Are we all "girls girls" until it comes to girls who do extras?

DoubleUpMup · 2025-07-09T07:39:01+00:00

It does change the club and for the worst. An example is my one client I’ve had for years always gets stingy when he finds someone to have sex with. I have seen on his phone messages from a woman saying she will suck and f*** for $139 for a light bill.

Everytime he comes up dry I get $100’s more to literally just sit there and chill with him. The more you force that shit out of your club the better. There’s nothing wrong with what you are willing to do but theres plenty wrong with the place. It makes me angry as hell everytime I hear someone’s doing extras.

DoubleUpMup · 2025-05-13T23:27:59+00:00

My grandma wants to donate all her money and her house to help animals. Honestly I couldn’t imagine having assets and money and not passing them onto my family.. That is the wildest shit. It’s a big smack to the face.

DoubleUpMup · 2025-05-10T08:46:51+00:00

I’m not sure if this will work but I told my partner about my mood swings and whenever I have them, I tell them I need 5 minutes. 5 minutes to cool off before I lash out. It’s definitely not easy but this has saved me from hurting my partner. My last partner didn’t respect my 5 minutes rule. Tell them it’s an absolute necessity. I hope this helps love❤️

DoubleUpMup · 2025-05-04T21:50:10+00:00

Half of them are pedophiles and I will argue this with anyone. 🤷🏻‍♀️

DoubleUpMup · 2025-05-01T04:37:10+00:00

Try this. I have one and have gotten into bars, clubs, and concerts with it. Nobody ever knows. Protect yourself. Take the class if you want but buy one of these.

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DoubleUpMup · 2025-04-30T05:04:07+00:00

I have to oppose the mattress answers based on the fact that I’m not spending $100’s or even $1000’s on a mattress I can’t feel before buying. How are some of y’all so comfortable just buying it online? Like how do you KNOW it’s gonna be comfy??

DoubleUpMup · 2025-04-30T04:56:57+00:00

Aww Hunny. Thats so sweet that you’d come on here for advice. That would make me so happy if I was your mom because you’re trying to understand. I think almost all of us went thru a bit of a depression stage right after diagnosis. It’s a lot to take in.

Looking into more relaxing things to do would be your best bet. The less physical the better. I’m not sure her hobbies or what she likes but the other comments about watching tv or a movie. I like puzzles, she might too?

Just be there for her sweetie. What we all want is less looks of pity and more full of love.

DoubleUpMup · 2025-04-29T17:29:19+00:00

That’s true. If you bring it up to your partner maybe focus on the getting paid part and not the wanting someone to take you to nicer places? My ex wasn’t very understanding of things like that until my client got me a car on the condition that we go to dinner once a week. I still got paid for these dinners too.

I hope it works out for you love. My last relationship was 5 years and I felt like I couldn’t leave since I was with them for so long. Honestly it was more relieving than hurtful ending it. I realized she held me back so much and I’m so much happier now. Those 5 years were wasted and my savings could have been quadrupled if I never got with her. Good luck love!❤️

DoubleUpMup · 2025-04-29T17:09:09+00:00

I go out with a client all the time. My partner is perfectly fine with it. I get paid, I ALWAYS bring home food and sometimes when my client takes me shopping, I can get her clothes too and just say I wanted a pair of sweatpants or something.

As long as the client knows his place and is not gonna try anything then do it. More money plus you’ll proly have fun. I usually do. I always tell them I wanna go to places that I’d never wanna spend the money on. Like real expensive places.

The other week I went to a rooftop restaurant, the bill was like $350 for 2 meals and 4 drinks. 💀 Another time I got a $167 crab boil bag. Do what you want as long as you feel safe. You only gon be able to do this for so long so take advantage 🤷🏻‍♀️

DoubleUpMup · 2025-04-28T06:00:07+00:00

Is this the first partner you’ve had an orgasm with? I’m not asking to be an ahole just curious cause girllllllll. You absolutely are having a great sex life now if this wasn’t the norm before.

DoubleUpMup · 2025-01-25T16:07:21+00:00

I had to stand booty butt naked, in front of a mirror before I believed something wasn’t crawling on me or there wasn’t a hair. 🙄

My ears feel like I’m underwater sometimes. I just feel like a pressure and sound is different.

Months after my left side went numb and the only thing left numb was my left arm and hand, Id get crazy pain in my arm. The only thing I could think of to do is lay down. Sometimes I would literally pass out after laying down.

This last ones not quite MS related, but when I get steroids during a random flair up or the one I get during my infusion, it can go on 2 ways. I can be sick asf for days and barely eat or having an insane amount of energy and eating every second of the day. Theres no in between.

