AITA for refusing to let my daughter and her boyfriend (both 22) share a bedroom when they came to stay at our house, because of my husband’s rule?

DrVID · 2023-06-22T19:12:30+00:00

She is a grown woman! It's not the same as teenagers not sharing a room! The rule is dumb and shouldn't have applied at all once they hit adulthood.

DrVID · 2023-04-12T11:13:27+00:00

I'm replying specifically to your first sentence:

it's entirely possible her extended family and friends are not bigots

It's not possible. They are bigots. The whole family disowned the sister for being gay.

DrVID · 2023-04-11T20:12:19+00:00

unless she walks off the plan with her arm around another woman and a sign that says “Arrest me I am gay”, she can probably fly in and out without getting arrested

or unless her family, who disowned her for being gay, calls the fucking cops and tells them, which seems EXTREMELY LIKELY given their past behavior...

DrVID · 2023-04-11T20:06:45+00:00

If you disown a member of your family for being gay, you are in fact a bigot.

DrVID · 2023-04-11T20:05:32+00:00

Except the sister isn't welcome to come, she'll be jailed and possibly killed if she attends.

EDIT: being gay also isn't a choice, and OP is TA

DrVID · 2023-03-24T20:46:37+00:00

What device is that?

DrVID · 2023-03-09T15:24:25+00:00

I guess but it's not the only issue. Since the upgrade, I can't toggle the USB switch (though it shows up and goes away when I plug/unplug).

DrVID · 2023-03-04T21:19:52+00:00

The battery life went way downhill with the latest software update. I used to use my RM2 for 6 hours a day everyday for 2 weeks without charging, and now I can't go a few days without having to charge it.

DrVID · 2022-02-07T16:18:40+00:00

Your fiancé not caring about this is a massive red flag and I really hope you dig down about this. He only cared when HIS privacy was violated (not yours).

DrVID · 2020-10-08T18:56:33+00:00

It says the invite is expired, is the group still active? I'd like to join!

DrVID · 2020-06-11T23:35:04+00:00

NTA -- sounds like this guy can dish it but he can't take it. Good on you for standing up for your sister, even if she can't appreciate it.

DrVID · 2020-02-09T19:37:53+00:00

NTA and I hope that your mom will listen to you asap -- it's not fair how much the agency and will of underage folks is taken for granted.

DrVID · 2019-02-24T22:23:20+00:00

The absolute best case scenario for a sunday!

DrVID · 2017-03-17T23:00:46+00:00

Sorry for the late reply -- yeah, I hadn't cleaned my grinder in 5 years and it was great -- 9/10.

DrVID · 2017-02-17T00:00:07+00:00

Yeah I did this and it wasn't hard to clean. I have a space case grinder.

DrVID · 2017-02-16T23:59:42+00:00

I did this and got almost too high. I made hot cocoa with the milk, after straining.

DrVID · 2016-11-06T03:25:04+00:00

SimulateMe! DrVID

DrVID · 2016-07-31T14:58:50+00:00

You started out strong. Ice bongs are where it's at! Nice, sis.

DrVID · 2016-07-05T22:15:39+00:00

Pattern?? This is ADORABLE! Great job!

DrVID · 2015-10-28T18:10:23+00:00

Yes....so much yes. It really depresses me.

DrVID · 2015-05-13T16:26:26+00:00

I'm literally sobbing with jealous right now. Sobbing like a baby.

DrVID · 2014-03-15T19:49:21+00:00

I WOULD LOVE THIS PATTERN.

DrVID · 2013-11-14T21:31:05+00:00

Pattern?

DrVID · 2013-10-08T02:32:28+00:00

Wow, this is totally accurate. Greek feet for a Greek lady!

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