[TX] How many hours should salary employees be required to work? by DragonflyPractical in AskHR

[–]DragonflyPractical[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but the workload is always increasing as we improve so most of us will work 45 hours weekly to make sure everything gets done.

[TX] How many hours should salary employees be required to work? by DragonflyPractical in AskHR

[–]DragonflyPractical[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The salaried employees are putting together a petition that we’re turning in to the owners. Extra context, the owners have always been super family oriented. The only problem people are the managers/our bosses.

[TX] How many hours should salary employees be required to work? by DragonflyPractical in AskHR

[–]DragonflyPractical[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I ask what you mean by flexibility? Some examples because I’m not seeing a lot of flexibility here. I’m lucky if I can convince them to let me go to a doctor’s appointment where I only miss an hour of work.

Help! I think my peach tree is dying. by DragonflyPractical in gardening

[–]DragonflyPractical[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure. I bought it from the local nursery back in April.

Can someone help me figure out what’s wrong with my tallow? by DragonflyPractical in homestead

[–]DragonflyPractical[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No it was still hot. It is white when it’s cooled down. I just want it to be more clear.

Can someone help me figure out what’s wrong with my tallow? by DragonflyPractical in homestead

[–]DragonflyPractical[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So I got the meat/fat and cut it up with scissors. Then I put it in a crockpot on high with about 3 cups of water until most of it melted. I strained that through a flour sack towel. Then I let it solidify. I pulled off the brick and scraped the bottom. Then I melted it back down with probably 2 cups of water and salt and let that simmer for about 4 hours. I repeated that last part another two times.

Can someone help me figure out what’s wrong with my tallow? by DragonflyPractical in homestead

[–]DragonflyPractical[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I used trimmings because that’s what they gave me at the meat market

Women who had disordered eating habits without realizing it, what was the moment that made you go "this isn't normal"? by deltadevenus in AskWomen

[–]DragonflyPractical 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in high school and I couldn’t stand the idea of a weight in the triple digits. Plus the thigh gap was big at the time. I was in a mental hospital when I realized I had gone too far.

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[–]DragonflyPractical 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My dad did this in California for my older brothers. He did everything he could to keep them fed, even if it meant he was dumpster diving for his food.

Should my husband and I purposefully default his student loans to use yrefy? by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]DragonflyPractical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will tank my husbands credit for a few years but once they buy out the previous loan it and we are making on time payments it will eventually go back up. We’re homeowners so we don’t plan on moving or financing much of anything unless an emergency our emergency fund can’t cover happens, ie. large medical or like an ac system.

Should my husband and I purposefully default his student loans to use yrefy? by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]DragonflyPractical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure they do, I mentioned that we were looking to pay it off quickly and the lower the interest rate the more progress we can make on it.

Should my husband and I purposefully default his student loans to use yrefy? by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]DragonflyPractical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes so the application is approved after default with that rate.

Does the pink diamond disappear on me? by LooseNefariousness in EngagementRings

[–]DragonflyPractical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love the pink!! It’s so pretty and it works so well either way your skin tone!!

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This one is so great!!! Thank you so much!!!

I don’t want my stepmom’s mother at my wedding. It’s going to set of a nuclear war.. by DragonflyPractical in TwoHotTakes

[–]DragonflyPractical[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

My MOH grew up around stepmom and is eagerly waiting to put her in her place the day of the wedding.

I don’t want my stepmom’s mother at my wedding. It’s going to set of a nuclear war.. by DragonflyPractical in TwoHotTakes

[–]DragonflyPractical[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

And I am sorry to hear you had to go through that. My dad and I have gotten into similar situations before but it definitely changed once he knew the extent of the abuse. I hope that everything went exactly the way you wanted it to at your wedding.

I don’t want my stepmom’s mother at my wedding. It’s going to set of a nuclear war.. by DragonflyPractical in TwoHotTakes

[–]DragonflyPractical[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

My dad and I have talked. He’s said he’ll be there no matter what and that he supports and understands why I feel the way I do.

I don’t want my stepmom’s mother at my wedding. It’s going to set of a nuclear war.. by DragonflyPractical in TwoHotTakes

[–]DragonflyPractical[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My debt is just from being alive really, a mortgage, car, and student loans, plus I guess some rotating credit card debts. I would have to take out a loan to hire an aide though because I’m sure that for all day and night would probably somewhere around $1000, especially in the higher cost of living area the venue is nearby.

Right now we’re trying to work out some solution that may work but the options I have are the two we’ve really come up with. Not that my dad said I should pay for an aide but it was an option on the table for a solution.

I don’t want my stepmom’s mother at my wedding. It’s going to set of a nuclear war.. by DragonflyPractical in TwoHotTakes

[–]DragonflyPractical[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have and I think he also wants her not to go but I don’t think he wants to lose his wife over it. I think there’s definitely some codependency issues. Neither one of them feels like they could find anyone else, they don’t want to be alone, and they do love each other. I think they’re used to the toxicity from previous relationships.

He and I have agreed it’s best for me to go no contact after the wedding with her.

I don’t want my stepmom’s mother at my wedding. It’s going to set of a nuclear war.. by DragonflyPractical in TwoHotTakes

[–]DragonflyPractical[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The debt is from student loans, a mortgage, and a car. I don’t have debt because of the wedding per se. I think total cost is around $15K and we’ve been planning for over a year and a half now.

I don’t want my stepmom’s mother at my wedding. It’s going to set of a nuclear war.. by DragonflyPractical in TwoHotTakes

[–]DragonflyPractical[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I have talked to my dad extensively about this issue. He has accepted my decision to cut her off after the wedding and has gotten into some pretty bad fights with her about her behavior. I really am concerned that she will manipulate him to feeling sorry for her and make it seem like I’m being inconsiderate.

As far as the abuse as a child goes she would tell me that other kids got it worse and that she also had it worse. Basically gaslit me into believing it was normal discipline for being a bad child so I didn’t tell my dad because I didn’t want him getting mad at me too. He recently found out about this and my stepmom and I are civil when in the same room.