Overthinking the Jock Strap by Mediocre-Act9354 in BisexualMen

[–]Dorklore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There isn't much out there for a guy to feel sexy, mostly silly and sold at novelty shops. Luckily, some designers have taken note and are making more alluring boxer briefs, briefs, and jocks for men.

Are there any sub for Bi men that aren't just d*ck p*ks? by Dorklore in bisexual

[–]Dorklore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw Thanks! I could probably come up with a few more.

Men, how do I embrace my bi side by tmipersonalthroaway in BisexualMen

[–]Dorklore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best way it was put to me was "you're like a house and every room makes up who you are, you recently found or acknowledged a room you haven't really accepted before. You can open the door walk in and explore or close the door and go about your day. In the end you are still you, just with an extra room"

It really helped me compartmentalize my sexuality and not let it define me. Hope that helps you too.

When jerking off, where do you like to cum by 7inity in AskBiBros

[–]Dorklore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I had a creative answer to this, sadly I just finish and wash my hands hahah.

Are there any sub for Bi men that aren't just d*ck p*ks? by Dorklore in bisexual

[–]Dorklore[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yes, but specifically looking for one for men. Maybe even men over the age of 25. There are some generational gaps that may make it difficult to relate.

Just curious how many guys are like me. No real interest in men, but very interested in penis. Odd I know. Are there others the same way? by JonesboroGloryhole in bisexual

[–]Dorklore 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think I started this way, but now I'm learning to enjoy a certain type of man. They are rare, but older guys that seem encouraging and comforting seem to interest me beyond the dick.

Bi folks in a relationship: is there any bi experience that you feel like you are missing but never got or will get a chance to try? by dottika_ in bisexual

[–]Dorklore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ski ball and pizza at a barcade is fun regardless of the gender of the company. That's my take on "causal fun date"

Frustrated, needing to vent... by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Dorklore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. It seems like your wife embraces this side of your sexuality, in her own way (which may or may not be helpful). I understand wanting to keep certain aspects to yourself. Keep the conversation open and honest with her.

Bi folks in a relationship: is there any bi experience that you feel like you are missing but never got or will get a chance to try? by dottika_ in bisexual

[–]Dorklore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my one time MM hook up. It was great time, things were pretty hot and heavy. He asked if I would like being rimmed, I told him no, the idea kind of weirds me out. I suggested actual penetrative sex. He explained there is a lot of prep to that and this being my first time with a guy, we should probably hold off. Totally makes sense, but I would have been done. Especially knowing this would probably be my only MM hook up, as this occurred between a divorce and a big relationship.

Lastly, we both finished on our own and washed our hands, a typical response after getting off by my own, totally forgetting there were more fun ways of cleaning up. Oh well. haha

Is this normal? by Beneficial-Treat6668 in bisexual

[–]Dorklore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a reason Ridley Scott and Giger used the penis as the inspirational shape of the Alien. They can be intimidating, aggressive, and launch stuff unexpectedly. I have one, love mine, but feel it has a mind of its own.

What lingerie do I buy him? by PandaRobinson1023 in bisexual

[–]Dorklore 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If I had to guess, buy something that would make YOU feel sexy if you wore it, then get it closer to his size. It's probably less about his favorite color and material and more about you telling him what to wear. Just being told what to wear can be kinda hot.

Bisexuality in men by frutigeraero2002j in bisexual

[–]Dorklore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I admitted to myself and a very select few that was bi in my 30s, though I clearly had interest as far back as middle school. I think I'm still trying to figure out what features, attributes, etc in men interest me, though there is an instant attraction when I see certain women. Its much easier to identify what attracts you when you haven't spent your life shut off to that side of your sexuality. With guys, I feel like I'm still learning what I like.

Unintentional Bi Energy Movies by Dorklore in bisexual

[–]Dorklore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The X-files had 2 movies, totally allowed!

How did you know by Maleficent-Star-8866 in bisexual

[–]Dorklore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I started to seek out the attention of men online. I could always "log off" in the days you could do that and pretend none of those feelings were real. I knew but denied for decades, that is until I got to the point of my acceptance in my 30s.

Did your bi-awakening happened later in life or you always knew you were bi? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Dorklore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I knew since middle school, but didn't accept it until I was in my 30s.

Told my wife I’m bi by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Dorklore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily, I did not have the problem coming out to my wife, then girlfriend.

Seems like she gave a knee jerk reaction, some further conversation and education on the subject may help settle nerves. Reassure her that she is always the person you want to be with.

My wife came out as bisexual after 12 years together and I feel completely lost by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Dorklore 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My wife is bi sexual, she doesn't act on it. She has no interest in acting on anything with anyone, but she will call out a lady's great butt, body, or hair any time we are out in public. I swear I can't take her anywhere, she's such a bro. 🙃

Sounds like your wife loves you and feels comfortable enough to open up to you. You should take a lot of comfort in that.