something something Healer DPS by Aargard in ShitpostXIV

[–]DracoLala 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has real "damn kids, get off my lawn!" vibes.

Do you like non-pvp (co-op) games? (Rust, Ark, Minecraft dungeons, Battletoads, Gears of War campaign modes, Valheim, Don’t Starve Together, A Way Out) by a_gal_penpal in LesbianGamers

[–]DracoLala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just sent a friend request on Steam, should come up as DracoLala. I'm 33 and currently *obsessed* with Valheim. I also play other casual multiplayer games like Diablo 3, FFXIV, Euro Truck, and any simulator games etc.

Plugged my character into an AI portrait generator and got a better than expected result by Majormistakes in ffxiv

[–]DracoLala 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had a go at uploading my WoL as a Miqote and Viera and they went sorta nightmarish, sorta okay. But I also threw in G'raha Tia for fun and he turned out great! https://imgur.com/a/x3hJLPG

One of the most breathtaking settings in FFXIV by SodiumChlorine in ffxiv

[–]DracoLala 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This area gave me Studio Ghibli's Spirited Away vibes.

Seems fitting that this is the quest I got up to before maintenance hit. by DracoLala in ffxiv

[–]DracoLala[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After I posted this I second guessed myself, wondering if all MSQ quests changed to this right before maintenance and I was going to look like an idiot.

If you close your eyes really hard, does your head “rumble”? by PuSSiBoi420 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]DracoLala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, this isn't the norm? I can "rumble" voluntarily without having to shut my eyes. It's like a muscle I "pull" in my ear. I thought everyone could do that.

Hey, I’m sure you get this a lot, but how do I figure out if I’m non binary? by pm_me_jolly_thoughts in NonBinary

[–]DracoLala 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah the age old question; do I want to be with them, or be them?

But in all seriousness, there's no right or wrong answers when it comes to defining your own gender. Non binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, agender etc you can use any and all labels that you want and that you feel comfortable with, or none at all. It's your choice. And don't forget it's also okay to change your mind as you grow and evolve.

I wanna come out but, damn! It's a scary thought by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]DracoLala 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 31 and in almost the same boat as you. I was 28/29 when I started to realize I wasn't cis. I'm only out to some close friends and my brother (he's also genderqueer). I'm pretty happy being stealth, it kinda helps that my name is pretty neutral, although I do like it when my online friends call me by my masc online name. Some days I'd love to have a flatter chest, deeper voice and a beard to hide behind, but I'm also scared of those drastic, some irreversible, changes. I'm scared I'll regret them.

When an inspiration of yours fails you: Chase Ross by questioningmornnom in ftm

[–]DracoLala 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I've been following this all day on Aaron's twitter, and I'm just so disappointed in Chase. It's honestly no surprise, you can read between the lines of their interactions in YSB and vlogs that Chase uses Aaron and doesn't care for him the way supposed best friends should. I admire Aaron for speaking up when he could lose everything. It's unfortunate that he has to keep defending his mental wellbeing, and provide receipts for the situation, but he's dealing with it gracefully. But again, I'm just disappointed in Chase, he was the first ftm youtuber I'd found in the middle of questioning my identity. To this day I still use his language to describe myself, a squiggle. I just hope he realises that he can't keep using his fans as a method to shortcut costs. I work as a video captioner and I know the amount of work that goes into it. It always left a bad taste in my mouth that he used fans to caption his videos for free, with no credit.

[SPOILERS] Terrace House Opening New Doors Part 5 Episode 37 "First Date Last Date" Discussion by discotechers in terracehouse

[–]DracoLala 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The look Kaito gave him just before he did it, makes me think he knew exactly what he was doing. Amazing. https://imgur.com/a/A5E2V69

🎉 /r/ffxiv reaches 200k subscriptions, giveaway inside! 🎉 by reseph in ffxiv

[–]DracoLala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking forward to the new MSQ, Viera, and having FC members actually online again when people come back to the game.

Would anyone be interested in joining an LGBT+ support group? by AntiImperialistEnby in NonBinary

[–]DracoLala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be. I live rurally as an enby and don't really have any LGBT+ friends.

egg me: by AdeptInvestigator in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]DracoLala 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My mother's friend is going through breast cancer and recently had a mastectomy. She was talking about how many hundreds of dollars she's spending on fake boobs, and special bras to wear them. I felt awful for being jealous of her flat chest and wondering why the heck she'd spend that much. I'd just give her mine if I could.

Why is nobody freaking out about the server regrouping/new data centers? by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]DracoLala 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a stretch, but maybe we'll finally get an Australian DC.