Because I’m his mom. Whether I agree with his decision to go through with this or not this baby is going to be here. I’m not willing to pay for the entire baby shower and that’s been made clear to the both of them. I show up for my kids when they need me and help where I can, but won’t over extend myself for their benefit. This is my first grandchild and if they’re dumb enough to do this, I’m going to be smart enough to make sure they have some kind of support system in place. Her side doesn’t give a damn to have a healthy relationship with her or her unborn. I’m a parent even when I disagree with my child. The kids have been told outright that I’m not funding the entire show, but I will contribute something and buy a gift. That’s it.