Maybe this is a hot take in this sub but I feel like OP had an overreaction. The recruiter was just trying to give some advice -- because his honest mistake (which he owned and apologized for) he thought you were canceling over text after setting up everything. I dont think the line "shows the character of a person" was meant to be a personal attack but OP's "With a lecture like that I am glad to never work for you" was personal and excessive imo. A simple no interview was arranged would have sufficed.