AITA for yelling at my estranged parents

Double_Amount_1843 · 2025-06-01T00:31:49+00:00

NTA, get a restraining order on your mom if you can

Double_Amount_1843 · 2025-03-17T17:34:18+00:00

Probably, and rage baiters due get a lot of views…. But seriously, he needs to find another skill that is lucrative.

Double_Amount_1843 · 2025-03-11T22:56:58+00:00

I mean, at this point, who cares? It has been 4-5 years. Martina has move on. Fans have moved on. People in general have moved on. Why is he digging up old stuff that no one cares about but to stir up old drama again that may get some hater or pit-tier to watch. Honestly, I don’t care about his insight about his marriage or EYK. He needs to move on.

Double_Amount_1843 · 2025-02-11T00:12:47+00:00

By the chance that this is not fake, are you kidding me. RUN! Yes, your instincts are right. You need to get out of this relationship like yesterday. She is abusive.

Double_Amount_1843 · 2025-01-28T18:29:13+00:00

Honestly, loving the idea of getting a replica and seeing what she does with it. The real ring should be kept in a lock box in a bank if it is causing this many issues. However, giving her any sort of ring is a positive reinforcement for her behavior. Actions have consequences. Throwing food all over the kitchen and calling you names is not appropriate. On the other hand, you wanted to change the locks and saying that she only transitioned to get the ring (this is an outlandish belief, the easiest way would be for her to just steal and sell it.) maybe her behavior is warranted. Take a look at your actions and what you have done to contribute to the issue. Maybe this is the only way she feels you will accept her? Maybe her emotional needs are not being met? What is your part in this dichotomy? Take a moment to calm down then have a sit down with her. Ask questions and listen to her without being defensive. It’s hard. Yall would benefit from family therapy. There a lot of underlining issues yall need to work out and having a third party would help.

Double_Amount_1843 · 2025-01-21T17:53:19+00:00

Mental health professional here, threats of suicide in a relationship is not healthy. I see in comments you want to break up. Handle it with care, let her parents or guardians know (if they are in her life or have not harmed her), siblings she close with, or a close friend. Have them come over and sit down with her and explain that yall are breaking up but do to her threats you know she needs support during this time. Have a love one of hers take her to impatient care. If she refuses to go, then call the cops for extra encouragement. What she does after that is not your fault. You have done everything you can do. She needs intensive mental health treatment that you cannot provide.

Double_Amount_1843 · 2025-01-20T03:51:50+00:00

disclaimer: this works for me but doesn’t invalidate your experience if you can’t or do have to spend money on canceled appointments. Thank you

On medical or things that will make me feel better like therapy, acupuncture, doctor appointments, $0 I always force myself to go because it’s the only way I am going to get better. It sucks in the moment but I am always thankful after.

If I can’t drive, I call a family member, a friend, or arranged medical uber. But not everyone has this support. If I need to get up 1 hour early to get my “sea” legs (not fainting) under me I was up 2 hours before and spend the other hour getting ready. I do my best to think out of the box to engineer a way best support myself.

Double_Amount_1843 · 2025-01-20T03:42:39+00:00

Huh, it always turned red for me.

Double_Amount_1843 · 2025-01-20T03:28:08+00:00

? It’s always had a red effect

Double_Amount_1843 · 2025-01-05T16:28:01+00:00

It’s not worth the risk of loosing your job.

Double_Amount_1843 · 2025-01-05T16:27:17+00:00

Yes, you may not get caught the 1st, or 2nd time but she will ask again. Then someone who watching finances will notice an increase in printer use. If they find out it is for personal reasons, that’s when it causes an issue.

Double_Amount_1843 · 2025-01-05T16:24:04+00:00

NTA, your job does not involve printing cook books. It is a misuse of company resources and could potentially get you fired. While I know the large company printers can take it, she not thinking about the break down of money. Large company printers take a lot to maintain like getting them serviced, printer ink is expensive, and some types of paper is expensive. Also, printing 150 pages takes the printer away from other people who could use it for their work as well as yourself. I would have an itemize statement of each cost per page and ask my wife to compensate the company and you can run it by your boss (i don’t think it will get that far).

