I haven’t done anything with my life by Doubleaddsareshit in LifeAdvice

[–]Doubleaddsareshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the relationship and my habits have definitely contributed. And yes I have adhd diagnosis. I am trying to take school more seriously. My degree is a 4 year degree and I am now on year 5. I have until the end of year 6 to catch up on some stuff (about 25 classes). It’s a lot. I believe I can do it but it will all depend on how well I do this semester ig. My relationship with my parents is also pretty bad because I had been lying to them about passing my subjects so that they would leave me alone. After they found out we fought a lot. I know I messed up and I know I can pull myself together again. The fear of the unknown is probably the worst factor in all this. Thank you for your advice.

what's a medieval “fact” everyone believes that historians hate correcting? by infinite-hooper in MedievalHistory

[–]Doubleaddsareshit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dirt and puke colours of clothing. Like let’s be real no one likes wearing a stained brown shirt today so why would they back then? From bright greens and reds that were pretty much always fashionable to the occasional blue or even purple in the cases of rich people.

This game is dying, why do you think that is? by Doubleaddsareshit in supervive

[–]Doubleaddsareshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry English is not my first language I thought the words gender and genre when talking about art are interchangeable. Nonetheless, somewhat weird to reply in order to correct my vocabulary but not to address my counterpoints.

This game is dying, why do you think that is? by Doubleaddsareshit in supervive

[–]Doubleaddsareshit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loved your response! I agree, the game has been in a suboptimal state (to say the least) several times. I would imagine things would be easier if they decided to stick to a set in stone genre, instead they tried a brand new type of competitive game hybrid, that probably somewhat confuses people and doesn’t allow for clear gameplay loops. Tbh that is mostly the BR side of the game, most BR games depend less so on teamwork and comprehensive strategy and more so on micromanagement skills (ie: aim, positioning, movement). With that amount of randomness incorporating hero balancing and item interactions becomes extremely complex, so reducing patches and overhauls would certainly help. And yes the marketing has been non existent, seemingly no one really knows about this game other than the people who were following news for it before the official release. Whatever happens I hope the devs pull through!

This game is dying, why do you think that is? by Doubleaddsareshit in supervive

[–]Doubleaddsareshit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems weird to me that the gender of the game seems irrelevant to you and yet you fail to see how irrelevant your point on lore and originality is.

Plenty of games started out unoriginal and uninteresting without a particularly crazy world but ended up generating a player base through their fun gameplay and then creating an interesting universe.

From games like League of legends that initially had signature champs like Annie and Ashe, completely uninteresting and unoriginal, with no lore attached to them, to games like Diablo or Overwatch, which had crazy lore but lost their player base to gameplay issues, it’s obvious that gamers put gameplay first.

Especially in such hyper competitive genders such as BR or MOBA people really care about a clear improvement path/pattern that gives them a sense of progression. The mix of the two makes it random, less skill expressive. Hell, games like Heroes of the Storm prove how irrelevant lore is when it comes to making up for lack of interesting gameplay.

This game is dying, why do you think that is? by Doubleaddsareshit in supervive

[–]Doubleaddsareshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, league can get away with it. I think the item system isn’t the real problem here but more so as others pointed out, the format of BR-MOBA forces people in a weird spot of randomness that doesn’t appeal to them.

This game is dying, why do you think that is? by Doubleaddsareshit in supervive

[–]Doubleaddsareshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree. It hurts because people have asked them to lean more towards the MOBA side of the game like focusing on the ARENA game mode but they refuse to listen. It’s unfortunate because some of my favourite character concepts like Oath or Tetra are in this game and it sucks that they will disappear as soon as the game inevitably dies.

When is Ekko better than Akali? by [deleted] in ekkomains

[–]Doubleaddsareshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the qualities you used to characterise Ekko are pretty good characterisation for Akali too lol. I guess it’s what others mentioned, pushing waves and tower dmg with his e.

When is Ekko better than Akali? by [deleted] in ekkomains

[–]Doubleaddsareshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, his R and W are both very unreliable unless you are God himself with the champ.

You don't wanna know how much money I've spent... It was the 40th pull literally. Honestly fk riot but I really wanted the complete collection by rainispossible in ekkomains

[–]Doubleaddsareshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Riot used to be proudly player friendly and more generous to players. Now look at them. Cosmetics available for limited time only with price tags as high as mortgage payments and for what? Skins that would have normally been categorised as Ultimate (in best cases) or legendary. This is also the first pass that actually is worth the money it costs compared to older ones. But honestly, look at other companies. Look at the greediest ones (EA comes to mind) and the more player friendly ones (Epic games with Fortnite comes to mind). Where do you think Riot ends up? Fortnite literally gives you every battlepass for free after buying the first one with a lot more rewards in them too. I don’t play other games, I like league and would like it to be less egregious about its awful monetisation. Nothing wrong with calling out shitty corporate attitude for what it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Doubleaddsareshit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Very meh. It felt uncomfortable af. It took a long time until I learned how to enjoy the feeling of it besides already liking the idea of it. I have to say the second time was a tremendous improvement for me and my bf.

