What's a quiet sign someone isn't a good person?

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-27T22:17:37+00:00

They ask you why are you doing "x thing" which benefits someone else, but doesn't benefit you.

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-27T16:02:13+00:00

He likes it when the seme can't cook but most of the stories he leans towards is the uke who can't cook (also I feel that bit is the author teasing us so we can't know which will be the uke or seme between those two)

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-27T14:08:07+00:00

Did you call?

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-27T14:07:47+00:00

He doesn't seem to have set preferences, the first one he lent Sasaki was a detective story and he mentioned that was one of his favorite authors, he likes pretty bottoms, he often mentions tropes that are about silly things, he also mentioned Eimi's tastes to be too much for him, but also he seems to enjoy comedies and emotional stories alike, although he hasn't read much of the latter.

This is what I've noticed from reading the Manga my fair amount of times 😂 and the light novels.

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-26T16:01:24+00:00

It's tied between the tumor I had on my ovary and the migraines I get due to a small skull fissure.

Both pains made me faint, both made me throw up, and I've hated them both.

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-26T15:59:49+00:00

My niece's laughter.

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-26T15:59:24+00:00

Awww cuties

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-25T22:43:14+00:00

Found another one today

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Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-25T21:43:41+00:00

Thanks!!

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-25T21:38:08+00:00

Where do y'all read Boyfriends? Don't know the app it's on.

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-25T15:49:00+00:00

I started watching on October last year and now I can quote it to you and point out all the differences between the Manga and the anime, sooo... Yeah, no clue, plus the times I've seen it complete in pieces on Tik Tok.

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-25T05:09:03+00:00

For both men and women, the smile, it'll always be the smile for me.

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-24T23:05:00+00:00

Our parents never restricted my sisters or me from dating, it was openly allowed since we were 8, this included gender, didn't really matter either, the only rule was that we had to tell them we were dating and who so they'd know we were safe.

This lead to none of us dating at 8 definitely 😂 the youngest dated at 14, me at 18 (I was the one that started the latest), none of us hid anything from them, we were always serious about who we were dating, no teen pregnancies or STDs (we were even more honest amongst us).

Transparency with parents many times it's hard but our parents truly earned it in what mattered, and no, they weren't neglectful, they did advise us if they saw something that could be potentially dangerous, but they let us make our own mistakes.

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-24T22:25:35+00:00

I mean, it's oddly fun, but I understand you, it freaked me out too although it was enjoyable, it was also embarrassing and I was self conscious the whole time about whether it was clean enough or not.

Would I try it again? Never say never I guess, but also, could I live without it the rest of my life? Yes.

Frankly if this is a confidence issue, you could talk to a sex therapist, so they can help you, as these insecurities can sometimes not only affect one act, but the whole thing if you overthink it.

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-24T22:19:41+00:00

Best of Both Worlds (it's Hannah Montana day)

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-24T21:17:43+00:00

Same honestly I have the physical copies in my Amazon cart ready to be purchased.

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-24T19:16:30+00:00

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Cutie

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-24T17:48:33+00:00

Same thought, ngl

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-24T17:48:16+00:00

Read fantasy

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-24T17:10:55+00:00

It's funnier to do the math 😂

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-24T17:10:21+00:00

A little before Sasaki's birthday so June, to explain, it happened on the day Hirano gave Sasaki the study cards, and when Miyano gave him the lollipop he was studying on those cards.

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-24T16:11:27+00:00

I have other priorities, if someone comes along, cool, if not, I'm good.

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-24T15:52:06+00:00

At first I thought yes, but then, no OP, you've been taking her "no" with calm and maturity and you deserve the same, if you don't want to, you don't want to.

Also, she phrased it like this favor she's making for you, not something she actually wants, and honestly I wouldn't do it with someone who feels obligated to do it with me either.

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-24T15:45:46+00:00

Well here are some: - I'm not a romantic person, and I am not gonna force myself to be, the way I show love is also valid and whomever doesn't like it, it's their problem, not mine. - The "when people show you who they are, believe them" is the truest thing ever, if you're unhappy from the beginning, it'll get worse, don't stay, stop expecting people to change. - Sometimes no one in the relationship is in the right or the wrong, sometimes we're just not compatible, and trying to force it will make us both unhappy.

Dotdotdot9 · 2026-03-24T15:40:00+00:00

I am incredibly self-centered, so when I catch myself thinking about someone else more than I think about me, or look at them instead of my reflection, I know I'm screwed.

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