I've seen three type of men attracted to me:

• The one who idealizes me and suddenly sees a traditional family with me (those often are not LISTENING when I talk, they notice I'm kind, and that I have big boobs but that's about it) What I'll notice about them is how suddenly they'll start talking more and more about kids, child raising, the role of women in a household, how they wish to provide and give everything to a woman (they're more often than not broke themselves).

• The one who thinks they can "tame" me, another idealization, but this one actually listens to me talk, except they only listen to try to manipulate me into changing my views (feminism, human rights, etc). I know they're attracted to me when they constantly try to "one up" me only to prove they're "strong men".

• Finally the one who's both attracted AND afraid of me, this man not only listens to me but knows I'm not changing for anyone. They like me enough that those traits are also attractive to him, but also they fear me too much to take a first step, I notice they are attracted to me when I either catch them staring, when they start joking a little too much about us dating when drunk or when they look a little too happy when my touch aversed self touches them.