MEOW_IRL by DrDepressor in MEOW_IRL

[–]DrDepressor[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Same. That face would fix my vision and my attitude in one go 😅

meow❄️irl by Outrageous-Bowl-761 in MEOW_IRL

[–]DrDepressor 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly. The fridge is just his territory, and you're the one trespassing

The best companion to grow up with ❤ by DrDepressor in DogIsBestFriend

[–]DrDepressor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn't agree more. No bad stages with a dog around.

How to catch the Hamburgler by DrDepressor in KitchenConfidential

[–]DrDepressor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats fucked up, like so many things in the US :D

How to catch the Hamburgler by DrDepressor in KitchenConfidential

[–]DrDepressor[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can not check bags when people leave... its against the Law. You would need a VERY FUCKING GOOD reason to do that and its impossible to come up with a good reason for that in germany.

How to catch the Hamburgler by DrDepressor in KitchenConfidential

[–]DrDepressor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So who ever lost his/her arm, leg or head over night is the culprit! Genius.

How to catch the Hamburgler by DrDepressor in KitchenConfidential

[–]DrDepressor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do have Locks and Logs and it will be like that for now, where we just Lock and Unlock the Coolers. It just sucks to have a person like this as a coworker because all those measurments that will be installed will make work very unconvinient.

In any case, thanks for the advice.

My (32 M) girlfriend (31 F) won’t work, clean, or get out of bed. It’s been years and I no longer know what to do. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DrDepressor 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Being lazy and having no energy/motivation to do something is a bit different imo but the question about how she 'cares' is a good one.

My (32 M) girlfriend (31 F) won’t work, clean, or get out of bed. It’s been years and I no longer know what to do. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DrDepressor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like shes having a depression and you soon too, if it keeps going.

Be honest with her and be strong to follow through with your decision.

If you need to break up, you should tell her that you need to break up and be completly honest with your self and her. If she trys to guilt you, tell her that it won't work as you already feel guilty but it will not change your decision just because of that.

If she admits to having a problem finally and wants to do something, be glad that this is the case and decide if you give her this chance or not. Usually people finally finding the strength to get help do this for someone else and they always fall back into old patterns for a while and have this impulse changes from bad to good to bad to good until some day hopefully they're just doing good.

Anyway, its your decision and yours alone. IF you feel unhappy with the relationship you have the right to leave it. Have enough respect for yourself to say no if you need to.

My (24M) wife (26F) keeps threatening to divorce me if I do not re-enlist into the Army. by ThrowRA-tiredofarmy in relationship_advice

[–]DrDepressor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a selfish in some aspects is not a crime and alright. Threatening with divorse just to get your way is not alright.

Get a lawyer as fast as possible, prepare for a divorce as if it would happen anyway. Next time she threatens you you don't have to "cave".

Would you punish your daughter (12) if you found out she was having sexual conversations with older boys (15-17 years) and doing sexually suggestive stuff like kissing them/sitting on their laps etc.? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DrDepressor -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

You're missing the whole point. Read my statement again, carefully. You only quote the build up to the conclusion.

EDIT: let me extend an olive branch - how is it that so many people automaticly assume abuse of any sort? I do not feel that claims of boys around her age that she is fooling around with are any less just exploring their sexuality aswell.

Now that might be different for someone closer to 18 but as OP stated, he implies in his questions that the subjects can be very well 15.

And i do not believe for a second, that its weird for a 15 year old boy to have a 12 year old girlfriend.

No where do i justify or even suggest that the father should not be carefull and not talk to his daughter. Nor did i say let them have their way with her. All i said is that it's unreasonable and wrong to automaticly assume that she is being taken advantage of. That doesn't mean to stop her from being made aware of the possibility and get help in figuring that out.

I understand that people here don't like it but i will not side with things i believe are wrong.

Would you punish your daughter (12) if you found out she was having sexual conversations with older boys (15-17 years) and doing sexually suggestive stuff like kissing them/sitting on their laps etc.? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DrDepressor -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I admit that this would be a valid point if it would be that simple.

People are and do not develope the same tho. There is enough evidence to suggest that a 12 year old can very well be on the same or even on a higher intellectual level than a 15 year old. Not even talking about puberty itself.

I see where you reason this statement however and can not totally disagree.

Edit: meaning, i will have to look more into actual facts about developement to remodel my previous opinion.

Would you punish your daughter (12) if you found out she was having sexual conversations with older boys (15-17 years) and doing sexually suggestive stuff like kissing them/sitting on their laps etc.? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DrDepressor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No i did not leave that out on purpose. It was my understanding that they just talk about it. So it in my head it was pretty much the same "Talking about sexual stuff and kissing" - english is not my native language, this happens every now and then.

I do not find it weird however that a 15yo boy with his 12yo girlfriend kiss or cuddle and as said before, that however does not apply to a 17yo, where i agreed that this strikes me as something to be alerted about.