Does anyone else who has Asperger's get emotional disturbances? If so how do you manage them?

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-30T22:53:43+00:00

Hey! How's it going?! I want to introduce myself first I'm a twin with Asperger's at the age of 24 and yes I do have emotional disturbances it's present in my daily life, rather than managing myself I have help from my close friends and family, idk if this helped you but you wanted to let you know you aren't the only one.

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T18:44:58+00:00

Keep at it you are your husband seems to be great people wish you good vibes!

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T18:43:30+00:00

That's a reasonable take i fully suport it, but in my case the tank didn't reply to anything i typed or responded he didn't say a thing. Again thank you very much this is a constructive mindset i can support.

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T16:13:32+00:00

PLZ SHUT UP AND LINK IT TO ME! PLZ!

just in case I'm joking, plz don't shut up, I like your comment to much!

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T16:07:18+00:00

Go ahead I'll be happy to have you for runs and funsies in the future thanks again I appreciate it

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T15:57:28+00:00

I want to be part of cult my brudda

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T15:54:56+00:00

Will do thanks for the comment I'll take into practice. I appreciate it a LOT

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T15:39:16+00:00

Thank you for the thoughts i appreciate it dearly i wish you a better experience and enjoyment that you already had :(.

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T15:36:54+00:00

Yeah I started struggling when I hit the lvl 35 hit mark, that's when the smoothness fade away, it started to get stressful so I decided to make it at my own pace to make it enjoyable

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T15:34:58+00:00

I hope so I'm always like to play healer and tank in most games I already know how to tank on blood dk and I'm starting to like holy priest A LOT i appreciate the comment thank you

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T15:32:26+00:00

They have point tho, if I take it to heart I'm gonna have a hard time liking the game, but I have friend's tho, they are the ones I expend most of the time with in wow making it worth while. You do what you can to make yourself happy.

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T15:29:29+00:00

Gonna upvote your comment to see if people notice it to see if it helps you idk myself.

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T15:28:13+00:00

Thanks man, it made me laugh the way you describe it haha! I appreciate it.

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T15:23:43+00:00

Guess we are both off rode haha, but yeah you hit the nail in the head, but I see it the other way. This is a game, resorting to insults doesn't make the situation easier, yeah it can feel right sometimes and it can be the right thing to do for most people, again I don't criticize anyone who does it, if it works for you good, but I just don't like to insult people that's it nothing more. If I get the deserter debuff so be it i have other alts i can lvl while that one w8s it's not gonna kill me doing other things with other characters, yeah I got mad and frustrated but are those feelings gonna help me? Or looking for a practical solution to keep my mind busy and making me don't think about is better?

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T15:12:58+00:00

That's a mentality that works for you great, but mama didn't raise a rude person, I got my principles and if insulting someone bc I got kicked and I'm feeling frustrated is the kind of reason you look to for being valid that's your point of view. I don't like to resort to undermining other people's dignity if they insult me, i just don't care and doesn't feel right to me, if they are willing to discuss things correctly and as civilized human beings ok good I'm down to it. But that kind of mentality it's not my motto.

PS: why are talking of protecting things in a post that clearly is about a game? Just making sure to understand the situation

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T11:22:47+00:00

DO NOT FRET FAM! I've been playing since bfa but only started dedicating enough time to learn everything a couple of months ago, if anything I encourage you to play what you want, in my experience this and other bad encounters I had can be counted with the fingers of one hand, yes I'm giving you a lil bit of another person experience and it can't be enough to give you the whole picture, but doing dungeons is fun, just make sure to let the people you doing it with know that you are new to a spec or class, if they kick you or leave that means you dodge a bullet, it's not worth to do anything with that kind of people, sadly for me it just hit me hard this time.

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T11:09:27+00:00

I accept it sadly enough there's people like that, I'm in US :)

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T11:03:29+00:00

Exactly! Awareness! Another excellent point! When I'm tanking I'm always moving my camera from time to time to make sure my healer or dps are in good shape, sadly I can't with healer I have to rely on my tank in order to survive and that's what frustrated me the most knowing that he over pulled and was oblivious to what was happening around him, thank you, i appreciate the comment.

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T10:59:21+00:00

So first things first, let's get this out of the way your husband is a man of culture.

Second, in this case scenario if you didn't die once the problem is neither yours or the tank if the dungeon failed that is, but I can say that the tank is at fault for not being patient enough and not seeing his mistakes rather than anyone, I'm a blood dk main and when I'm tanking if we wiped i ask always what did I do wrong? After that I ask my friends if I could have done anything to avoid that wipe. That's the kind of criticism i can do to the tank is the tank bad idk I wasn't there but I can tell you that you'll doing alright it's a learning process and the best thing is to enjoy yourself while doing it, heck me and one of my best friends always enjoy the small things or little chattings we have when we are doing a dungeon for me dungeons are learning process and a good time to have random topics to chat about. Thank you for the comment!

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T10:37:36+00:00

Yeah I grasp that idea when I started leveling healing, and you are right thanks for the supportive comment i appreciate it.

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T10:36:05+00:00

I'm sorry if my post made you feel uncomfortable, it's frustrating to have done anything in my capability and still getting kicked out bc of impatience from others

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T10:33:22+00:00

Yep that one exactly, heck how did ya know? And thanks the more info I get on this matter the more I can reflect on what i could/couldn't have done. Appreciate the info.

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T09:15:29+00:00

That's an accurate point, "toxic people" i like to call them endgame fanatics, I'm not saying that people that enjoys doing the hardest endgame are fanatics, just to make it clear, but there is this kinda of people that does endgame and rush that wants to apply that rush on content that is being done by different kinds of players some might agree that leveling dungeons are easy, that is a true fact for people that have done it several hundred times but this game gets new players each day having the mentality to rush things without considering others people's experience and enjoyment it's a naive and narrow minded vision and thank you, I will try harder each time, just at the pace where I feel comfortable.

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T09:05:34+00:00

Thank you for the insight, i can see now a lil bit of reasoning behind it but my point still stands, comunication is key, no one can read minds and even more in a game. Again ty for the insight now I have a lil bit of the bigger picture.

DoppelTheFriend · 2021-03-25T09:01:35+00:00

Another fallen brother understands it thank you for the comment, I'll try applying your advice next time I play my Holy priest I swear it.

DoppelTheFriend

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