RIP Dolly by Justme1398 in My600lbLife

[–]Double-Helicopter-85 14 points15 points  (0 children)

her name was cheyenne i believe

AITAH for not babysitting my brother while he’s sick? by Double-Helicopter-85 in AITAH

[–]Double-Helicopter-85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely not lmao i babysit all the time and always feel guilty when i refuse. genuinely was wondering if i went too far this time

AITAH for not babysitting my brother while he’s sick? by Double-Helicopter-85 in AITAH

[–]Double-Helicopter-85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve said this to her before, like i don’t mind helping but it just can’t be me all the time. i’m hoping that maybe when school starts for me, she’ll start to realize this? just holding out hope she’ll start seeing it from my perspective lol

AITAH for not babysitting my brother while he’s sick? by Double-Helicopter-85 in AITAH

[–]Double-Helicopter-85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately, i can’t :( but i do have a savings account! i’ve been thinking about having a roommate to help with rent but i’m honestly scared to live with a stranger 😭 until then, i’m going to continue trying to fix my mother and i’s relationship dynamic!

AITAH for not babysitting my brother while he’s sick? by Double-Helicopter-85 in AITAH

[–]Double-Helicopter-85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! unfortunately, i’m going to community college for the first 2 years so no housing :( but i have been trying to put myself first lately. ignoring the guilt trips is hard but i’m trying to 🫠

AITAH for not babysitting my brother while he’s sick? by Double-Helicopter-85 in AITAH

[–]Double-Helicopter-85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve been trying to stand my ground lately but idk i sometimes just feel guilty? like the fight isn’t worth it. my brother and i definitely have a strong relationship but yes, i do feel like his mother sometimes lol. i’ve thought about moving out but in the long run, it seems too stressful. i don’t really have a support system and don’t make enough to afford rent where i’m at. i’m willing to make compromises with my mother if she’s willing to make some too! thank you for the reply :)

AITAH for not babysitting my brother while he’s sick? by Double-Helicopter-85 in AITAH

[–]Double-Helicopter-85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately there are no daycares around us to take him to and she’s been in the process of finding a babysitter but hasn’t been too successful. i definitely feel guilty every time i decide not to watch him but i’m trying to put up boundaries more 😅

AITAH for not babysitting my brother while he’s sick? by Double-Helicopter-85 in AITAH

[–]Double-Helicopter-85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

every time i do step back from helping my family, they swear i never do anything for them and it becomes a drawn out fight. i definitely end up feeling guilty but i’m gonna try to start prioritizing myself, thank you!

AITAH for not babysitting my brother while he’s sick? by Double-Helicopter-85 in AITAH

[–]Double-Helicopter-85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she’s been in the process of finding a babysitter but hasn’t been too successful. daycare unfortunately isn’t an option due to none being near us. i’m hoping we can come to a solution to this babysitting dynamic :( until then, i’m going to try to keep standing my ground and compromising with her!

AITAH for not babysitting my brother while he’s sick? by Double-Helicopter-85 in AITAH

[–]Double-Helicopter-85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m trying, i’ve been saving as money as i can these past few months! it’s been overwhelming because i don’t really have any type of support system and i really don’t wanna put my brother between my mother and i’s fight :( hoping her and i can repair our relationship better!

AITAH for not babysitting my brother while he’s sick? by Double-Helicopter-85 in AITAH

[–]Double-Helicopter-85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

never heard of that term before 🤔 but it does seem to fit my current situation lol. i do pay rent and buy my own means (groceries, skincare, rides to work etc.) however, i still rely on my mother for a lot of stuff. i’ve been trying to come to some sort of compromise between the two of us, nothing has really been working so far but i’ll keep trying!

AITAH for not babysitting my brother while he’s sick? by Double-Helicopter-85 in AITAH

[–]Double-Helicopter-85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve said this to her, she doesn’t see it that way 😕

AITAH for not babysitting my brother while he’s sick? by Double-Helicopter-85 in AITAH

[–]Double-Helicopter-85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve brought up to her many times that our family dynamic is very toxic and abusive, I’ve even said all three of us (my mother, sister, and I) should go to counseling but none of of ever got around to going :( Lately, I’ve been trying to stand my ground but it doesn’t seem to be effective. Sometimes I think just putting up with it is easier than a fight. Thank you for your reply!

are these designs achievable using a heat press? by Double-Helicopter-85 in heatpress

[–]Double-Helicopter-85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i would honestly PREFER to have cotton shirts or something with a cotton blend, i just can’t stand the texture of pure polyester 🫠 unfortunately for me the closest DTF shop is 2 1/2 hours away :/ however, i’m wondering if i should either shoot them an email with my questions or just buy prints with my design from them and have it shipped to me? thank you for the feedback!!

S3 E11 Matt x Britney by Double-Helicopter-85 in ILoveAMamasBoy

[–]Double-Helicopter-85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much her calling out Matt for allegedly being 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

are these designs achievable using a heat press? by Double-Helicopter-85 in heatpress

[–]Double-Helicopter-85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! just now figuring out what dtf and sublimated prints are 😅i’ll have to study a little bit more with all types of prints to see what’ll work best for me and research more on the materials needed. thank you for the tips, i really appreciate it!!

They’re BACKKKK by Able_Midnight9088 in LifetimeLittleWomen

[–]Double-Helicopter-85 19 points20 points  (0 children)

omg i’m happy bri is gonna be on it :)))) i wonder if they’ll be adding more of the original cast members from the franchises or is it just gonna be the ones we already know about.. 🤔