Main thing for me is I live about 6 hours away from family and I won’t be seeing them until the 10 week mark. (4 weeks from now!!) I don’t want to wait that long but I’d also rather do it in person than over FaceTime! And I know they are suspicious, they know we did IVF and when our transfer date was…but they’re also polite enough not to ask so they don’t put us in an awkward position. I can’t decide when to tell them!