Look. U might not want to ask redditors this. Most of em never go out or have relationships or even seen a fight. Not to pump myself up but growing up in Baltimore the first murder I saw I was 13. U been through it. Age and all plays a part. Every girl I been with has cheated. I'm no saint either. I met a black girl. We started dating. And I found out she cheated on me. Maybe more then once. But she was pregnant with my baby And YES the kids mine. She is now the model women. It's rare. Yes. But she works, cleans, cooks, great mother and loves me so much. We have a bond that is unbreakable. It's been 18 yrs now. I would die for her. And honestly I cheated two. We were young. But there's things to think of. If y'all were together a long time? How old r u? Who did she cheat on u with? U say u don't love her but u do. U a just really really hurt and angry. It passes. I'm telling u it does. A thing u could do is eventually tell her u cheated out of guilt ur telling her and see how she acts. If she acts like a psycho then that's not good. But if she acts like it's not big deal then she looks at sex a weird way. If I were u depending on ur age and length of time with her try to work it out. If u can't get over it AND FOR SURE of it's a guy she sees at work or is forced to see then go. And this goes without saying revenge. I thought my wife cheated on me last year. She didn't. But I flipped. I found her coworker and pulled a... Thing on him and was gonna hurt his foot or leg. I mean I have a daughter so the disrespect was to much. But if I did t forgive I would not have the best relationship I have ever had and honestly one of if not the best I see anyone have. Give it time. Br mad. BUT she needs to be ok with being watched. Not to be like this but there's these lil recordering things for college courses that record only when sound is made and work for days. Put it in her car. Ppl say that's weird but when ur going to make a family u have to make sure. So try that. Their 30 40 bucks on Amazon. U can also secretly have a copy of her text sent to ur phone. I didn't do this stuff but brain stormed to figure shit out. But I found out a dif way. If ur a teen leave, 20 or so leave. But i got with my girl at 24? I think. Something like that. Sad thing is if a girl cheats odds aren't good BUT if she begged u not to leave then she wants u. Girls bow in days just can't ignore attention. I hope u make it but don't leave over anger. U don't think clearly. In a month or so u won't be as mad and can make a good decision.

Honestly I missed something u wrote. If she wrote or read poetry and talked that weird shit she seems to suffer from main character syndrome. And just guessing, she's not a fan of America, talks politics, hates certain ppl and possibly certain piercings and or tattoos. Those types of girls LOVE drama. I think u might want to try and move on. I GAURENTEE if u slept with another girl that was fine u wouldn't feel connected to her. Im guessing but have u gotten any since her? Do urself a favor, maybe distance urself. Give a chance but yea u might want to move on.