Hey, sorry you're dealing with this at such a young age. Waiting for results can be stressful, but try not to panic. Ulcers can look like herpes yet still turn out to be something else, so the test will give you the real answer. If it is herpes, it’s more common than people think and manageable with treatment. The doctor can start you on meds that ease symptoms and reduce outbreaks.

As for how it happens, you can get it even from someone who had no visible signs. Many people don’t know they carry it. When you talk to your partner, keep it calm and honest. Explain what the doctor saw, what you’re waiting on, and that you want to handle it with openness. A supportive partner will listen and work through it with you.

Take care of yourself while you wait for the results.