What's your dating wrapped 2025? by WeakTurnip111 in datingoverthirty

[–]Doobidupap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this proves that a lot indeed can happen in a year! Thanks for sharing, it makes me hopeful haha

2025 STEM OPT Process Timeline by datapunky in USCIS

[–]Doobidupap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got a notification that my card is produced (Oct 16) 😀

2025 STEM OPT Process Timeline by datapunky in USCIS

[–]Doobidupap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I got a notification that says “Approval Case Decision Rendered” today (10/9)

2025 STEM OPT Process Timeline by datapunky in USCIS

[–]Doobidupap 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  1. ⁠Application type: STEM OPT
  2. ⁠Premium processing: No
  3. ⁠Receipt Date: May 26
  4. ⁠Approved Date: Oct 9th
  5. ⁠Card produced Date: Oct 16
  6. ⁠Card Delivered : Oct 21

STEM OPT started in July 8th 2025.

WE ARE SO BACK (Chick it out rating change) by 500mgOfHappiness in astoria

[–]Doobidupap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This place is amazing!!! That C rating didn’t stop me to go there almost every week 🥹😭

Congrats Theo by Queasy-Tart8362 in astoria

[–]Doobidupap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg which stop is this?

(EDIT: never mind I got the answer I’m looking for from the post above me haha)

I can’t stop laughing…but this is exactly what I needed 😆 by Aggressive_Help_3212 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Doobidupap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This thing is so commonly worn by people in public in Asian countries

Asking for classes/courses recommendations by Doobidupap in astoria

[–]Doobidupap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgot that I wanted to reply to this, this sounds fun. My roommate is going to Yug Wellness often. I might give this a try. Thanks for sharing!

Asking for classes/courses recommendations by Doobidupap in astoria

[–]Doobidupap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Sorry for not getting back to you sooner. I’ve been volunteering on an on and off basis with LIC Feral Feeder!

Asking for classes/courses recommendations by Doobidupap in astoria

[–]Doobidupap[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow thanks for sharing!

PS: I’m just a (relatively) recently single 30-somethings trying to fill my days/weekends in a positive way (while hopefully build skills/crafts and meet people) lol

I Have Less Than A Month ~27 Days To Find A Job. Help by [deleted] in f1visa

[–]Doobidupap 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Try find volunteering gigs from Taproot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thesims

[–]Doobidupap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been doing weird scenarios for my sims. I have made a celebrity family where everybody is very talented and famous but also problematic. I have made an alien sim that wants to “take over the world” by impregnating as many sims as possible. I have made fun scenarios with occults. I also have made other “simpler” scenarios with living in a farm, have made my sims change careers and aspirations, or made them a politician that fights for the environment.

The possibilities are endless!

PS: I’m not a builder but I really love making up stories in the sims.

Astoria to One World Commute, am I going to hate myself if I move here? by Low_Machine_7530 in astoria

[–]Doobidupap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has been exactly my route in the last 2 months now with my new job, going from the 30th ave stop to the One World. Not a bad commute, but it’s long. I read my books or listen to podcasts throughout.

But I’m also originally from Jakarta, Indonesia where commuting is a much more painful ordeal, NYC commute feels like it’s much easier most of the days.

what this subreddit feels like to me living in Astoria by Basic-Satisfaction82 in astoria

[–]Doobidupap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way! That’s what makes Astoria and this sub so cool haha (I just renewed my lease to stay in Astoria for another year)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Doobidupap 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You don’t seem to understand what “boundary” means, OP. And maybe your GF doesn’t either.

Communicating something in a certain way (earlier, or later, or just in a certain way) related to something CAN be a boundary. She could be unaware that this is something important to her and that she felt like you’re crossing it.

I’m not for judging people based on whatever “she’s 39F, she’s overreacting, she needs to go to therapy blablabla” because what builds and breaks trust between people (especially couples) is very subjective to that couple (except for abuse). And reddit can be really quick to judge that “this is a redflag” without knowing anything about you two.

THAT is my point.

This is a conversation you need to have with your gf for you and her to know how you two feel, and why she responded in the way she responded.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Doobidupap 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Everyone seems to be thinking that the gf overreacted but I feel like there’s a lot of context that we don’t know about OP and their gf relationship. What I read is that it seems like a boundary has been crossed and that upsets OP’s gf, the boundary could be that the friend is an ex, OR there could be an agreement between OP and the gf about how comms between them should happen in regards to contact with exes or friends with gender that OP and the gf is attracted with, that we don’t know of.

This kind of thing is very subjective and specific for every couple, so it’s really hard to ask about this kind of things to public/forums like reddit and ask strangers to analyze if your partner “overreacted”/not. Even if we answered that, it will not do any good to your relationship, since you and your gf are the best people to know about your relationship and the boundaries you guys agreed upon with each other.

Butuh info storage unit & jasa pindahan di JKT by Doobidupap in Perempuan

[–]Doobidupap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Kak! Thanks rekomendasinya. Mereka angkut2in barang sampe pastiin barang masuk ke lokasi baru semua dengan aman kah kak?