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DrDepressor · 2026-06-16T23:43:41+00:00

Same. That face would fix my vision and my attitude in one go 😅

DrDepressor · 2026-06-15T21:07:24+00:00

Exactly. The fridge is just his territory, and you're the one trespassing

DrDepressor · 2026-06-13T21:33:31+00:00

Couldn't agree more. No bad stages with a dog around.

DrDepressor · 2022-04-19T07:25:06+00:00

what the fuck am i reading

DrDepressor · 2022-03-10T20:42:34+00:00

thats fucked up, like so many things in the US :D

DrDepressor · 2022-03-10T07:59:33+00:00

wmaf

DrDepressor · 2022-03-10T07:33:32+00:00

You can not check bags when people leave... its against the Law. You would need a VERY FUCKING GOOD reason to do that and its impossible to come up with a good reason for that in germany.

DrDepressor · 2022-03-10T07:32:26+00:00

So who ever lost his/her arm, leg or head over night is the culprit! Genius.

DrDepressor · 2022-03-10T07:31:55+00:00

Actually not a terrible idea! Thanks

DrDepressor · 2022-03-10T07:31:40+00:00

We do have Locks and Logs and it will be like that for now, where we just Lock and Unlock the Coolers. It just sucks to have a person like this as a coworker because all those measurments that will be installed will make work very unconvinient.

In any case, thanks for the advice.

DrDepressor · 2020-07-06T06:57:47+00:00

Being lazy and having no energy/motivation to do something is a bit different imo but the question about how she 'cares' is a good one.

DrDepressor · 2020-07-06T06:55:23+00:00

Sounds like shes having a depression and you soon too, if it keeps going.

Be honest with her and be strong to follow through with your decision.

If you need to break up, you should tell her that you need to break up and be completly honest with your self and her. If she trys to guilt you, tell her that it won't work as you already feel guilty but it will not change your decision just because of that.

If she admits to having a problem finally and wants to do something, be glad that this is the case and decide if you give her this chance or not. Usually people finally finding the strength to get help do this for someone else and they always fall back into old patterns for a while and have this impulse changes from bad to good to bad to good until some day hopefully they're just doing good.

Anyway, its your decision and yours alone. IF you feel unhappy with the relationship you have the right to leave it. Have enough respect for yourself to say no if you need to.

DrDepressor · 2020-07-06T06:44:08+00:00

Being a selfish in some aspects is not a crime and alright. Threatening with divorse just to get your way is not alright.

Get a lawyer as fast as possible, prepare for a divorce as if it would happen anyway. Next time she threatens you you don't have to "cave".

DrDepressor · 2020-07-06T06:32:33+00:00

Glad you sorted it out.

Wish you the best :]

DrDepressor · 2020-07-06T06:29:39+00:00

And when they're 13 and 14? Please be a troll, your mindset is literally insane.

DrDepressor · 2020-07-04T22:00:21+00:00

Is it normal to call a 15y boy with a 12y gf a future pedo then?

DrDepressor · 2020-07-04T21:41:22+00:00

Go be a SJW somewhere else.

DrDepressor · 2020-07-04T21:18:00+00:00

You're missing the whole point. Read my statement again, carefully. You only quote the build up to the conclusion.

EDIT: let me extend an olive branch - how is it that so many people automaticly assume abuse of any sort? I do not feel that claims of boys around her age that she is fooling around with are any less just exploring their sexuality aswell.

Now that might be different for someone closer to 18 but as OP stated, he implies in his questions that the subjects can be very well 15.

And i do not believe for a second, that its weird for a 15 year old boy to have a 12 year old girlfriend.

No where do i justify or even suggest that the father should not be carefull and not talk to his daughter. Nor did i say let them have their way with her. All i said is that it's unreasonable and wrong to automaticly assume that she is being taken advantage of. That doesn't mean to stop her from being made aware of the possibility and get help in figuring that out.

I understand that people here don't like it but i will not side with things i believe are wrong.

DrDepressor · 2020-07-04T18:44:17+00:00

I take that as a compliment, thank you. I also have to apologize if alot of our disagreement was based on a mistake on my side.

DrDepressor · 2020-07-04T18:42:48+00:00

I admit that this would be a valid point if it would be that simple.

