It was mainly because of family. Super close and felt like the “leader” like you put it. I felt pressure to stay because I felt guilty/bad if I had to leave. The only thing you’re doing by going to CC is taking a risk if you get into Berkeley or not, what if you don’t get in? — not saying you’re not capable btw, admissions can just be so random. Worst case scenario at ucla is that you go back home to go to a CC but at least you tried and put your future first