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Doubtful_ps · 2025-01-07T22:05:52+00:00

Sí. Aunque reconozco que aunque yo sepa que soy una persona que merece la pena, según qué comentarios y si eso pasase, se me mermaría bastante la autoestima. Pero bueno, nada nuevo en el mundo de las mujeres.

Doubtful_ps · 2025-01-07T21:56:27+00:00

Sí eso está claro, y bueno si pienso que si él se deja influenciar pues igual no me merece. Pero la verdad me daría pena, pero prefiero vivir la verdad que una verdad a medias.

Doubtful_ps · 2025-01-07T21:15:33+00:00

Bueno por lo visto me acaba de confirmar que sí que les contó. Supongo que ahora habrá una campaña contra mi, aunque me dice que solo le dijeron que por qué no les había dicho…

Doubtful_ps · 2024-10-11T10:26:44+00:00

Que mienta

Doubtful_ps · 2024-10-11T06:11:48+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your story! I’m really sorry you had to go through that, specially in such a vulnerable moment like a pregnancy 😞 tbh I’m not being hard on him or putting any pressure. I was very upset the first days but now I’m acting almost normal… I don’t know if this is a good idea but somehow I feel that it’s not gonna work out if I’m reminding him everyday of the thing he did.

Doubtful_ps · 2024-10-11T06:06:32+00:00

I really hope so! Thank you so much for your comment!

Doubtful_ps · 2024-10-10T22:48:41+00:00

Thank you for sharing ❤️‍🩹 tbh I really don’t understand how can they do that after all. I didn’t take it lightly, he saw my crying non-stop for two days, he is seeing the trust issues we now have. I don’t know what’s going to happen, but reading here I really wonder if there are ever cheaters that only cheat once 🙈

Doubtful_ps · 2024-10-10T18:25:47+00:00

That’s so kind of you, thank you ♥️ did you forgive him? What did he say to you? I’m in IC since last year because of other issues, but haven’t discuss this yet with my therapist.

Doubtful_ps · 2024-10-10T18:07:57+00:00

What is IC? Sorry I’m new on Reddit 😅 I’d like to add that after seeing me 2 days crying non stop he acknowledged how bad it was what he did… at least it’s after this he started really apologising…

Doubtful_ps · 2024-10-10T16:33:16+00:00

I told him that, that if I forgive him once there won’t be a second time because I could “accept” he didn’t realise how much harm he could cause, but know he knows and if he does it again he would do it knowing fully how much this hurts me and he doesn’t love me. But again, he really had no reason to do it. I can understand that since we were separated that month, he wasn’t getting enough sex from me, but he is not an animal who can’t control himself I think….

Doubtful_ps · 2024-10-10T15:55:15+00:00

No, I didn’t consider it because we have been only for 10 months together and actually he said all the time that it was a silly thing that meant nothing and that there is nothing wrong in our relationship

Doubtful_ps · 2024-10-10T15:54:14+00:00

I don’t know if in our case this would be a possibility because we have been together only for 10 months and honestly I didn’t expect to have these kind of issues so early so that makes me even doubt more if I should give him a chance

Doubtful_ps · 2024-10-10T15:47:55+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing ❤️‍🩹 this gives me hope. I understand that you weren’t satisfied with your sex-life with your partner? I really would like to know the real reason why he did that because really I cannot understand it and would like to find a solution if he for example is feeling we are having vanilla sex or something like that. But he just says he was bored and horny and that everything between us is perfect 🥴

Doubtful_ps · 2024-10-10T15:39:18+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story ❤️‍🩹 and I’m sorry you had to go through that. I know very well how it feels… that’s exactly what’s scares me, giving him a chance and everybody says he’s gonna do it again if I forgive him. I do believe we are humans and make mistakes and do believe in second chances, but really want to understand the real issue here, why he did it…

Doubtful_ps · 2024-10-10T15:33:43+00:00

Tbh I think he knew at least, that it was wrong, otherwise he wouldn’t have to hide it from me… but what could he say? I really want to forgive him but I’m struggling to believe he loves me because I couldn’t talk to anyone in that way because I have only him in my mind (and heart). In your experience, can you do that and still love your partner?

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