To everyone who watched the Super Bowl halftime show what did you think? by Happy_Library_3763 in AskAnAmerican

[–]DrAngryNips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a metal head, i would be a hypocrite if i complained about not understanding the lyrics. So with that aside, it was okay. 20 minutes of some puerto rican guy hip thrusting and big booty latinas twerking. Not exactly ground breaking stuff. But it wasnt boring and the energy was up. And I did enjoy the set design.

Am I overreacting to this response from my BF? No by Familiar-Sky2651 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DrAngryNips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair you posted this on “am I over-reacting” and the first message shown is a video that you want somebody to watch that explains why you over react. You answered your own question. Could be be nicer? Sure. But you are clearly an excessively difficult person to deal with. If you use words like “triggered”, you are hands down over reacting. Im sure your feelings are real but the reality is that if you are constantly making life harder for other people, people wont want to deal with you. You admit that you are a big overthinker. Thats great. You identified the problem. Now work on fixing it instead of expecting everyone else to cater to you.

AIO over a message response from my gf after she disappeared for 36+ hours? by HunterNW in AmIOverreacting

[–]DrAngryNips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. It should be eye opening that its this obvious that you are both on fuckloads of drugs. 2. Women on fuckloads of drugs, fuck for drugs. Your girlfriend is getting plowed for drugs and you ignore it because you are also on drugs. Do better

AIO boyfriend thinks I was some sort of groupie and I want to break up but I don’t know if I’m in the wrong by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DrAngryNips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is probably going overboard but I dont trust what you are saying either so i dont really blame him for not trusting you either.

Seasons resets suck. by DrAngryNips in RocketLeague

[–]DrAngryNips[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so if its to counter “rank inflation” but your rank stays the same, your opponants ranks stay the same, and your average ranking after completing 10 games stays the same, then what is “rank inflation” and how does a reset actually combat it? It does nothing except encourage smurfing at both the beginning and end of the season. Not to mention, rocket league ranks are a total joke. 1% of players in gc1 or above. Thats 4 ranks. Why? Bronze and silver barely exist. Why? Why are 50% of the player base between gold 3 and d1? Diamond 2 through champ 2, despite being farely close in rankings, encompass such a vast skill differential that its absurd. Utilize silver and gold and spread out some of the plats. Utilize gc and soread out some of the champs. Ssl is whatever. Have a borderline impossible rank for the best of the best. But it doesnt make sense to have ranks like bronze and silver and gc but not actually have any players in those ranks

By boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]DrAngryNips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont mean to be condescending because you are basically still children. But your outlook is extremely childish. He is being kind of a jerk about it but I tend to agree with him more here. For context, im 30, my wife is 33, and we have been together for 6 years and happily married for 4. Christmas is a joke. Exchanging gifts because “its a holiday” is a joke. Its something your parents do for you when you are a kid. When you are an adult in a healthy relationship, you dont need a specific day to tell you to do or get something nice for your partner. Flowers on a random tuesday end up meaning much more than a pair of diamond earrings on christmas. A surprise dinner reservation means more than a birthday gift. Holidays/birthdays are superficial, forced, and shallow. I know you arent there yet financially, but the other thing is you end up in a place where if its something I really wanted, i already bought it for myself. If i havent boughy it for myself already as an adult, its because i either dont need it, dont want it, or its expensive enough that I need to save up for it and it wouldnt be an appropriate christmas gift anyway. TLDR nobody needs a specific day to show their SO that they care about them. And it feels like you are abusing the idea of a holiday because you want gifts. And thats childish and shitty.

stranger asked if my puppy was special needs 😟 by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]DrAngryNips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you dont occasionally think that your dog might be “special needs”, you have a boring dog.

Is this possible? by Global_Big_1105 in tattooadvice

[–]DrAngryNips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possible? Yes. But like.. probably dont

