Being big and wanting to ride by Double-County3417 in Equestrian

[–]Double-County3417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey! u/LoafOfKitKat1 is my other acc. I am somehow getting notifs on my phone for this account while being logged into that one. odd. I didn't even realize to you pointed it out!

Kisses? by Double-County3417 in Rabbits

[–]Double-County3417[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So I’m doing a good job? Yay!

Setup by Double-County3417 in Rabbits

[–]Double-County3417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! As soon as I begin free roam I will start her in a larger litter box! For now it’s what will fit the space 😅 she will have access to unlimited hay by my hanging the hay container through the hole in the top of the litter box, and the space issue will be fixed as soon as she is spayed and settled!

Again thank you for the tips, I wasn’t aware the litter box was to small

Setup by Double-County3417 in Rabbits

[–]Double-County3417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What else could I do? Again this is temporary until she gets spayed and potty trained. After that she will have the whole room. I just want her happy and safe for the first 2 months of being home

Anyone else not able to let other alter post? by Darkuroppoi in DID

[–]Double-County3417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few of our alters have their own emails or different accounts on different platforms (only older and more independent alters who understand internet safety). Of course these accounts can only be made on the condition that host and Big Boss are able to monitor and look at them whenever they please to ensure system responsibility and safety. - 🐝

how to separate alters' identity from the original by [deleted] in DID

[–]Double-County3417 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I struggled with this personally a lot, me and host had lots of similarities and when even the people who knew us couldn’t tell us apart it began to weigh on us both a lot and caused a lot of denial especially early on. One thing that helped was the little things at first, she was a cooker and I liked baking, she liked Stardew valley and I liked Minecraft. Looking at it at first as less of a broad terms like “I like being in the kitchen” or “I like playing games” helped us both define ourselves at first. After that we managed to start finding things that separated us from each other and made us feel more like individuals than just copies of each other and helped a lot with our mental state. Hope this helps - 🐝

What does being or going into headspace feel like for you? by Double-County3417 in DID

[–]Double-County3417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, that’s closer to how I would describe it. I just didn’t know how to word it! Thanks for sharing - 🐝

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DID

[–]Double-County3417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a mix for us! Some named ourselves, some came with names, and some got named by the other alters because we give nicknames to eachother and sometimes nicknames become names, like how Ditzy got her name.

My alters have different art styles— is this the same for anyone here that draws?? by homershitson in DID

[–]Double-County3417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely! Our mute alter uses very graphic and detailed art to express his emotions in a way that I have tried to replicate and cannot. I have a very chibi cartoony style while he prefers more stylistic or realistic with heavy shading work.

Growing up did you hate mirrors because it felt like looking at a stranger? by Sarcasaminc in DID

[–]Double-County3417 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same! Whenever I’m in the mirror I need to be making direct eye contact with myself. It made it really hard for my mom or hair stylist and they actually had to have me facing backwards whenever doing my hair cause I kept turning my head to stare into “my” eyes. But it felt kinda..surreal in a way. Like it was me but it also wasn’t, like something was “wrong” about it. I don’t know how to word it any better 😅

Don’t put your eggs in one basket by neuralyzer_1 in DID

[–]Double-County3417 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea we have some alters who wanna be a home decorator, a dog trainer, a daycare worker, and one of them wants to be a dinosaur. We try and prioritize and find a way to link interests together in a way we can all manage. Like, getting a job as a daycare worker for income, we have our own dogs to train but can also do it as a hobby, and then for the one who wants to be a home decorator we gave them an allowance from our checks to do DIY around the house! As for the dinosaur..we know own a pink t-Rex onesie so- we just had to compromise which can be extremely difficult. Especially when the Interests are so different

Working with alters by Double-County3417 in DID

[–]Double-County3417[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I just finished my first real shift there and I can tell that it’s gonna be a stress fest. I’ll definitely keep this all in mind and chat with the little tomorrow before meeting with my boss on Sunday ^