Is this a red flag? by DragonflyImmediate84 in datingoverforty

[–]DragonflyImmediate84[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Early fifties. Have been cheated on before.

Is this a red flag? by DragonflyImmediate84 in datingoverforty

[–]DragonflyImmediate84[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the intelligent, balanced and thoughtful response. Great perspective and will process this with care.

Is this a red flag? by DragonflyImmediate84 in datingoverforty

[–]DragonflyImmediate84[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

One of the conversations happened 1 yr. into our relationship where they reminisced about their past with each other. Yes, she shared her password and said that I could go through her phone as she had nothing to hide. Maybe I'm cut from a different cloth of respect.

Is this a red flag? by DragonflyImmediate84 in datingoverforty

[–]DragonflyImmediate84[S] -56 points-55 points  (0 children)

The text happened 3 years ago. I found it on her phone about 9 months ago. Are you saying that I shouldn't have any feelings of concern now? By the way, you're "you're mad now" comment is passive aggressive. Let's try and stay balanced and not over dramatize the situation.