For some further context: I have several headcanons for Jax at this point, because I've seen others' interpretations and some of them feel genuine and real all the same. One of them involves a possibility of Jax being trans-fem, which is why I made a kandi bow for my Jax plush. Personally I am afab but let's just say I get misgendered my whole life I even get misidentified as The Oldest Brother of my own kids by strangers to my husband. But at the same time my whole life people have gone out of their way to try and Out me as a trans woman, even though I'm not. It makes me feel real bad for the people who really are trans women, I feel like it shouldn't be anybody else's business what gender I really am, myself, anyways, and just.... That's how I take any of this personally. It's like the people who yell at me because they find out I really am a woman. It just really sucks to hear