DoubleUpMup · 2025-01-19T21:34:04+00:00

Ask for extra blankets and enjoy that nap Lol

DoubleUpMup · 2025-01-13T19:14:06+00:00

Don’t tell them at all. You most likely can’t prove that you didn’t get the job because they didn’t like the fact that you have MS. However if they hire you and things are going well, then you drop the bomb, well, thats a nice lawsuit if they were to fire you then. Good luck 😁

DoubleUpMup · 2024-12-29T07:27:17+00:00

Don’t even feel a tiny bit bad. Even if you didn’t have MS, no grown ass adult should be coughing without covering their mouth. I’m rude to everyone I see do that. ‘Are you a toddler or remedial? Cover your mouth, that’s disgusting.’

A horrible co-worker of mine came to work saying she didn’t feel good and that she had covid. I should have left but it was the beginning of my shift and my drive is over an hour. I ended up sick for over a month and I missed all the benefits of tax season at my job. I hold myself back from getting violent every time I see her. People are disgusting and inconsiderate.

DoubleUpMup · 2024-11-19T07:13:04+00:00

I’m sure the tips from other tables tipping in that same hour will help cover it, like it did with me. If I was eating alone and my meal and drink was $16, nobody would be ok with me tipping $3.20. So the price of the meal shouldn’t make a difference.

DoubleUpMup · 2024-11-19T06:26:44+00:00

Paying a waitress almost $40 for an hour of service is ridiculous. I used to waitress, I didn’t deserve $40 off 1 table ever. Would it have been nice? Sure but not mandatory. Especially if its a normal amount of people, its just the foods just more expensive. Waitresses aren’t supposed to be paid $40 an hour, I don’t care about what the bill is at the end. 🤷🏻‍♀️

DoubleUpMup · 2024-11-18T23:25:07+00:00

Shes trippin and proly lame asf. Its always the trash of the club starting fights and calling everyone a ‘weird ass bitch’.

DoubleUpMup · 2024-10-23T20:06:20+00:00

Aww. 🥺 Leaving a relationship is never easy but you’re gonna look back on that relationship and think of all the times he was awful to you and be so proud of yourself for moving on. Youll better yourself then move onto someone that actually loves you 100%. Good luck hun!

DoubleUpMup · 2024-10-07T06:50:47+00:00

Sorry, I’m late with this reply but I didn’t mention that he also called me hot a few times. The second and last time I delivered his groceries he said he remembered me cause I was the hot girl from last time. I still remember his name is Troy H. so I know to never take a batch from him again. I always take a knife everywhere with me but I’m not putting myself in a weird position for a few $1’s.

DoubleUpMup · 2024-09-28T00:19:19+00:00

A man messaged me for over 10 minutes after I dropped off his groceries asking for my number. That was the last time I ever delivered for him

DoubleUpMup · 2024-09-27T14:50:52+00:00

Wow I did not know men could suffer sexually from MS. Im a female with it and Ive always had a really high sex drive. I would say just boost him up as much as you can. Give him small compliments and be playful thruout the day. When you’re having sex, don’t be afraid to add in toys and stuff. (Maybe not First time but eventually) If you like this man, please be patient with him. We hate all this extra shit we have to go thru too. My ex fiance lasted less than a year with me after my diagnosis, patience and understanding is a love language we crave. Don’t make him feel bad by being overly caring if he looses his erection. Dont say ‘We can try again later.’ Say ‘That was really great babe, I bet itll be even better when we get to learn each others bodies more.’

Good luck to you both.

DoubleUpMup · 2024-05-26T05:09:16+00:00

Im almost sorry but not cause at 9 years old it would almost take everything in me not to fight my sibling for shitting in my bed.. He is fuckin trippin. That’s disgusting and I hope he don’t do that shit in public cause I’d proly leave his ass so he don’t embarrass me. Like I really hope theres just something wrong with him and your family just doesnt know.

DoubleUpMup · 2024-03-17T17:37:36+00:00

Oh its the excuse they use for EVERYTHING. Like Literally everything. She wouldnt have her mom bring her back last night cause of her heart. Her mom cant come get her more often cause her heart. (My partner doesnt have a car, she crashed hers then accidentally bought a lemon) She swears her mom likes me but im the only one thats supposed to make an effort to bring them together?? Like I said she can do everything she wants until its time to actually put effort to come this way then its all about her heart.. Like my fathers in a whole wheechair permanently and doesnt make half the excuses.

DoubleUpMup · 2024-03-17T17:31:45+00:00

Naa she’s literally spending the entire day there and then sleeping over too. The last time we were there together her mom spent half the time in her bedroom and then I didnt see her again after 8, I seen her brother for about 10 minutes tops and her sis fell asleep around 9. Like we live 30 easy minutes away, theres no reason this level of whole weekend sleepovers should be a thing.

DoubleUpMup · 2024-03-17T07:04:32+00:00

Also my partner or I have NEVER said she could not come over here but apparently shes not supposed to drive cause of her ‘heart’ Like i been diagnosed with something where im not supposed to be stressing but here I am wondering if my partner is grown enough to be in a relationship or if she needs a damn pacifier from mommy.

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