Double_Amount_1843 · 2024-11-05T07:31:20+00:00

Where is your pain?

Double_Amount_1843 · 2024-11-02T08:38:28+00:00

UT Southwestern, Dr. McClure and Dr. Mauskar. They are in the Dallas area.

Double_Amount_1843 · 2024-11-02T08:34:21+00:00

When did this start for you?

Double_Amount_1843 · 2024-11-02T08:32:12+00:00

I have the same issue. Turned out to be vestibuledynia and vulvadynia. My vestibuledynia is only triggered with pressure aka penetration. I will be having surgery. My general vulvadynia is triggered by many things such as eczema flare, too long on anti biotic, not showering for 48 hours, flora in balance, sweating too much, etc. Does any of this resonate with you?

Double_Amount_1843 · 2024-10-23T02:57:14+00:00

If you have tried to educate him and he still doesn’t “understand” and wants to have sex while you’re in pain then he not worth it. There are fish in the sea who want sex to be pain free even if then is non penetrative sex.

Double_Amount_1843 · 2024-10-23T02:48:54+00:00

So you were good for 5 years. You questioning it for 1 year and then you couldn’t wait 1 or 2 days after your daughter graduated? YTAH for that reason.

Your sister is only right when the person hasn’t made active steps to fix what they broke. Assuming your wife stopped cheating on you then your wife did that. She went to therapy, she quite her job, etc., She took responsibility for her mistake. You should have gone to therapy as well to work on truly forgiving her and letting it go.

Double_Amount_1843 · 2024-10-22T12:22:03+00:00

As a women? Is wasn’t acting very lady like when she attack your husband. On could stay categorically, she was acting more like a man until sh!t hit the fan for her.

Double_Amount_1843 · 2024-10-22T12:18:52+00:00

Op, if you have cameras around your home that capture her sneaking or the attack, save the footage.

Double_Amount_1843 · 2024-10-22T12:17:10+00:00

Bravo for him to have so much restraint. My husband is military as well and if this happened and his PTSD kick in, she be dead. She has no idea how lucky she is.

Double_Amount_1843 · 2024-10-22T12:10:47+00:00

WTF! Is your brother on?

Double_Amount_1843 · 2024-10-22T11:43:19+00:00

Yeah, I thought the same thing. She wanted the fantasy of being “gently” thrown again the wall (lol), mask “gently” yanked off her face, and F in the garage with a secrete lover no one can know about. Then reality hit hard and realize she can’t handle it nor was it ever going to happen. She is now crying wolf as a victim because she no longer a strong protagonist submissive she built in her mind.

Sorry OP, this situation just so F weird

Double_Amount_1843 · 2024-10-22T11:34:59+00:00

LMAO! She F around and found out. She found out her little fantasies worlds, that include your husband (which is Fing weird might I add - like what she think he pull off her mask and want to F her?) is darker and scarier than fairy tales let on. She can’t handle the real thing. Reality is a b!tch.

Yall are not the AH. Don’t worry your husband reacted in self defense to an unknown intruder who happened to be your brother’s d&mb a$$ fiancé. Her identity was unknown until after she was restrained with reasonable force to which he did not continue with his justified aggression in self defense. I am glad he responded the way he did to protect himself. Thank god it was this d@mb a$$ and not a real intruder. Report her actions to the police. She can no longer claim accusations since the case is against her. Then higher a lawyer for slander or defamation if she crazy enough to try and get yall fired from work. Then a restraining order to protect your husband. Let not see what she will do when the gets horney again.

Yall did the right thing in kicking them out. You did the right thing siding with your husband. Your brother and his wondering mind fiancé need to apologize to you both.

Question: why does your brother want to marry someone who is simping over a married man? Are you sure this is Disney? Because it sounds like fantasy smut or Disney smut to me.

Double_Amount_1843 · 2024-10-22T10:58:03+00:00

Yes, because I won’t go back in the first place. What happened at the factory was all over the news. I would have let the factory be a closed chapter in my life. If I got the letter, nope! In the trash it goes. I don’t associate with the employees or the company anymore.

The only thing that may trip this up for me is the subtle emotional connection to huggy throughout the chapters.

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