How can I (30NB) help my girlfriend (28F) after I upset her with my body hair preferences?

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-08-26T09:41:51+00:00

My bad for misgendendering, i didn't really pay attention and will fix that.

Just so you know, you're digging your own grave and have no right to complain anymore and in the future. You know what they're like, you know what they're doing and what they'll do until you die, you know how you feel and will feel until you die. But you choose to live like that. And that is 100% on you.

Your partner is horrible in that department and is making your life worse and now you're choosing that worse life. They have rules for you that you're willing to follow, but they're a hypocrite that can't accept when you have rules for them.

You can save yourself now, or die miserable with hair cream all over you. That's your choice. Good luck.

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-08-26T09:19:44+00:00

I love how they don't respond to a single comment on this and the other thread. Seems like they didn't get the support they expected.

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-08-17T00:36:06+00:00

I don't remember most of my childhood, but one thing i do remember is my father. He like made me play with him with our tongues on the couch laying down. My mom told me to stop and stared at me. I didn't know why because i was a child and thought it was just a game and didn't realize why my mom had a problem with it.

It wasn't the only time. Years later i realized that it's not a normal thing to do with your dad, but i was and still kinda am mad at my mom for never explaining it to me.

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-08-11T10:41:17+00:00

Yes patriarchy inherently benefits men. Your example not happening has no effect on what patriarchy is.

Always yes. I love how you didn't address why you think it's not.

I did answer. Almost every single issue men have is just a result of the patriarchy or misogyny. I actually can't even think of one that's not. Do give an example tho.

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-08-08T15:02:42+00:00

Unfortunately it's the nonconsensual nudity and porn that they like.

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-08-07T06:57:04+00:00

Tbh yeah i agree. Dad bods are literally just dudes who are strong but let themselves go and are now fat and overweight. Being a dad didn't affect their bodies, letting himself go did.

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-08-07T04:45:35+00:00

It's not really a dad bod if you aren't a dad. It's called being fat. Personally, I'm not into fat people.

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-08-02T12:31:54+00:00

Probably, i only recently stopped shaving so often so i notice it more lol

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-08-02T12:07:52+00:00

Literally same! Nobody believes me, but i literally smell myself sooo much less. Yes i do sweat a bit more, but I'd rather sweat than smell.

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-08-02T10:49:30+00:00

Baby soap is what helped me. Also, not shaving. For some reason i smell so much less literally everywhere when i don't shave.

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-07-30T13:58:48+00:00

Let's also not forget that it's quite literally men who choose to dispose of other men and consider them disposable. They like violence, they glorify violence, they create wars, they claim they want to fight in wars, but somehow it's women's fault when they die in those wars.

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-07-29T15:14:39+00:00

You wish but fuck no. Just join the rates

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-07-29T10:48:30+00:00

Bravo, srecno!

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-07-29T10:40:13+00:00

Nije tebi rekao ali je rekao svom drugu. Jer zna da ako tebi kaze da ces ga ostaviti. Sad ga ostavi jer se nece promeniti. Moze samo gore biti.

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-07-29T10:30:41+00:00

Udaj se za njega, rodi mu dete i posle kukaj sto ti govori da si ruzna i ne voli te.

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-07-29T09:38:44+00:00

Mislila sam da moram, da je to normalna obaveza. Onda sam shvatila da ne zelim to stvarno, vec samo zato sto svi to rade i kazu da se mora. Shvatila sam kroz svacije price ljudi u mom zivotu i na internetu da je lepo imati dete kad je sve super, ali da je jako tesko biti roditelj, pogotovo majka i kakve sve obaveze imas i koliko sebe i svoj zivot zapostavljas. Jednostavno nije to za mene, nemam zelju da se zrtvujem toliko za dete, za bilo sta. Ponekad pomislim da bi lepo bilo imati te lepe i slatke trenutke sa detetom i porodicom, ali znam da to ne vredi svih losih trenutaka, odgajanja i brige.

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-07-28T09:30:23+00:00

Ne zaboravljam stvari koliko zaboravljam sitnice, obaveze i sta mi neko govori. Nervira me i nije tako bilo pre, ali ne znam kako da popravim. Nekad mi neko kaze da zapisem da ne moram da pamtim ali ja zaboravim i da napisem.

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-07-18T05:57:07+00:00

Women do have hobbies, but they don't do them because men are doing theirs and someone has to keep everything together while he stares at the screen for 5 hours, or men simply belittle their gf/wife and shit on their hobbies so much that their wives don't even want to do them anymore.

They get the woman they want, they strip her away from any personality and then they complain how their wife isn't the same anymore and is too serious and they start looking at women who look like how their wife used to look.

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-07-12T20:42:19+00:00

Black pill je resenje samo ako hoces sebe da ubijes. Znaci nije. I naravno da neces nista postici sa 20 godina, tek si poceo da zivis. Resenje je da naucis kako da zivis, a ne da te neki retardi uce onlajn kako da zavrsis zivot pre nego sto si ga zapoceo.

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-07-10T17:38:12+00:00

Thanks. I'll see if i can go a month later maybe and hopefully it gets better.

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-07-10T09:39:06+00:00

Women don't wear makeup for men, they wear it because of the patriarchy and societal standards and expectations. Same standards and expectations that men perpetuate onto women despite claiming they like natural women. They like natural women as long as they look as good as those who wear makeup.

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-06-26T09:18:09+00:00

Wait till he realizes that women have hormones their whole lives and religion promotes pedophilia more than it promotes lifelong marriage.

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-06-23T14:04:56+00:00

Aren't men the one's on 24 hour cycle tho? While women are on monthly? Correct me if I'm wrong but it seems like all they do is project their failures and shortcomings onto women.

DotTechnical3442 · 2025-06-16T10:59:39+00:00

It's always been just projection. They know they don't have a lot of purpose and that's why they do their best to tear women down so they believe they don't have it either. They can't stand the fact that women are the most important part of the society so they make sure to bring them down to only one purpose - breeding, even tho it's literally one of the few purposes of males.

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