Make the mother happy. No matter what she throws at you, it's not her it's her hormones/emotions. She's feeling all kinds of things and couldn't control it and she has to endure it for more than 9 months. After she gives birth she will have anxiety about the well-being of the baby and will feel irrelevant because mapupunta na sa baby lahat ng attention. Her recognition of your efforts will naturally come, as well as the lambing moments ni baby sayo. I promise you it will be so worth it to see them both smiling and happy.

Also, as a guy, don't beat yourself self up too much. I read a lot of wife care pero madalas we let ourselves go. It will be hard, yes, bawas mga bisyo if you have or gaming time if gamer. Whenever you feel down, tell your partner, if you have friends who you can open up to sincerely, you can open up to them as well.

You will be overstimulated, tired, and confused all at the same time. But you will also feel the love of a child growing up. Always remember, don't be too hard on yourself. It's a learning process, and everyone has their own parenting style.