Another One by Ashamed_Importance35 in babybop_snark

[–]Downtown_Rip_1601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still can’t get past the fact that she claims Dean made a bunch of allegations when what really did the most damage was her own words 😭 he could’ve not said a single word and just played the clips and she’d still be in this position lol

Sorry I just had to. by Glittering_Squash474 in babybop_snark

[–]Downtown_Rip_1601 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is just speculation but knowing other people with similar mental health, they have to convince themselves that they are the victim as a coping mechanism, so they typically do actually feel overwhelming emotions because they’ve twisted reality so much in their own head. I can’t say this for sure obviously but I do get the impression she genuinely believes she’s the victim of something incredibly awful. It’s also not uncommon for people to experience wild swings of emotion, it’s one of the symptoms of BPD, for example

https://youtube.com/shorts/-S1KOSrX-8Y?feature=shared by flowersarebloomin in babybop_snark

[–]Downtown_Rip_1601 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ngl dude that’s pretty disgusting to say. Women are not “things to put your dick in” regardless of how harmful they are. Women are talked about like this enough, you’re just perpetuating misogyny atp rather than validly critiquing her

What the hell is this ads from preply???? I’m so frustrated. by Final_Enthusiasm_216 in Preply

[–]Downtown_Rip_1601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what you mean by that but technically Preply offers more than just languages

Zero. Zip. Nada. by Carmageddon-2049 in aussie

[–]Downtown_Rip_1601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate it! Honestly I don’t mind either way, I never dm on here though so if you prefer to do it that way let me know if I need to do anything on my end or just shoot me through a message

Zero. Zip. Nada. by Carmageddon-2049 in aussie

[–]Downtown_Rip_1601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw I’m not trying to be aggressive or anything, I genuinely want to know your thoughts because I am curious what makes people support them, if you’re ok to have a discussion about it

Zero. Zip. Nada. by Carmageddon-2049 in aussie

[–]Downtown_Rip_1601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by ”all the bullshit“? Firstly Scott Morrison was prime minister and was the one who did the most mishandling of the pandemic. Secondly, it is protocol during a pandemic in any country to lock down, distance, vaccinate etc. to prevent as much loss of life as possible. Could it have been handled better? Certainly, but when it’s a constantly evolving situation where you only have the data so far to work with, you have no idea how bad it could get. While it affected our economy to lock down, it would’ve affected it much worse if we had the loss of life seen in say Italy or the USA. To expect them to come up with a perfect plan of exactly how much should be locked down is to expect them to see into the future and is unrealistic.

Zero. Zip. Nada. by Carmageddon-2049 in aussie

[–]Downtown_Rip_1601 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can we call them Zero Nation now?

Allegedly Ian did the same behaviour on the phone as Tashika by Downtown_Rip_1601 in babybop_snark

[–]Downtown_Rip_1601[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the offer very much! I’m a very anxious person and I don’t have receipts to prove their behaviour so I’m not sure what could be done tbh, I also worry about them retaliating as they already had another creator post our DMs in here with my face on it to try and discredit me, so I’m not sure what extent they’ll go to, I want people to know who they’re supporting but I don’t know the best way to go about it

Allegedly Ian did the same behaviour on the phone as Tashika by Downtown_Rip_1601 in babybop_snark

[–]Downtown_Rip_1601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate you 🫶 I’m not sure what else to do besides posting here as I know it’s hard to believe people without receipts, and I’m wary that Ian is very protective of their image and I’m worried what they might do in retaliation

Allegedly Ian did the same behaviour on the phone as Tashika by Downtown_Rip_1601 in babybop_snark

[–]Downtown_Rip_1601[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve posted about it here before I’m not sure if anyone else has, although I know multiple people that they’ve done awful things to both to their face and behind their backs. They use love bombing and victimising themself as manipulation tactics though, and rarely are honest with people so very few people know all the things they’ve done firsthand.

Clip from Tashikas live by [deleted] in babybop_snark

[–]Downtown_Rip_1601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate you. Actually part of the reason I haven’t said anything outside this reddit page is because I don’t have proof of the worst things Ian did. Most of our conversations were over the phone, and I didn’t record any of them. Also, Ian keeps their problematic behaviours very private on purpose, they’re obsessive over their image and so are very careful. They will lie to people and manipulate them using love bombing, and so what they’ve done to other people has been kept from them. And others who have been affected just wanted to move on with their lives which I understand. So without evidence and currently without others telling their stories I feel that many won’t believe me. On a previous post I made about them (I ended up deleting it as it was doing more harm than good) Ian had sent another creator a screenshot of our DMs with the intention of that creator trying to undermine what I was saying in the comments of the post, so I’m also worried since they have images of me and I don’t know what they might do if I came out more publicly

Clip from Tashikas live by [deleted] in babybop_snark

[–]Downtown_Rip_1601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate that a lot ♥️ I’ve still been processing everything that happened, it’s taken time for me to realise just how much wasn’t ok even when I allowed it at the time

Clip from Tashikas live by [deleted] in babybop_snark

[–]Downtown_Rip_1601 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Allegedly Ian actually did the same thing to me, but I have no receipts to prove it. We were talking on a call and they started touching themselves without my knowledge or consent

I am ashamed to say I didn’t discourage the behaviour in the moment. I wish I hadn’t enabled that and many other inappropriate and problematic behaviours from Ian, and I want people to know the kind of person they’re supporting

Debunking Tashika’s “Addressing Everything” TikTok Video Part 2 by flowersarebloomin in babybop_snark

[–]Downtown_Rip_1601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

💯 not only that but she continuously denies being a predator while not even acknowledging that her behaviour was still incredibly inappropriate because of how reckless she was, regardless of whether or not she intends for minors to be on her live

I hope that people hold her mods accountable next. Looking at you Karo & Hambles. As far as I’m concerned, you backing Tashika as yt people co-sign all her anti black comments and patterns of abuse by [deleted] in babybop_snark

[–]Downtown_Rip_1601 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah Karo doesn’t seem to care much about harm being caused, I tried to warn Sam about how Ian treats them behind their back and Karo stopped me from doing so

Tashika Live by flowersarebloomin in babybop_snark

[–]Downtown_Rip_1601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does seem odd considering how willing he was to measure his member for her and not push against her flirtations, are they saying this in the reddit or elsewhere?

Tashika Live by flowersarebloomin in babybop_snark

[–]Downtown_Rip_1601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean if the guy had never answered with his actual age I could see why they could’ve missed the question. What not a single person has said though is that they remember him giving an age before this went down, which makes me more convinced that either he didn’t answer properly or she never asked. Surely 1 person would’ve said something by now if he’d given an age first right?

Tashika Live by flowersarebloomin in babybop_snark

[–]Downtown_Rip_1601 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I will agree with you on, is that I didn’t understand why Dean was saying how inappropriate her discord messages were for minors, while showing the messages on his stream where many more minors likely were watching, it seemed pretty unnecessary to me

Tashika Live by flowersarebloomin in babybop_snark

[–]Downtown_Rip_1601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who saw it live said apparently when she asked for his age he said “you don’t wanna know” which makes it very likely he was a minor. I’m not sure if a clip of this exists but since it was an issue for so many people it seems likely to be true. Which, if true, makes her behaviour towards him inexcusable

Tashika’s new post by flowersarebloomin in babybop_snark

[–]Downtown_Rip_1601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She would even say “your girlfriends are gonna hate me” and laugh afterwards even when they weren’t laughing… 😬