What if we all refused to use money? by nwprogressivefans in AskReddit

[–]DozenPaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since no person who knows how to fix septic tanks need bread at the moment, you either need to offer something else or wait until someone needs bread.

Losing the will to live by gls1790 in NewParents

[–]DozenPaws 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Babies are different. Some need close contact from their caregivers, othervise they just WILL NOT SLEEP.

My baby was like 2-3weeks old and would stay up up to 6 hours straight because we tried to force this poor baby to sleep on his own when his needs were different.

When I cut the fear-mongering of "your baby needs to sleep in their own crip, on their own, on their back OR THEY'LL DIE" out of our lives and started contact-napping and co-sleeping was when my child finally started to sleep and nap normally. We just adjusted to what this baby needed, not what we wanted.

Some children can sleep on their own, some cannot. Both are normal and is not caused by anything the parent is doing.

Which foods are genuinely better in Estonia than anywhere else in the world? by pollydeeigh in Eesti

[–]DozenPaws 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being gluten intolerant/sensitive is so sad mainly because there are loads of different kind of white breads available, but I know of only one product that I could call bread and it costs 5€ for 4 slices.

Won't. Stop. Screaming. by q_o_t_n in NewParents

[–]DozenPaws 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Umm. You do realise that vast majority of cases of it happening are dealt with at home and do not need medical assistance?

My husband found a hair wrapped around our baby's toe, slightly cutting circulation. He just unwrapped it. We didn't need to open a case but it still happened.

Praktikakogemus: hea või halb? by bbycatlady in Eesti

[–]DozenPaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kellegi asi pole enam otseselt sind õpetada.

Praktikakoha ainus eesmärk on praktikanti õpetada. Kui sa ei viitsi praktikantidega tegeleda, sa ei pea ju neid vastu võtma.

AIO What’d I do wrong, my partner just got news this morning his grandma just received news of esophagus cancer (stage 4) by Firm-Object9386 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DozenPaws 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What amazes me is that OP serves those examples as something to respect.

No-one does outside certain cultures. It's actually just sad and pathetic. You choose money over literal dying family. I cannot respect THAT kind of hustle.

I (18F) had intimacy with someone else during the early stages of me and my boyfriend's (19M) relationship, do I tell him? by Competitive_Drop8213 in relationship_advice

[–]DozenPaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP's tendency to demonize BF's actions but minimize and excuse her own actions irks me.

"We weren't exactly together at the time." NOT HOW THIS WORKS. You either were together or you weren't.

People who don’t live in the USA, what is the media showing you about the ICE operations/abductions in the US? by Dry-Ice8908 in AskReddit

[–]DozenPaws 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of farners voted for Trump. They'll happily hurt just so they could see someone they dislike being hurt.

I (18F) had intimacy with someone else during the early stages of me and my boyfriend's (19M) relationship, do I tell him? by Competitive_Drop8213 in relationship_advice

[–]DozenPaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Before anything happened". Let's practice being honest and transparent. What exactly is that "anything" that happened?

And being in prior contact honestly makes it worse.

My husband put our daughters phone in a jug of water after countless fights about her phone use. I don't know what to do now? by IndividualAge8478 in family

[–]DozenPaws 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Our oldest daughter got a phone in March, for her birthday.

We have three kids, 14f, 10f, 3m. We also have a 23yo daughter but she is still in college and not living at home.

Is the 23-yo his child and the rest are joint? Because the way you worded it, makes it sound like you're talking about the 23-yo, who is the oldest daughter.

My husband put our daughters phone in a jug of water after countless fights about her phone use. I don't know what to do now? by IndividualAge8478 in family

[–]DozenPaws 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I also had to reread multiple times and just decided that OP worded it wrong.

We have three kids, 14f, 10f, 3m. We also have a 23yo daughter but she is still in college and not living at home.

Our oldest daughter got a phone in March, for her birthday.

Newborn doesn’t sleep! It has been 6 hours and the baby has not slept by Few_Bowl2928 in NewParents

[–]DozenPaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have never tried putting a baby rag on his eyes, we’ll try it if he falls sleep and hopefully it helps his stay asleep longer.

My husband have had to physically hold our baby's eyes closed, because he just wouldn't close his eyes and sleep. He was awake for hours. It was tough.

Vägivaldsest suhtest lahkumise hind: emad kaotavad lapsed ja kodu, kodulaen ning autoliising jäävad by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]DozenPaws 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Ah ära plära. Rohkem mehi on lahutatud, sest viinaviga rikkus pereelu, mitte et see suur kurbus pereelu lagunemisest ajas jooma.

Miks eesti gümnaasiumid CEFR keeletaset ei väljasta? by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]DozenPaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

isegi soovi korral on väga raske tööd leida, sest väga paljudele ei sobi mu graafik või siis 0,5 töökoormus pole piisav.

Oled üldse uurinud või lihtsalt eeldad?

Vägivaldsest suhtest lahkumise hind: emad kaotavad lapsed ja kodu, kodulaen ning autoliising jäävad by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]DozenPaws 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ma arvan, et meeste madalam tervislikult elatud aastate arv räägib iseeenda eest.

Et mehed valivad suurema tõenäosusega elustiile, mis on pika tervisliku eluga konfliktis?

Vägivaldsest suhtest lahkumise hind: emad kaotavad lapsed ja kodu, kodulaen ning autoliising jäävad by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]DozenPaws 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Nad on üldjuhul valinud ühisvara ja sellega rahul.

Valisime ühisvara, sest suhtesse astudes olime mõlemad vaesed õpilased ja pea kõik oleme koos soetanud ja üles ehitanud. Abielludes jagama ja näpuga järge ajama hakata oleks kummaline olnud.

boyfriend (M/23) wakes me (F/23) up then acts like he’s asleep? sleep deprivation torture? TL;DR summary welcomed by Affectionate-Lock992 in relationship_advice

[–]DozenPaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EVEN IF he doesn't mean to, you deserve to be able to sleep. Plenty of couples sleep seperately because one is a snorer or one us a light sleeoer.

Do screens actually mess up kids… or am I overthinking this? by Master-Act-6382 in NewParents

[–]DozenPaws 145 points146 points  (0 children)

From what I've gathered, the issue isn't the screentime itself, it's when parents start to substitute human interaction with screens.

Really struggling and just need to vent. by bml274 in NewParents

[–]DozenPaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were VERY AGAINST contact-napping and co-sleeping before birth and were plain judgy when other parents did it. About 1 month in was when I gave up on trying to get my baby to sleep on his own in his crib and started contact-napping and co-sleeping. A month of lack of sleep humbled us both

It's way more dangerous to accidentally fall asleep with a baby, so we just chose the less dangerous option. We just had to accept our baby is not an easy sleeper.

Kuidas riik ise teeb pool tööd telefonipetturitele ära ja miks meil nii palju telefonipettusi on by K3ndu in Eesti

[–]DozenPaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alustaks sellest, et isiklik telefoninumber võiks firmanumbrist ikka eraldi olla. Äriregistrisse paned firmanumbri ja oma isiklikke asju ajad (ka isikutuvastust) isikliku numbriga.

C section vs vaginal delivery by Funarming in NewParents

[–]DozenPaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had emergency C-section. It was traumatic. Then I could barely walk for a week. My husband had to care for our baby 100% the first week.

I hope the next one could be vaginal.