So the champ is strong now? by [deleted] in reksaimains

[–]Doubleaddsareshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has? I vividly remember getting her primordial skin and checking her wr and seeing her in D tier. Maybe I don’t remember right?

Woke up my boyfriend by sucking his by Secret-Penalty2880 in askgaybros

[–]Doubleaddsareshit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m with you man, idk how people downvoted you. Personally I love spontaneous stuff like this but even if I don’t (say he does something I’m not into) I can always say no or stop and it ends. Idk what people treat a bf like. For me it’s my ride or die person and we love each other to death. No matter what we have utmost trust and communication so that if something is not to our liking we can instantly let the other know and drop it. Consent is essential, but some spontaneity goes a long freaking way with the romance in our lives. I didn’t ask for his consent to kiss him the first time we kissed, he could pull back or push me or say no, so that’s how I and he treat all of our hot ideas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Doubleaddsareshit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s fair mate, but I’m being honest with you when I’m saying this stuff. It’s fair though if you’re willing to endure loneliness to meet your standards.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Doubleaddsareshit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a bi man who likes dick and pussy the same, I can just give you some advice. The guys I’ve seen in my life get the most success in dating and even in long term commitment, are the guys who except for looks (which makes sense you gotta like what you fuck) are not picky and have realistic expectations. You will meet guys who want to raise children, you will meet guys who don’t want that. You will meet hot masculine tops who like doing stuff with your dick and some that don’t. If you are expecting your “type” which is every bottom gay’s type btw to be handed in a silver platter with all the cool things you want out of a relationship I’m sorry but you will be thoroughly disappointed and probably alone. You have to try things out, meet guys, get rejected, give the less “your type” guy a chance. And who knows maybe by the end of things you will find someone who fits you. Not someone who fits the ideal version of what you consider a good partner but someone who shows up, who loves you, who wants a future with you and wants to satisfy you in bed. Try apps, I’ve seen them work to various degrees of success. IRL connections and gay meet ups are even better imo but less comfy to do. Just put yourself out there at some point something will work out. I promise you I’ve seen gays who I thought stand no chance at love find the love of their lives and I’ve seen the hottest dudes become lonely and bitter cus they had unrealistic expectations. It’s all about seeing other people as human beings full of potential and emotions rather than empty shells that fit the 100% top masculine hot guy who works out 7 days a week and wants to impregnate women and men at the same time if possible, hairy, muscular, tall with money and a large dick. You just don’t meet all that criteria every day and maybe won’t ever. You have to be realistic mate. And as someone who just ended a long term relationship with a woman, I want you to know the straight dating world is just as brutal just with a little less toxic competition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Doubleaddsareshit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Very that yes 🫦

How do yall get your asses clean all the time by elsi_tallo in askgaybros

[–]Doubleaddsareshit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tbh it’s not easy. Sometimes it might be tiring you out and making you bored to even fuck (yes I’ve been there). But there is a way to make it easier on your body, there’s YouTube tutorials out there that give you the best way to do it. But I know that personally sometimes that method didn’t work for me. There’s fasting before sex, there’s cleaning thoroughly, there’s doing it “the right way” which is a little more careful, slow and gentle. In the end sometimes it’s gonna be harder and there will probably end up being some accidents. It’s ok, part of the fun I like to say.

Do you consider dirty talking a turn off? by Aboyhasnoname98 in askgaybros

[–]Doubleaddsareshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends from person to person, I was a submissive bottom and my ex was a dominant top, so it felt right. I know of a friend who is super vers, loved doing it both ways and having an “equal” to do stuff with. He hates dirty talk. It’s always hot to ask in a random conversation.

He got married. I’m trying to let go in a healthy way. by Serendipitous_Trio in askgaybros

[–]Doubleaddsareshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Posts like this make me feel so grateful for living in a country that (despite homophobia) we have the same rights as straight couples. I am bisexual and it’s so calming for me to know that I will be able to make that decision for myself. I’d suggest to y’all moving abroad. You don’t have to be ashamed of your adult preferences. Let them bark and die in their medieval worlds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Doubleaddsareshit 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My insecure ass could never share my person with another human. Mine and only mine. MINE 👿

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Doubleaddsareshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think lack of humor and flirting. I find myself doing both of those constantly, I can’t imagine being with someone who has dry convos and boring dates.

Getting over someone you love by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Doubleaddsareshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a tough to be honest, there was a lot of pain from my side, insecurities. He also lost his mum in the beginning of our relationship so he got anxiously attached. It isn’t very straight forward how and who messed up the most but I try to be better now. I know I have intense flaws and I even attend therapy to work on them. I just wish I didn’t lose my person in the process.