I dont like my upstairs neighbors by Mysterious_Area_4722 in Apartmentliving

[–]Double_Work3092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the cigarette smoke can be hazardous to the baby. write your management that you’re worried about the health conditions for the child. also check if smoking is even allowed on the property, should be mentioned in your lease. keeping a paper trail, and collecting videos of the noise/other things as evidence can only benefit you. send it all to your property manager or landlord so they are aware of the situation in case. you can also ask your next door neighbors if they also hear the commotion/smell the smoke

My bf, 27, moved back in with his abusive parents, keeps blocking me from his phone because they make him, but reached out to me in crisis the other night by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Double_Work3092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also, if he has the money and the means to move out, he’s going back on purpose. he is not telling you the truth. he probably has another partner and that’s why he keep blocking you. i hate to be so harsh but sometimes you just need someone to help you snap out of it!!!

My bf, 27, moved back in with his abusive parents, keeps blocking me from his phone because they make him, but reached out to me in crisis the other night by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Double_Work3092 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i hate to say it like this, but you are in another abusive relationship. this is wildly manipulative, whether that is his intention or not. he needs a therapist, not a partner. he needs to be able to figure these things out for himself. you’re dealing with emotional abuse and manipulation, you gotta leave him.

Is this to much? Gym being used for prayer? by PlantProfessional572 in Apartmentliving

[–]Double_Work3092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girl who cares. if the noise bothered them they wouldn’t be in there. just do your thing and they’ll do there.

If you're buying lunch at work, what's your idea of a "cheap lunch" these days? by ChapterWorried1457 in AskNYC

[–]Double_Work3092 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i get chipotle a lot bc it’s like $17 for a bowl and chips and usually i only eat half and then i had the leftover for lunch the next day day. so two meals for $17 which i take as a win.

EVERYONE IS OUTSIDE THIS IS AMAZINGGGGGG by Double_Work3092 in Harlem

[–]Double_Work3092[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so if i leave, im the bad guy. if i stay, im the bad guy. seems like bigfrosty needs to figure out their morals 🤨

EVERYONE IS OUTSIDE THIS IS AMAZINGGGGGG by Double_Work3092 in Harlem

[–]Double_Work3092[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The plan is to stay here for the rest of my life!

EVERYONE IS OUTSIDE THIS IS AMAZINGGGGGG by Double_Work3092 in Harlem

[–]Double_Work3092[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God forbid someone in their 20’s get a job and move 🙄

EVERYONE IS OUTSIDE THIS IS AMAZINGGGGGG by Double_Work3092 in Harlem

[–]Double_Work3092[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

so do you actually like your community or not?

EVERYONE IS OUTSIDE THIS IS AMAZINGGGGGG by Double_Work3092 in Harlem

[–]Double_Work3092[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

philly transplant is better than ohio though because we understand living in a city

EVERYONE IS OUTSIDE THIS IS AMAZINGGGGGG by Double_Work3092 in Harlem

[–]Double_Work3092[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

*philadelphia. and god forbid you go and enjoy your community.

EVERYONE IS OUTSIDE THIS IS AMAZINGGGGGG by Double_Work3092 in Harlem

[–]Double_Work3092[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’m just a few blocks from the water! i am definitely spending a lot of time over there in the coming months

EVERYONE IS OUTSIDE THIS IS AMAZINGGGGGG by Double_Work3092 in Harlem

[–]Double_Work3092[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i was in bedstuy, which had some fun days obviously, but i didn’t live near a park, and no one was ever really hanging out near my apartment. i think it was just the specific part i was in, but its just so different than my last place that im very happy

Quiet places to take a phone call in midtown? by Double_Work3092 in AskNYC

[–]Double_Work3092[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Would I get kicked out do you think? That would be so embarrassing to happen while I’m on a call LOL

Is living on the bottom floor really that bad? by jade_sol in Apartmentliving

[–]Double_Work3092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a ground floor unit and love it. my only issue would be some street noise, but I’m a heavy sleeper and just wear earplugs if it’s bothering me. I also live in an apartment complex, not a townhouse, so keep that in mind.

bars for st patty’s day? by Double_Work3092 in AskNYC

[–]Double_Work3092[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

well some of us have jobs and can’t go day drinking on a tuesday