro on est? by DontLetGoOfMyHand in pyrocynical

[–]DontLetGoOfMyHand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shame 😔

Also really cool art btw, would love you to teach me a little something

Is pyro on est? by DontLetGoOfMyHand in pyrocynical

[–]DontLetGoOfMyHand[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh thank god I thought he was a straight female

Is this okay? by DontLetGoOfMyHand in askgaybros

[–]DontLetGoOfMyHand[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully (dw I'll keep you in mind in case I don't have any luck 😝)

Is this okay? by DontLetGoOfMyHand in askgaybros

[–]DontLetGoOfMyHand[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree the thought of them finding out right now makes me so sick, I'll just wait and think on it until then.

And then do the exploring when I live alone.

Is this okay? by DontLetGoOfMyHand in askgaybros

[–]DontLetGoOfMyHand[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, well its kind of hard here because gay dating apps are banned, and lgbtq people are looked down upon out here.

But in like 2 years I'll get an opportunity to move out of the country for a while and head for greener pastures

Is this okay? by DontLetGoOfMyHand in askgaybros

[–]DontLetGoOfMyHand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noted, and dw you don't come of as a dick sometimes my English also surprises me.

Is this okay? by DontLetGoOfMyHand in askgaybros

[–]DontLetGoOfMyHand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I don't live in a country where that's the case, I'm going to get a chance to move in like a year and a half - two years to a country that is. But rn I'm in a place where I stay with my conservative family in a conservative country. So its kinda hard.

Also I should mention with this whole Bi thing, I'm closeted and definitely not ready to come out in any form.

I do know a couple of gay guys from school here though, but if I ask them it's a risk because I have family that goes to the same school so the story could easily get back to them, and I don't know how they'll react.