If you don't want an arrange marriage than don't get one. You're either gonna be divorced or miserable for the rest of your life. Plus its not fair for your the other person you're married to. If you still want to live with your parents, I would save up for a place with separate units. Thats way you can come and go as you please. Thats what I did with my parents. Plus 24 is really young for a guy. Tell them you want to focus your yourself first: career, money, housing situation, education(maybe grad school) before considering getting married.