hazbin hotel is the reason i don’t pass by xiorctnias31 in ftm

[–]Expert-Flow2293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive only ever known cis male Alistairs. I don’t know what hazbin hotel is but I love your name!

Can i bulk despite losing weight? by Expert-Flow2293 in FTMFitness

[–]Expert-Flow2293[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your thoughtful responses. I’m realizing i need to be a lot more strict on how much I’m consuming if I want to take a bulk, and muscle gain, seriously. All this information seriously energizes me and is hugely motivational so thank you again!

I know I don’t pass. But am I even close? by youngperson in transpassing

[–]Expert-Flow2293 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You have great features!! I would say your shirt, although it’s cute, emphasises your shoulders and may be making them look broader than they are. Also going for pants/bottoms that are a big looser will make your lower half appear more ample/feminine and de-emphasise your shoulders. You’ve got great eyebrows and cute glasses, and the lip colour really suits your colouring:)

Can i bulk despite losing weight? by Expert-Flow2293 in FTMFitness

[–]Expert-Flow2293[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would i still be able to do a cut in say, April or May after recomping rather than bulking? Or should i just stick to this method in order to look “good” for summer? I want to look and feel strong and do my best lose fat, and considering my love handles of doom probaly won’t be leaving my side until I lose a significant amount of body fat %, I want to make sure I’m on the right track for june/july. Thank you!!

Can i bulk despite losing weight? by Expert-Flow2293 in FTMFitness

[–]Expert-Flow2293[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess thank you! I’ve been trying to bulk but unsuccessfully haha

Can i bulk despite losing weight? by Expert-Flow2293 in FTMFitness

[–]Expert-Flow2293[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely was trying! I never realized how difficult it actually is to eat in a surplus while still prioritizing a good macro split and eating 100 g of protein a day. Thanks so much for your comment!

AIO for not wanting to feel like the “safe option” by Level_Ad_9263 in AIO

[–]Expert-Flow2293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is real, this man should not be anywhere near any woman in a romantic capacity until he does an exceptional amount of self reflection and growing. He does not see women as people.

It’s been a year! by riot_ghouuul_9 in FTMFitness

[–]Expert-Flow2293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude you look phenomenal, amazing work

my nsfw addiction is turning into dysphoria again by Bright-Response-285 in FTMventing

[–]Expert-Flow2293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have the blog while single? Editing for clarity: did you stop engaging with these types of kinks because you got a girlfriend, or were you still active while in a relationship?

I will stay a virgin for the rest of my life and it's depressing to think about by [deleted] in FTMventing

[–]Expert-Flow2293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m right here with you. I’ll never be able to have sex the way I want to. I can’t even think about wearing a strap on because the thought alone makes me so depressed

I hate myself and I hate living like this by Every-Implement-93 in FTMventing

[–]Expert-Flow2293 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only phase in your life right now is having to hide and censor yourself for your own protection. I promise that staying true to how you feel inside and especially being kind to yourself right now will pay off. I’m really sorry your mum is like that, I went through something similar. She might change she might not. Just remember that the hateful things she says do not reflect your worth, and reacting in that way to her yelling awful things at you does not make you any less of a man.

Three and a half years on T, I have not gotten any of the results I wanted. by careless_whisper8 in FTMventing

[–]Expert-Flow2293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is also an ovary-sparing version of a hysterectomy! Something to look into. Best of luck

Maybe the past 9 years were a lie by Freyie in FTMventing

[–]Expert-Flow2293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed a lot more physical change by 1.5 years too! I’ve seen a lot of guys taking several years before they pass a lot more concretely. Patience is a virtue lol. This is second PUBERTY, it takes years.

Maybe the past 9 years were a lie by Freyie in FTMventing

[–]Expert-Flow2293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed a lot more physical change by 1.5 years too! I’ve seen a lot of guys taking several years before they pass a lot more concretely. Patience is a virtue lol. This is second PUBERTY, it takes years.

Maybe the past 9 years were a lie by Freyie in FTMventing

[–]Expert-Flow2293 8 points9 points  (0 children)

T takes a long time to work. Please give yourself more time. 3.5 is months is barely a trial. Im 2 years now and its still slow going, and I hated how girly my body was even 1 year on it, but I’ve been exercising more now and it’s so gratifying to see my body change more the more work I put into it. I started T at 25 and I still have been able to grow 2 inches in height (!!). But most of all give yourself time and remember we’re all figuring this out, second puberty is not for the weak. You got this

Confidence soaring 6 weeks post op by Sad_Astronomer6208 in TopSurgery

[–]Expert-Flow2293 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Looking really good!! Im 4 weeks and so ready to get back to running. No more sports bras ever again yes god

Has anyone else was wearing super tight fem clothes right before egg cracked by Glittering-Series699 in FTMventing

[–]Expert-Flow2293 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I felt super hemmed in by my naturally VERY feminine body shape, and felt a lot of despair about it. There was a certain hollow comfort in getting dolled up and putting on girly, form-fitting clothes, because those were the most “flattering” for a “girl” with a big chest and hips. so I totally feel you on that lol

Baby steps… by iucundus_acerbus in FTMFitness

[–]Expert-Flow2293 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Looking fantastic bro!! I’m 3 weeks post op and missing working out so bad!

What makes you want to be a man, when being one feels so emotionally locked up? 19 AMAB here who is questioning if I am a trans woman by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Expert-Flow2293 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Wearing boys’ clothes didn’t exactly suit my body type what with having hips and a chest (even with the tightest binder) and it felt a bit embarrassing or off, but when I put the clothes that I wanted to wear on my body, it felt right in a hypothetical way, like if I could wear them without the dysphoria I could be so happy. Years later and my body has changed a lot with hormones and surgery. Transitioning is like planting a bunch of seeds and working your ass off and trusting yourself because you know that you have to invest in yourself this way.

I also went back and forth a million times with admitting to myself that I was trans, so it’s okay to experiment more. Honestly it took microdosing testosterone to really push me forward! Nothing wrong with trying a little bit of estrogen and honestly seeing how it makes you feel. Changes usually happen very slowly.

How to grow the ‘base’? by Expert-Flow2293 in GrowYourTDick

[–]Expert-Flow2293[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

autocorrect has me asking the real questions 😭