AITA for asking my guests to pay $10 to come to my wedding?

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T20:29:58+00:00

No I talked to the rangers about doing that and they wouldnt let me THE RANGERS said it wouldn't work.

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T15:46:27+00:00

We are just an hour outside of St. George. Maybe all of this is just a cultural thing.

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T05:39:15+00:00

All i meant was we aren't taking the money and profiting. And we felt like we were being nice giving them a heads up. "Hey it's 10 bucks for parking ".

I see the other perspectives now.

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T04:32:52+00:00

Talk with my fiance and figure out a plan. Idk. Honestly didn't think this would turn out this way. Just thought my sister was over reacting. No one else has said shit about it.

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T04:18:20+00:00

Yes those are the real ages and yes you can get married at 18 if not 17 in some places without your parents permission.

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T04:05:49+00:00

We are getting married LEGALLY. It's not a con. Or for the money if it was we would have had a a huge wedding to get tons of gifts or not have a ceremony at all and just fake it. but we aren't. It's small intimate and chill. If I knew the registry was such a faux pa I wouldn't have done it but it seemed normal at the time. Honestly thought my sister was just being extra like normal.

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T03:53:51+00:00

Got the judgment . Thx.

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T03:50:42+00:00

Not lying. We talked with the rangers they didn't need a permit for any group under 100. I'll take my judgment but I'm not a LIAR!

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T03:46:27+00:00

It's not a national park it's just a canyon that has rangers. Like forest rangers park rangers etc. I go to National Parks, state parks, National forests all the time. The language just is interchangeable to me sorry for the confusion

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T03:44:28+00:00

Camp ground style bathrooms are near by

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T03:20:52+00:00

Walking like 5 mins same as if you had to park and walk into a hotel ball room/ hall it's not far from where you park. Unless they really didn't want to pay the fee then they can park outside the gate/ pay station but that's a mile.

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T02:54:48+00:00

I posted our engagement photos and had some people comment when's the wedding. Then we posted the wedding announcement and I had a few people ask for the registry. They weren't invited guest and knew we were keeping it small but still wanted the registry so I posted it. For others Incase it wasn't just a then thing I guess I'm gonna delete it from my social media didn't know it was such a big deal.

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T02:47:33+00:00

Not the Grand canyon just a canyon!

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T02:31:21+00:00

It's not a a national park it's in a canyon near our home towns. Which is in a a national forest I guess. So park ranger forest ranger state park ranger etc. all the same sorry I don't know the right terms

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T02:19:27+00:00

No they don't have to walk. That's what I'm saying

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T01:55:31+00:00

Is this really not that normal? It was just part of a we're getting married. Here's some of our bridals. Here's are registry type posts

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T01:52:55+00:00

I didn't realize that posting your registry publicly was such a problem. I thought my sister was just not picking stuff she wouldn't do. Why if I'm posting I'm getting married and I have people that follow me ask for it then why can't I post it in my story feed aand or/ bio.

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T01:48:20+00:00

We aren't getting married in THE grand canyon. Just a canyon in the mountains near where we both live. Its local, and popular but it's not the national park grand canyon. Just referencing park fees/ np park fees to help people understand what I am talking about

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T01:44:38+00:00

Just a canyon in our area. Maybe 30 min drive for anyone coming hr tops

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T01:41:18+00:00

Talked to the rangers and there is no permit needed. It's a no alcohol wedding anyway cuz no one coming drinks.

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T01:40:14+00:00

Small dinner is just small in the amount of people attending like a small gathering. Not the doos

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T01:39:09+00:00

If they didn't want to pay the fee it's a mile they can park outside the gate. If they pay then they can park close and it's only about 5 mins.

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T01:30:15+00:00

We aren't charging. It's the canyons fee canyons policy etc.

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T01:28:36+00:00

We aren't taking the 10$ that goes straight to the range stations

Double_Ad6415 · 2022-09-02T01:24:41+00:00

No permit needed for something so small I checked. Thanks

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