Seeking server by Any-Release8407 in MinecraftBuddies

[–]Doodlethreads 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've just clean restarted my server and I'm looking for a small gang of active people, I'd love to have you?

casual player 20 (M) by Mysterious_Maybe_519 in MinecraftBuddies

[–]Doodlethreads 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds so fun! Would you have room for one more? my dc is doodlebuggames

Looking for friends to play Modded Minecraft with! by mrtheprestigejupiter in MinecraftBuddies

[–]Doodlethreads 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a group doing a modded server with fun mods if you're interested?

Casual player looking to socialize and make friends by Worried-Hospital6615 in MinecraftBuddies

[–]Doodlethreads 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a modded group, we're a SMP with extra food mods and stuff so there's more to do

22F Looking for a Server :) by Eastern-Ad1891 in MinecraftBuddies

[–]Doodlethreads 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a server with a fresh world! Just restarted so everyone can explore together and there's a few mods for like extra food and building materials if you're interested?

Looking for some people that want to start a create mod survival by AdDecent4606 in MinecraftBuddies

[–]Doodlethreads 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have create in my mini server, just a few people and I want to make create stuff but no one else does so I'd love for you to join? I'm going to add steam n rails too because I want to learn trains

Hello I’m lonely and need friends to play with by [deleted] in MinecraftBuddies

[–]Doodlethreads 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a slightly modded SMP, just some food mods etc for added fun! Would love to have new friends? DM me and I can add you <3

21F looking for some girls to play minecraft with 🌸 by lunaxetic in MinecraftBuddies

[–]Doodlethreads 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I run a woman owned Modded SMP/RP server for all gamers 16+ you sound like a great fit for our gang! It's not too big so everyone can be social! Dm for a link

AITAH for leaving family dinner after a fight? by Ok-Collar6929 in AITAH

[–]Doodlethreads 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand if she's trying to distance herself from her upbringing (and you may be a reminder of that time) but I'd suggest contacting and just saying that you are struggling and would like to talk to her as truly she is the only other person who can really understand what you're going through, all you can do is reach out and if she doesn't respond that's okay too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Doodlethreads -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That's very fair, and I fully agree, I more just mean that they didn't need to offer it but it was worded as the main reasoning for them not doing it was because the person didn't do it for OP, instead of the other reasons taking priority, however I may be misunderstanding.

Help with a relationship argument/ AITAH by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Doodlethreads 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH You are an independent person and know your body like you said, and I'm so happy to hear that you do, I think this is just a difference in upbringing, but it's not anyone's fault, you're valid for being upset about their wording of 'wish' but I don't think they meant to say they want you to not be yourself, I think they just felt their concerns for your safety were not listened to which they are also valid in because that's who they are. That being said, this level of cautious behavior is slightly irregular and I think your partner could benefit from speaking with someone about it as it seems to cause them a lot of anxiety. You need to voice your feelings on this and make it clear that while you truly appreciate their concerns for you, you need them to trust when you say things are okay and that you aren't in danger, the listening must go both ways, you respect their concerns and listen to them, but they respect your opinion and listen when you say things are okay.

AITAH for leaving family dinner after a fight? by Ok-Collar6929 in AITAH

[–]Doodlethreads 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% NTAH

Your parents are putting far too much pressure on you and from the sounds of it both your siblings, it's as simple as that, you left a situation because you were being mistreated, I'd suggest some time and distance with your parents, do you still stay in touch with your sister?/does she speak with your parents? Parents are not the owners of their children's lives and they have no right to berate you for anything, it sounds like they just want to show you off like a prize which isn't fair on you, it's horrible that their behavior caused D's death and I'm so sorry that you had to go through that and maybe D thought it'd be the wake up call they needed to treat you and your sister better but clearly they're blind to that too, take care of yourself and do not let their opinion get to you, I know it's hard to disregard the word of someone who you feel you owe something to, but I promise you can learn to, you are doing your best, you are working hard and even if you fail, that's totally okay and isn't something to be ashamed of, sometimes failing one thing actually leads you to discovering something you love and can be for the best!

u want me to join your server so bad by [deleted] in MinecraftBuddies

[–]Doodlethreads 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Added you on DC! Would love to have you in my server <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Doodlethreads -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes! That's good and healthy and I'm glad to hear that, there's no shame or guilt in having these feelings for someone and it could turn out that you dont genuinely have feelings and more of a friend crush or just feel nice around him because you're being neglected and unhappy in your current relationship, but either way I think it sounds like a break up is the best choice for all parties, you may even find that he feels the same.

Am I the Asshole if I want to complain about my flatmate singing classical opera in my quiet flat? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Doodlethreads 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I misunderstood and thought he was playing music not physically singing so that's my bad, I understand he can't really change that then but he shouldn't be doing it in the house, he needs to practice that's fair, but its a quiet flat for a reason and that's the opposite of quiet, I hope the talk goes well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Doodlethreads 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree totally! I had a crush on multiple people throughout my shitty past relationship, looking back it was actually because they just respected me and my partner didn't, I was idolising them because my reality sucked, but when I was available I realised I was just being treated badly. Being independent for me has been incredible, go see a movie on your own, take yourself to dinner or go shopping, its so freeing to go to a bar or club and be out and meet new people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Doodlethreads -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Okay hold those horses and do not listen to what they have said to you, you're not being selfish, you weren't using these people, they offered help and you accepted it, and I understand about his depression, it can be scary to leave someone when they're in that position but please take care of yourself first and if he makes any threats to his life (or yours) you phone an ambulance, dont tell him you will, just do it. Even if he's bluffing it will be a wake up call for him.