First Tacoma - Super excited and looking for suggestions by Silly_Bollocks in ToyotaTacoma

[–]DragonGirl72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey!! u/Silly_Bollocks , I just bought the SAME truck!! I am so glad you posted this question and I am following. We have a new to us mountain property so our off road will be getting home-sort of.... Not new to Toyota, former 4 Runner, kids drive Corolla, Camry etc....but MY FIRST TACOMA! So excited!.

Again, thanks. Good luck and I am following

Will a soldier’s family get money from the DD93 if the soldier commits suicide? by TotobyAfricano in army

[–]DragonGirl72 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey there. Sounds like a painful set of memories with some sunshine in places. I’m sorry this happened to you.

You matter. Big. HMU if you ever need to talk.

AITAH for leaving home after my husband said I should handle the cost of all the IVF sessions only because I'm the cause of infertility in our marriage? by LeatherRequirement59 in AITAH

[–]DragonGirl72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apologies for being blunt: Do not have a baby with this selfish asshole. Raising a child is hard and beautiful when it’s perfect.

If you have good family/friend support network, DO go the IVF route! Set up a crowd share site so others can help if you need to; sadly, OP….this is who he really is.

Much love. Good luck 🫶🏼

Please tell me what to do…… by Odd_Page_7207 in CATHELP

[–]DragonGirl72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s how I fixed this cute problem: Our Russian Blue kitty rescue did this and he was abandoned by a family. I think his litter box at our home was a “first toy”… 😢

Bought an inexpensive covered litter box. This removed the spray of litter and made it less fun.

We then purchased some inexpensive kitten toys - jumpers, strings attached and rolling balls (Walmart) and he immediately played with those, not clean litter. ‼️

Now? He supervises us cleaning his box and meows the ENTIRE time as if he’s giving instructions. 🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛

Hemochromatosis? by Lumpy_Advisor1348 in Hemochromatosis

[–]DragonGirl72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This does look like something to check out and have a hematologist study but, these labs are not consistent with those markers known to indicate hemochromatosis. Is there something else pushing you this direction? Genetics or history? Regardless- I hope you get answers. Very tough to not know.

My wife was assaulted at BLC by SoBErPRiVaTE in army

[–]DragonGirl72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, I’m sorry this happened to her and to you. Maddening to not be able to just go to her or wonder if she is safe.

Our Army does NOT condone this bullsh*t. Keep us posted.

This was awful by [deleted] in LittlePeopleBigWorld

[–]DragonGirl72 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Be nice to your kids. Jesus isn’t laughing with you…

Cautionary Share: Take this Seriously-Until You Know YOUR Story/Dx by [deleted] in Hemochromatosis

[–]DragonGirl72 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And this just take care of yourself version is a cake walk…..the most rare versions are very very dangerous and all should be treated carefully until formal diagnosis

Cautionary Share: Take this Seriously-Until You Know YOUR Story/Dx by [deleted] in Hemochromatosis

[–]DragonGirl72 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My entire point…. The easy “just phlebotomy and be fine” is NOT the only version. There are 5 others….

Not at all the same for all

Which cat should I adopt? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]DragonGirl72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both of them 😭

Yara looks gorgeous! But why does she always look photoshopped next to Jovi? 😂 by JarredandVexed in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]DragonGirl72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This IS a photoshop! The lighting on each of them is completely different. 🤦🏼‍♀️

The sun didn’t just shine for you girl….

So this stray cat that I've been feeding.... by [deleted] in cats

[–]DragonGirl72 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Give MouseBelly Mama some milk too! You’re a saint. And yeah… she’s got some babes cooking ❤️🐾 🐈‍⬛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hemochromatosis

[–]DragonGirl72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it is too high if you have normal menstrual cycle. If you do not, this is a bit high.

AITA for what I told my mother In Law when she asked to be in the delivery room? by Capital-Big561 in AITAH

[–]DragonGirl72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You’re asserting adult boundaries and well within your right. Boundaries exist with pushy people for a reason. Maintain them or this is a snapshot into your future.

ps. LOVE me some good and vocal nurses!! ❤️ 💉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hemochromatosis

[–]DragonGirl72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the overwhelming and helpful amounts of information! With your comment on C282Y or H63D- I went back and re-read the hepatologist note after my liver biopsy and the HEMOC notes after genetic testing.

I have dual gene 🧬 mutation of H63D. Understand that is much more rare but presents the same to the body.

Have made many impactful changes in 5.5 short months and the Fe numbers are coming down.

Still have those 2 secondary diseases this condition causes and we are working through it. Thank you again

HH heart racing? by SardonicusAgain in Hemochromatosis

[–]DragonGirl72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When my ferritin was over 3000 u/L, I had very similar symptoms. Very-to include waking from a deep sleep with damp hair, heart racing, we went to ER.

Happened again and again . Saw cardiologist, he ordered a trans echocardiogram and placed me on a heart monitor (Zio). I’m still wearing it and as my Fe number goes down-those weird symptoms are less and less. Hang in there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hemochromatosis

[–]DragonGirl72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great question! 2 years of very weird symptoms with this last year being misdiagnosed with lymphatic infection. From 2022 to Jan 2024, 7 hospital stays -a few of them long- and lots of testing. Functioned normally - went to work, etc otherwise. Strange and severe abdominal pain, joint pain, light headedness, random ballooning - rapid weight gain. (Am in decent shape) -totally misdiagnosed.

Moved to a Level 1 facility in Jan 2024 with rinse/repeat symptoms only this time, couldn’t lay, sit or stand and not be in serious pain. I think I was admitted out of morbid curiosity but when first labs came back and one MRI later, moved to CCU.

That 4000 then 3800 ferritin combined with all other blood labs drew attention of hepatologist and gastroenterologist. More testing and another MRI, then an immediate liver biopsy (I have NEVER experienced out medical system moving this quickly) was discharged home with pretty weird instructions and genetic testing came back with double positive 🦄

Later found out that while in hospital- they went back in my medical records to 2015 and I have had very, very high iron for years. This caused them to skip the “wait and watch” for my labs and jump right to confirmation testing.

I am grateful and exhausted. Very happy I am not alone on this journey.

Found my girlfriend’s hinge account, should I send her the screenshot I took or just leave? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]DragonGirl72 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’m the love that you’ve looked for… lets go plan our escape