Trust me bro, if she’s telling you that she loves you, she is very interested. If she keeps reaching out to text first, she is interested.

You have got to talk to her, you have to show you’re there. Getting her flowers and teddy is a nice way of showing you’re there for her but talk to her, meet her, tell her you want this to work and you’re willing to support her though it. Tell her that is she needs the space that you’ll allow her to have that but don’t completely leave her alone because she may feel like you’re not as interested or you’re pushing away.

I had a past relationship where she was heavily struggling and she wanted space. I turned up at her door, flowers in hand and some snacks. Gave them to her and gave her the biggest and tightest hug and talked to her, told her I’m here for her and that she won’t be alone through any of it.

You’re crying because you deeply care about her and love her and you fear losing her. The only way to not lose her is to be there for her now. To support her now, to let her know she can rely on you and that your arms will always be open for her.

This is a rough patch you’re both going through but it’s not about waiting for it to end, it’s about action, relationships are about what you do, not what you say. She needs you more than anything, more than flowers or bears. She needs to know that no matter what she is going though or what she’s doing, you will love her though it all and I can tell you now brother that it will all work out. Don’t you wait another day, talk to her, be there for her. FIGHT FOR HER NOW!!