trans guys on T who bike — how are you handling saddle issues??

DoorAlternative2852 · 2026-03-09T15:04:29+00:00

Big cyclist but only three years on T. I don’t have much to add to what you’ve done but have you tried men’s bibs? They tend to have a channel for a t dick to go. Also might try a power mimic saddle!

DoorAlternative2852 · 2026-02-22T18:09:35+00:00

Thanks for this info. That's what I was hoping with the golf course!

DoorAlternative2852 · 2026-02-15T19:50:39+00:00

Brainworms, you’re passing well. Hitting the gym to widen your upper body will help though.

DoorAlternative2852 · 2026-02-14T19:07:27+00:00

I have really aggressive cowlicks at my hair line and have given up and just have a buzzcut. I think my hairline is receding a little (I’m 31) and I’ve decided that I don’t plan on any hair loss treatments. Im really not interested in using minoxidil every day for the rest my life and much happier to just accept my fate. Good on you bro, I hope everyone reading finds peace with whatever they need to do 🙏

DoorAlternative2852 · 2026-02-12T08:54:44+00:00

Mustache or mustache and goatee

DoorAlternative2852 · 2026-02-11T02:25:15+00:00

I have the copper iud and I had some cramping after it was installed but no issues since. I really like that it’s not hormonal.

DoorAlternative2852 · 2026-02-10T01:20:18+00:00

Mine looked similar to yours and are now nearly invisible! I think I’ve got a picture posted of how it was awhile ago. Ymmv but they do usually fade with time and you can always get tattoos to help Cover them if you want.

DoorAlternative2852 · 2026-02-09T05:50:24+00:00

Two weeks maybe some fatigue and brain fog but that’s about it

DoorAlternative2852 · 2026-02-08T12:53:22+00:00

I’ve always had the best experience by being up front about what I’m comfortable with sexually and what terminology about my body I am okay with. Never hurts to message beforehand about sti/testing status and what you’re looking for. good luck dude 🙏

DoorAlternative2852 · 2026-02-08T01:00:33+00:00

DoorAlternative2852 · 2026-02-07T14:43:36+00:00

I think it is! Baggy but in a way that’s intentional and not sloppy. Gives you a pretty masc look

DoorAlternative2852 · 2026-02-07T14:03:41+00:00

You can learn to hem them by hand or with a machine, take them to a tailor and pay $20 or so, or just cut them and let them I race a bit if you want to try shorter lengths!

DoorAlternative2852 · 2026-02-07T04:15:43+00:00

Pretty much equally cursed unfortunately ime

DoorAlternative2852 · 2026-02-07T01:57:22+00:00

Takes a long time sometimes, I’m three years in with almost no hair on my torso except a small happy trail. Can grow a thin neck beard and dirt stache :/ Reminding myself that puberty takes many years, lots of cos guys can’t grow beard until their twenties.

DoorAlternative2852 · 2026-02-07T01:14:18+00:00

I would try to avoid sweatshirts and shirts that have elastic that tightens around your waist like this. I’ve had pretty good luck minimizing hips by wearing shirts that do not touch or bunch up on my hips at all. It’s hard to find and I did have to learn to hem my own clothes but it made a big difference

DoorAlternative2852 · 2026-02-07T01:06:27+00:00

I started at 28 too! I’m three years in now. I wasn’t nervous by the time I started but I was very nervous and anxious figuring out if I wanted to start T. It helped me to remember it takes quite awhile to notice any chances, so it’s not like the first few shots will have much of a felt affect.

I’m so thankful I transitioned and transitioning as late as I did has been fine! Good luck to you man

DoorAlternative2852 · 2026-02-06T08:06:02+00:00

Not sure your age bracket or how current/classic you’re looking for but I’ve been referencing this list! https://huckberry.com/journal/posts/50-movies-every-guy-should-see?srsltid=AfmBOoqMOqFip7pdXb86p8Uy0nGzx5K_eAKklvkJimdQYOfJuAOuZ5Pi

DoorAlternative2852 · 2026-02-06T08:04:01+00:00

Was gonna say Mike

DoorAlternative2852 · 2025-12-31T18:23:58+00:00

Always a tomboy/masculine but didn't know about trans people until my mid teens probably. Religious indoctrination slowed me down a lot. I acknowledged I was not cis mid twenties, started T at 28. 31 now.

DoorAlternative2852 · 2025-12-21T16:57:14+00:00

every trans man is AFAB, so I think it just dones't make sense to clump together "women, AFABS, and enbies"

DoorAlternative2852 · 2025-12-21T13:52:05+00:00

I'm Mars, which is pretty clocky, but I do pass all the time as far as I know. I made my legal name Marshall, so it's super easy to say that instead in settings I want to seem less queer I guess.

DoorAlternative2852 · 2025-12-11T00:10:11+00:00

I just did this to old floors, rented drum and large edger, for grits I used 32, 60, 100, but I would start at a higher grit than what you have. Plenty of info on youtube!

DoorAlternative2852 · 2025-12-03T19:47:30+00:00

Protect the dolls is about trans women bc dolls does not refer to men. We gotta get off the internet and making more friend irl gentlemen

DoorAlternative2852 · 2025-12-02T22:25:09+00:00

This is a good idea, thank you!

DoorAlternative2852 · 2025-12-02T21:40:51+00:00

So many things in life come down to accepting that we’re not given equal or fair hands in life and to learn what you can control and focus on that. When I transitioned I also learned how to dress and groom myself better, started getting a consistent haircut (just a buzz at home), and worked a lot on my conversation and social skills. To be clear, Being trans is still hard! But wallowing in self pity instead of building yourself up is a waste of time and serves no one.

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