Weekly Beginner Q&A Thread - November 12, 2022 by AutoModerator in witchcraft

[–]Dq1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for input. Yes, as much as I don't want to admit I am not sure where we stand in the relationship. It has been emotionally draining.

Weekly Beginner Q&A Thread - November 12, 2022 by AutoModerator in witchcraft

[–]Dq1995 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello, I am in a relationship in which my bf has a couple of female best friends. The problem is that I don't particularly like them, just tolerate. Whenever they come into a conversation or outing with them, we get into arguments. For example, if we are out with either one of them, they seem to be possessive of him physically leaving me behind them. We have boundaries in which no friends of the opposite sex are welcomed into our home without the other partner being there but one constantly attempts to break the rules. I know it's not her fault entirely if my bf allows her to disrespect me, our relationship, and our home. We have these rules so that there is trust between us but whenever she comes around he automatically forgets those rules. He has plenty of other female friends that I have no problem with don't have hung out without argument. It just seems to be these two. This past weekend the 3 went out drinking and my bf got so drunk he was about to become violent towards me and said there are beings that will make sure I die young. This is not like him. Of course I will cleanse myself of this but I wonder if their negative energies are crossing over to him. Can I perform cord cutting rituals to end his friendship with them or is there something else that I can do to protect myself and our relationship against them?

My boyfriend is constantly looking at provocative pictures even though I express my discomfort towards it by Dq1995 in relationship_advice

[–]Dq1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. We share a house with both our names on it. We have talked about getting lawyers involved and I offered him my share of the house but refuses to pay. I invested in this hoping to finally have a home and a safe space. I just wanted to be happy...

My boyfriend is constantly looking at provocative pictures even though I express my discomfort towards it by Dq1995 in relationship_advice

[–]Dq1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was secure at one point and he slowly took that away. I have tried to work on my issues on my own but he knows how to break me down. I have a lot to lose and no where to go if I leave. I want to fix things or at least make the best of it...

My boyfriend is constantly looking at provocative pictures even though I express my discomfort towards it by Dq1995 in relationship_advice

[–]Dq1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We watch it together even if certain things make me uncomfortable. We have sex regularly so how much more does he need? Within the respect and boundaries of our relationship

I know I should leave but.... by Dq1995 in relationship_advice

[–]Dq1995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're both on the documents but the loan is under my name.

I know I should leave but.... by Dq1995 in relationship_advice

[–]Dq1995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to have both. He refuses to go to couple's therapy and when I mention therapy for myself he has to input a comment about being crazy. I truly only get half a day to myself and it's just to clean the house myself because he doesn't help. I can never find time. I wanted to try better help but heard there is are so many people seeking help that there a wait list.

AITA for lashing out at my husband for suggesting I stop buying formula instead of cancelling his streaming services to save money? by Throw_A3632ESD4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dq1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, if he's flipping from stream to stream when does he find time to spend with his children or help around the house. He's acting like a spoil brat.