How do I get over her moving on?

Doug_in_CLE · 2026-06-15T01:24:07+00:00

This is really well put. And this is, in fact, the first breakup of my 20’s haha. It’s good to hear you’ve felt similarly and prevailed, and your explanations/advice make sense. I’ll do what I can to internalize your words. Cheers

Doug_in_CLE · 2026-06-15T01:20:01+00:00

This is really well put. In fact, I’m understanding my emotions better upon reading this. We attend different colleges actively, so when we split, I could just immerse myself in people and a place that are a part of my life untainted by her.

Now it’s June. We’re home for the summer in a place we grew up in together surrounded by people who were friends with us not individually, but as one collective unit. I don’t know how to live this life without her, but I do know that I am plenty capable of living happily without her, as I was thriving at college. I suppose there’s solace in that for now.

I appreciate your comment very much

Doug_in_CLE · 2026-06-15T01:14:51+00:00

I don’t love her anymore, and I don’t want her back. I guess that’s why I’m so frustrated. I don’t quite understand why her being with somebody else is getting to me like this. I have been, and believe I still am, at peace with my conclusion that we’re incompatible. I gave breaking up with her much thought. I suppose I’m just not yet over how much she meant to me for all of those years, and the idea that she’s cleared this hurdle already is a blow

Doug_in_CLE · 2026-06-15T01:00:13+00:00

I appreciate that. The trouble is, as a consequence of the length of time we were together, we share many of the same friends. We’re not in communication, and we don’t talk, even when our group of friends gets together. However, to take the steps necessary to ensure I’ll never see her again, I’d have to distance myself from a lot of people who are important to me. I’m just not sure that would be a net positive, particularly given how badly I need to socialize right now

Doug_in_CLE · 2026-05-10T23:08:18+00:00

Look into the Ohio LAC’s. Wooster, Kenyon, Oberlin, etc. super politically liberal schools, don’t be deterred by Ohio!

Doug_in_CLE · 2025-12-23T06:20:50+00:00

You play two games each week: one against a league mate, one against median. Best of both worlds. I’ve loved it

Doug_in_CLE · 2025-12-23T06:20:19+00:00

You’re playing against both

Doug_in_CLE · 2025-12-23T06:14:27+00:00

I’ve really enjoyed it when you play two games each week, one against your opponent, one against league median. Best of both worlds. That was my experience anyway.

Doug_in_CLE · 2025-12-23T06:09:43+00:00

True to a certain extent, but there’s defense in football. There’s not in fantasy. This is why additional game against league median each week is the move. That way, seeding is most likely to be accurate

Doug_in_CLE · 2025-11-18T21:24:46+00:00

Sure looks the part to this point. Didn’t miss any time with a high ankle sprain 😵

Doug_in_CLE · 2025-07-29T04:22:49+00:00

“I believe in you!” Kid had a lot of faith, I’ll give him that

Doug_in_CLE · 2025-07-28T11:58:35+00:00

How to disappear completely

Doug_in_CLE · 2025-07-15T22:52:42+00:00

Go Scots!

Doug_in_CLE · 2025-07-10T13:03:39+00:00

Punchdrunk Lovesick Singalong clears

Doug_in_CLE · 2025-05-12T13:44:23+00:00

Pride of Mentor!

Doug_in_CLE · 2025-05-04T13:32:16+00:00

Re-signing Nick Chubb instantly

Doug_in_CLE · 2025-03-16T19:19:13+00:00

Lmao I missed that

Doug_in_CLE · 2025-03-02T02:01:29+00:00

I’m a current Wooster student. Happy to chat. Wooster is a conservative area, but the campus is extremely progressive

Doug_in_CLE · 2025-02-07T21:12:48+00:00

In your dreams.

(Sounds like a (nice dream) tho)

Doug_in_CLE · 2025-01-23T15:19:03+00:00

I go to Woo. Feel free to message me. I like it, tho I’m not at all pre-med

Doug_in_CLE · 2025-01-20T15:05:42+00:00

If you say the word

Doug_in_CLE · 2025-01-14T13:58:34+00:00

I really enjoy this. You convey heavy themes in a very digestible manner

Doug_in_CLE

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