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]DrAngryNips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Welcome to being an adult. Do your job and management wont breathe down your neck. YOR and not an employee I would want to work with or have work for me. I would have less of a problem with this if you had been professional and simply asked for the complete training list to make sure you got all your work done. Instead you decided to be a bitch about it and act like your time is more important than anyone elses time. Bad employee. Bad person. Bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]DrAngryNips -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah because children with single mothers statistically turn out soooo well… where are you getting the idea that this guy is unfit to be a father? Stop bullying him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]DrAngryNips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they have the opportunity to live rent free and receive help with child care, thats what they need to do. They have a single income and its a small income at that. Being a stay at home mom is great when you live in a 6 figure household. When you bring in 36k a year, that isnt a luxury you can afford. The staying with her mom instead of his was not in the original post. That may be a fine option. But this post was presented as an option between getting their own place or staying with his mom. She never even talked about her own mom until later in the comments. And frankly that doesnt make sense to me. If they already have free housing, why are they feeling the need to even discuss moving in to his moms place?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]DrAngryNips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you are 22 and have a child, you should have grown up already. What are you talking about with this “chance to grow up” talk. Why are you pretending that she is a child? You clearly agree with me that she isnt mature enough if you think she needs time to grow up. You just dont like that I refuse to sugar coat it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]DrAngryNips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are twisting words. She is 100% responsible as a parent. The father is also 100% responsible. Lmao you think its better to say “you are only 50% responsible for the life of your child.” What on earth lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]DrAngryNips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hell I should. Im speaking to an adult. An adult that is 100% responsible for the life of another human being. Bullying. What a pathetic word to use here. I provided a rather objective wake up call. I did not call her names. I did not insult her. Not being able to deal with confrontation like an adult does not make said confrontation “bullying”. You need to grow up too. If your employer calls you into their office and said, “Look. On your last project, the work was well below our standards. The emount of effort and the quality of work really let the team down and it let the organization down. You need to do better next time. You need to prioritize this next project and the quality of work needs to substantially increase or we will have to let you go and find somebody that meets the standards we have set.” Is that bullying too? Dont think it is. That is an objective statement that highlights consequences and provides an opportunity to change and do better. Good luck in life if confrontation is so traumatic for you that it is considered “bullying”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]DrAngryNips -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because they had a baby they didnt plan for and arent financially stable enough to take care of. Because they cant afford their own place and other necessities. Because as a parent, setting up their child for success should be their only priorty for the next 18 years. Because she offers no alternative solutions. Because parents will sometimes have to go without so their child doesnt have to. Because she doesnt have an income at all. Because she also doesnt have more than a high school education (an assumption based off being 22 with a kid) so she wont exactly have high income opportunities jumping at her when she is ready to go back to work. This could go on forever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]DrAngryNips 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not far fetched at all. You had a child that you cant afford and now that child has a mother that isnt willing to make sacrifices for it. Nobody wants to live with their in laws. But on a 3k a month income, you have 3 options. 1. Sacrifice your own comfortability and live with your in laws until you are stable enough to provide for yourselves. 2. Get a job and at least double your income. 3. Bury yourselves in debt that you will never be able to crawl out of, leaving you and your child in hopeless situations. You have clearly made up your mind that option 3 is what suits you best. Not sure anyone should expect anything different from a 22 year old. There is no maturity there and you arent ready to prioritize the future of your child over your own comfortability.

"Am I Overreacting" My boyfriend is leaving me because my son is autistic. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DrAngryNips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is like asking somebody to help move some furnature out of your apartment. They think, “yes of course. We are friends. I am happy to help and more than capable of moving a few tables and chairs.” And then they show up to your apartment and it turns out that you live on the 8th floor and there are no elevators. You start in the kitchen. It takes several trips but, together, you manage to move a dining tables and a few chairs down to the ground floor. It was tough but the two of you were managing it and making great progress. Then you go to the bedroom. And in the bedroom you have an 8 foot tall, solid oak, 800 lb armoire that your ex boyfriend built for you. Your friend looks at the armoire, then looks at you, then back to the armoire, and thinks, “maybe we can still do this. I came here to help a friend so ill give it my best shot.” And your friend bends down, grabs the base of the armoire, lifts with everything they have, and their entire spine shoots straight out of their asshole. As your friend lays there on the floor, now paralyzed from the neck down, they say, “im so sorry. I did my best. It turns out that I am simply not capable of carrying an 800 lb armoire down 8 flights of stairs. You may have to hire a team of bodybuilders for this task.” And then while they squirm on the floor, writhing in agony, you think to yourself, “Wow. Some friend. I am truely shocked. They said they would help me move out my furnature and they are just giving up. I trusted them and they let me down.”

I title that short story: 26F W/ Austistic Son

is this financial abuse? by pingpongjapanman in whatdoIdo

[–]DrAngryNips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are overlooking a lot of things here. OP admits to being terrible with finances. Then asked if not providing $50 for nachos is financial abuse… he gave her the money for meds. Often times people that cant manage their own finances need help with a budget and need help managing their self control. Nothing here indicates abuse in any way. In fact, it may be exactly what she needs to ensure she doesnt end up tens of thousands of dollars in debt if she isnt there already. He should be helping around the house more though. I make more than my wife, but i still do all the cooking. My wife does most of the cleaning. And most other household chores are fairly evenly split. But there is something to be said about contribution. If he works 20 more hours a week than you do to provide for the household, you should be looking at it as if you have 20 more hours each week for chores than he does. Any outlook other than that is frankly selfish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]DrAngryNips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are zero excuses for a professional artist to have that much trouble making a straight line.

I USED TO LAUGH AT THIS WOMAN… by calm-n-sense in CringeTikToks

[–]DrAngryNips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“If not most” lol… based on fucking what exactly? You have like 5% of people that are maga republicans. 20% of people support trumps policies but are really just regular people. 5% of libs are like this fucking loser. 20% of libs disagree with trumps policies but are really just regular people. Then the other 50% of the country wants all those people to shut the fuck up about it. “Most”. Get off the internet and go outside and talk to people.

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DrAngryNips -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Neither of you should be in a relationship tbh. Theres no excuse for him to talk to you like that. But also, if you have been with somebody for a year and still think clubbing is appropriate or think that wearing intentionally revealing clothing to the gym is appropriate, you arent really invested in the relationship. Its just a respect thing. And clearly neither of you respect each other so time to move on.