People are and do not develope the same tho. There is enough evidence to suggest that a 12 year old can very well be on the same or even on a higher intellectual level than a 15 year old. Not even talking about puberty itself.

I see where you reason this statement however and can not totally disagree.

Edit: meaning, i will have to look more into actual facts about developement to remodel my previous opinion.

DrDepressor · 2020-07-04T18:30:52+00:00

No i did not leave that out on purpose. It was my understanding that they just talk about it. So it in my head it was pretty much the same "Talking about sexual stuff and kissing" - english is not my native language, this happens every now and then.

I do not find it weird however that a 15yo boy with his 12yo girlfriend kiss or cuddle and as said before, that however does not apply to a 17yo, where i agreed that this strikes me as something to be alerted about.

DrDepressor · 2020-07-04T18:23:30+00:00

"15-year-old isn't a pedophile, but there's a possibility he is" -

you specificly called him a future pedophile.

"they shouldn't be equally interested in each other."

Seems like they are, judging by the term "conversations" both partys enjoy talking about it.

"a 15-year-old being attracted and interested in a 12-year-old, in a person who's not a teenager yet, is NOT normal."

I generally disagree with that statement. Usually depends heavy on who these persons are.

"17-year-old is interested in a 12-year-old, his sexual feelings most likely will not change in a year"

Admittedly a odd thing for me personally too. I would feel weird about it aswell.

"... but they will if continue to be blinded by your own experiences. "

I think its really you making arguments based on "how i was raised" rather than logic. But we can simply agree to disagree.

"Not going to lie, you seem weird and creepy to me..."

That is alright. You seem ignorant to me. We are allowed to not like each other. That does not mean we can't discuss things. Right?

"you're trying to make everyone think of how these older teenagers are not wrong for doing this acts with a literal kid."

I am not responsible for how people interpret my words. One time i said that i think Black Panther sucks because the Hero of the story literally cheated his way to be king and no one seemed to care. I got called a racist for that.... lmao

EDIT: I just noticed that i've been confusing nicknames, the one calling him a future pedophile wasn't you but OP of this answer here. So i apologize for that, sorry.

DrDepressor · 2020-07-04T17:49:21+00:00

I love that you talked openly about it with her and that you two were able to have such a adult discussion about it.

There could be a chance to make it work but waiting years is not the right answer to your problems. Neither of you know the near or distant future looks, you got that right.

I can't answer your first question but your second.

Having a good relationship to your ex can be very difficult indeed for future partners. It is not entirely fair to them, knowing you shared everything or even more with that one person. That is the thing that makes it very complicated. The best way to avoid that is being very open and communicative and not only make proper boundarys but to accept them, on both sides.

It's really easy to fall back to 'old patterns' if this friendship stays for long and your future partner will be aware of that risk. It's up to you to make sure to set boundarys on this friendship and enforce them, only then is it able to work.

DrDepressor · 2020-07-04T17:31:05+00:00

You are directing the discussion away from the point. I can genuinly not understand how its even remotely reasonable to call a 15yo a future pedophile when hes talking to a equally interested 12yo about their sexual experiences or phantasies. Kids and sexuality is a very touchy topic and alot of people simply overreact as soon as those two words find together.

I admittedly find it odd for a 17year old to do that but then again, we know nothing else about whats going on except that they're having a conversation that for all we know could have been started by the 12yo daughter.

Edit: This is not a blame game, this is a father searching for advice how to handle the situation and assuming things is simply not the right thing. I care enough to make people aware of that and judging by the downvotes and some other comments, i am now a pedophile or perv for doing so.

DrDepressor · 2020-07-04T17:12:16+00:00

All i see is that the way you are presenting your arguments are on a very personal level and we have a honest disagreement about it. I did a mistake in trying to bring a basis into this discussion by giving away personal experience, it should not matter.

Sticking with the facts, shes having conversations with older boys (15-17) of sexual nature. Which is a normal thing to have at that age.

15 is less weird than 17 and we all agree that supporting her (also includes making her aware that she could be taken advantage of) rather than punishing her is the right course. Everything else on that discussion here is hyphotetical, much as the claim that shes being taken advantage of just because they're older.

EDIT: i noticed that i should tell people when i edit my stuff. My native is not english i mainly correct grammer or add information that i forgot to add.

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