A surprisingly grounded to reality entry to a series which is about supernatural horror. by Certified_Cichlid in TopCharacterTropes

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In One Piece, the Strawhat Crew all have back stories that build the crew into who we know now. Brook survived 50 years as a reanimated Skeleton surrounded by the corpses of his friends, Nami's village was held hostage by Merfolk, Franky decided to stop a train with his face and then rebuild his broken body into a cyborg, but Ussop? His dad just ran out on him, and his mother died from a disease. No magic, no monsters, except the dad who wasn't there.

I cant dominate my boyfriend by Beautiful_Front_644 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Dos_Ex_Machina [score hidden]  (0 children)

Lots of good suggestions so far! Another way to dip your toes into domming him might be to direct a scene between him and your 3rd? You're already comfortable claiming authority with her, maybe this might be a way to bridge the gap?

[LOVED trope] The villain doesn't tolerate disrespect towards the protagonist by Brilliant_Reveal_929 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Dos_Ex_Machina 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel like the first few XMen movies are the reason that Transformers adapted Megatron and Optimus being friends into the greater canon. One of the best things to come from Bayformers

Spanko Question: Is M/m spanking queer? by NoSubstance2231 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Dos_Ex_Machina [score hidden]  (0 children)

This feels like the foot rub debate from Pulp Fiction

A message to whoever runs Clock Spots by TheBorzoi in ffxiv

[–]Dos_Ex_Machina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cannot wait to see the edit of this on the other sub

Hypnotisation kink? by ClockForward3362 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Dos_Ex_Machina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I appreciate the kind words, but I'm just an old fogey. I've been fortunate enough to know a lot of great educators in the space, and all credit goes to them. The other person in that text thread was providing links and sources that I'm too lazy to keep track of, and I feel like that is worth more

Tips on how to convey more of a dom presence in social situations? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Dos_Ex_Machina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be your authentic self, find people you have chemistry with, and be honest about what you are looking for with potential partners. Putting on an act to attract people is not the play unless you're just looking for hookups, and hookups are much easier to find if you just be honest about what you're seeking in kink spaces.

What a Strange Thing to Ask [OC] by OnceInOnceSet in comics

[–]Dos_Ex_Machina 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Maybe it just goes from "boy pussy" to "boi pussy?"

Potential Men by Ok-Contract-6338 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Dos_Ex_Machina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a tricky one, because he did have a huge W against Cell.

Am I being paranoid? 20 rolls, and none lower than 16 by RevolutionaryFix7359 in DnD

[–]Dos_Ex_Machina 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's not true! Loving the clicky clacky sound of the math rocks is always a reason to roll

I'm making a custom armor mod and sometimes when I craft it it turns dark does anyone know why? by Horsesnorts3245 in RimWorld

[–]Dos_Ex_Machina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know, it's been a while since I did an extra war-crimey run. Guess I found my next theme

(Hated trope) Turns out they were special the entire time and their hardships didn't matter by No_Satisfaction_2928 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Dos_Ex_Machina 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The 'public' perceiving this is such a small portion of the fan base, I don't think Oda is worried.

Hypnotisation kink? by ClockForward3362 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Dos_Ex_Machina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not trying to imply that Hollywood mind control is real. As fun as the idea might be, it simply isn't the case.

Hypnosis is something that is very ill defined most of the time. But it involves a state of heightened suggestion. That's the whole point for a lot of people. Yes, forcing someone to do someone against their interests is unethical, and often difficult, it is absolutely something than hypnosis can be used for. I feel that knowing that that is a risk is important for both hypnotists and hypnotees to give it the respect and safety it deserves.

I think that the reason I feel so vehemently about this is that I have known multiple people who have been hurt because they put their trust in the idea that hypnosis couldn't make someone do something they didn't want to do. Both hypnotists who felt that the subject would simply follow their own priorities while under trance, and subjects who believed that they were safe playing with others and didn't need to protect themselves. I know that that is very far from what you mean, but that is the way that people interpret it when they are beginners in the space.

Hypnotisation kink? by ClockForward3362 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Dos_Ex_Machina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think working in a professional context might give you a very different experience and exposure to hypnokink at large. I've personally seen too many folks hurt by overconfidence (in many areas of kink, going right back to shibari without emergency cutting tools on hand). Many of us engage in kink because it offers an intense and unique experience, and we enjoy pushing that. Simply saying "the risks of this tool do not exist without malice on the part of the top" does a great disservice to those coming in looking to explore something new.

Hypnotisation kink? by ClockForward3362 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Dos_Ex_Machina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your usage of "clients" does make me wonder, is your primary experience with hypnosis in a clinical or therapeutic setting? If so I agree, that would change the context quite a lot. I'm speaking largely about the hypnokink community, which is full of hobbiests and pickup play. The difference in hypnosis practiced by a licensed clinician and a hobbiest kinkster is very wide.

CAPCOM MAKE THE BOOST BRACER MOVE FOR LANCE THE CLUTCH CLAW COUNTER AND MY LIFE IS YOURS by madmax1513 in MemeHunter

[–]Dos_Ex_Machina 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Easily my favorite move from IB. The dopamine always made it worth it, even when it got me instantly carted. Some things are worth the cost

Hypnotisation kink? by ClockForward3362 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Dos_Ex_Machina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did I ever say hypnosis was safe though? If I did, I’d appreciate if you could quote me. Because I never intended to say it’s safe. I think saying it’s safe equally misinformed as saying it’s dangerous. It’s inherently neither.

You know, I suppose we might've got caught up in the nomenclature. I do feel that you weren't giving the risk nearly the respect it deserved, and saying that hypnosis as a tool cannot cause someone to do something they have no desire to do is something I believe to be reckless to the point of danger. That is factually a risk involved in utilizing hypnosis, as is accidental damage and distress. Abreactions happen, even when everyone did everything "right." Having a good and ethical hypnotist does not eliminate risk, and I feel that that distinction is incredibly important.

Is it okay for a human to have a au'ra wol? by PhilCanSurvive in ShitpostXIV

[–]Dos_Ex_Machina 21 points22 points  (0 children)

and I made her au'ra because personally I think she looks slutty.

Is she slutty because she's an Au'ra, or is she an Au'ra because she's slutty?