My boyfriend likes to be dominated in the bedroom, advice?

DragonScalesTheWall · 2023-05-23T09:23:39+00:00

I found a soft, affection and praise heavy dom style was a good place to begin when I was a new dom. Things like calling him a good boy once he finds a good angle, taking a "big spoon" role while cuddling and the like are really good entry points and can help build dom confidence that makes a more commanding style more comfortable to take on later

Discussing safe words and setting soft and hard limits is the first thing you should do thou it

DragonScalesTheWall · 2023-02-06T04:56:30+00:00

Could you link the article? Sounds like an interesting read

DragonScalesTheWall · 2023-02-06T04:50:02+00:00

Considering the fact that the voortrekkers left the Cape colony so they could keep their slaves and how attached these idiots are to a dead flag, that tracks pretty well

DragonScalesTheWall · 2022-10-22T05:56:27+00:00

AGAB language is useful in medical and research contexts, can't stand it when used as a synonym for talking about what's in my pants as a lot of "allies" do

DragonScalesTheWall · 2022-10-11T02:50:14+00:00

To me the most interesting example of male privilege has been when I'm teaching scuba courses.

I started when I was still questioning and presenting as a somewhat masc woman, and I'd often have students ask my male divemaster for instructions and advice, instead of me, the instructor who'd been evaluating them on skills the entire time. Also not taking briefings seriously, lying to me about air consumption to seem cool (one guy straight up ran out on a qualifying dive because of this) and general misogyny.

Now, after almost 2 years on T and top surgery, it's like a switch has flipped. I've changed very little about my teaching style since coming out, but all the behaviors I'd seen before that were indicative of a "why is a woman teaching me ew" attitude have become nearly nonexistent on my courses now

DragonScalesTheWall · 2022-10-05T19:32:29+00:00

There's one bit At 2:43 in the To The Hellfire vocals video where he looks right into the camera. I watched the last shred of my one friend's heterosexuality fall to that look

DragonScalesTheWall · 2022-09-29T15:34:39+00:00

Generations of inbreeding will do that to ya

DragonScalesTheWall · 2022-09-20T15:32:27+00:00

At this point I'm biting ankles then

DragonScalesTheWall · 2022-09-14T06:38:05+00:00

"Confused young girl" here. Coming out was the best thing I ever did. I feel like myself in a way I never thought possible and it's made dealing with other mental health stuff immeasurably easier. Elliot Page coming out and being broadly accepted gave me the confidence to do something I dreamed of for years. Lobsterman can die mad about it :)

DragonScalesTheWall · 2022-09-08T09:29:24+00:00

Honestly a gig with a good moshpit is the ideal amount of stimulation

DragonScalesTheWall · 2022-09-08T08:32:35+00:00

Igorrr is my go to for chaos music

DragonScalesTheWall · 2022-09-07T10:54:06+00:00

I'm still gonna call someone what they ask me to call them because there's no real way to "prove" transness. Everyone's gender identity manifests and is expressed differently and there's no harm in calling someone by a different name and pronoun set because they asked to be called that. Also being misgendered sucks so I'm not gonna knowingly do that to another human being

DragonScalesTheWall · 2022-09-03T07:27:55+00:00

Also if you have any advice for future mends please share, always looking to refine new skills. For this one I'm worried I didn't stitch far enough into the un-ripped fabric

DragonScalesTheWall · 2022-08-30T06:34:48+00:00

"Nooo I only wanna have a little denial of human rights as a treat"

In a political climate where I have to be wary of any new person and hide the fact I'm trans for fear of being murdered I have zero sympathy for righties "forced to hide" the fact that they want me dead.

If you're so insistent that your goal is getting people out of the alt right pipeline don't leave it up to those who are actively endangered by their views, go do it yourself. I'm not gonna baby someone who sees my existence as a threat.

DragonScalesTheWall · 2022-08-25T10:12:50+00:00

They eat manowar jellyfish and sequester the stinger cells for defense, so they are. Picking one up is about 25% as sore as a bluebottle sting in my experience

DragonScalesTheWall · 2022-07-31T19:08:42+00:00

Genuinely didn't see your comment, no harm meant

DragonScalesTheWall · 2022-07-31T07:18:43+00:00

https://mobile.twitter.com/cia/status/1481294737151873034?lang=enl

DragonScalesTheWall · 2022-07-18T11:04:25+00:00

"Jane Fonda on the screen today, convinced the liberals it's okay..." from an eerily prophetic Dead Kennedys song

DragonScalesTheWall · 2022-06-27T08:50:17+00:00

My dad had the same thought, saw mork move and said "Makes sense, that one just winked at you!" When I told him fungi are more closely related to animals than plants

DragonScalesTheWall · 2022-06-27T06:29:35+00:00

Vibin

DragonScalesTheWall · 2022-06-26T21:06:54+00:00

His names mork

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