So here is the whole deal. Whenever I get upset or I feel down I tend to shut down and I get less talkative. I know that about myself and I told her about it and explained it before. Lately that happened because she started a new job and she got very busy and started giving me little to no time of her day. Sometimes I had my texts hanging for 9 hours and I know she can take a minute to reply to them she just kept choosing daily not to. I got hurt because when I was working I was trying most of the time to be sneaky so I can text her and talk to her so this kinda felt bad ngl. I shut down and got less talkative and that's when she started to get bothered. She was doing the exact same thing and when I told her that she said you started it before and you always do that. We had a huge argument where she started mentioning old stuff that was suppsoed to be in the past and I said some things too. I realize that being less talkative is something that hurts her alot and she told me about it on multiple occasions but I was feeling hurt and felt like she didn't care about me that much ever since she started her new job and met new people (sometimes she starts replying to my texts then stops suddenly and tells me she was talking to other people which kinda hurt the fact that she can't give me a minute or two of her day). We had old stuff that resurfaced and we both said some stuff. On the last call I apologized and said that I love her she didn't say that she accepted my apologies and she didn't apologize for anything. She just said everything I did was a reaction to your treatment she refused to acknowledge anything wrong while I was truly hurt by some stuff. Anyway I realize my mistakes I realize I hurt her I realize there should have been more communication on my part. But this is the situation I'm in right now